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Sexual Addiction- Are You Sexually Addicted? And How To Stop It

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By kazeemjames01



I read through a book, titled “The World Is Flat” and the writer- Friedman, in one of the pages of the book, said that Sex is the number one word being searched on Google. He got this information when he was at Google’s headquarters in the course of writing the book.

This shows the importance of the word “sex”.

However, a virus is on the street, in the minds of people, and this virus has developed to be a culture and incurable epidemic in the lives of people. It’s called Sexual Addiction.

Somehow, somewhere, anyhow, thousands of people are burning in this web of Sexual addiction. They are desperately struggling for freedom. But the more they try, they more they go deeper.

So, what is Sexual Addiction:

Simply put, it’s a craving in the mind, soul and spirit, an insatiable hunger for sex; A sexual addict cannot do without sex for a week. It’s become a curse, a virus running through the veins and blood, destroying homes, relationships and turning children, innocent people to bugs of sex.

The question is, how one can be free: The answers below:

- Number one factor needed to be free is your Willingness to be free

- Be determined to leave such attitude

Those two are the pre-stage, now going to the main ways on how to be free

1- Cut off any immoral friends, I mean female and male friends that always bringing issues of sex to you. Stop going to Hotel and motels.
Being a sex addict does not translate to the fact that you will be fertile (fertility)- am talking about a woman here.
Am not against the use of Viagra in men i.e if they have sexual problem, but my take is that don't be an addict even to the viagra- this will increase your sexual addiction.

2- Stop watching sex films

3- Be courageous, listen more to Christian tapes and videos, read christian books and listen to the word of God constantly, I mean regularly; this will help to clean up sexual thoughts from your head and brain.

4- If you are a good Christian, engage in fasting maybe once or twice a week, by doing this, you will suppress the body desires for sex

5- Stop visiting pornographic sites on the internet

6- Make friends with lively people, people that will encourage you to see a brighter future

7- Study the Bible or if you are Muslim, pray and study your Quran very well

8- Make a resolute determination to do all the steps above, and you will change gradually.

 

Final word, it’s your world, nobody will build it for you, you have the key to stop it. Be determined, courageous and discipline yourself

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Philipo profile image

Philipo  says:
3 months ago

Nice tips. Thanks.

shamelabboush profile image

shamelabboush  says:
3 months ago

Very informative. Great one.

kazeemjames01 profile image

kazeemjames01  says:
3 months ago

Thanks

DREAM ON profile image

DREAM ON  says:
3 months ago

There are so many good things in life sex is one of them.If too much time is spent on sex and not keeping up with all other aspects of life.family,friends and work and exercise.then i can see a problem.But if you have a strong desire for love and sex and have it often i think it creates more energy for other things in life.writing being one of them.

kazeemjames01 profile image

kazeemjames01  says:
3 months ago

Dream On, I quite agree with you.

beth811 profile image

beth811  says:
3 weeks ago

I think that's what they call "sex maniac?" I agree with your advice here.

BEAUTYBABE profile image

BEAUTYBABE  says:
3 weeks ago

I agree with what you say here. If more people read the Bible then the amount of crime would be a lot less. Sex is good, but in moderation. BB Good Hub

prasetio30 profile image

prasetio30  says:
3 weeks ago

really nice information. I hope I am not addicted. thanks

soyelude profile image

soyelude  says:
3 weeks ago

Sex is a gift to humanity....like all other things man has abused this wonderful "act of expression"! Nice and informative hub. Well done.

vrbmft profile image

vrbmft  says:
3 weeks ago

I do not believe that sex addiction is about sex. It's beyond sex. Its like any addiction. The person is looking for a sense of fullness or wholeness. The addict has holes in his soul or psyche or Chi or whereever one might identify that place deep inside each of us. I do not believe that the answer to sex addiction is necessarily controlling sexual impulses and behavior because if that is all one does, he or she will soon return to sexing as a way to feel fulfilled. The answer has to do with passion and discovering your passion and discovering where your passion was wounded. when one is involved in their creative passion, sexual expression tends to find an integrative way to be a PART of one's life and not the whole enchilada. I could go on and on here! As I usually do. Anyhow, just some thoughts

naveenkadian profile image

naveenkadian  says:
2 weeks ago

Really nice information for everyone.Thanks...........a lot.

archdaw profile image

archdaw  says:
2 weeks ago

Don't quite ageree with this hub, but I guess there are people out there that really needed your insight. looking foward to reading more.

J  Rosewater profile image

J Rosewater  says:
2 weeks ago

I think the most important word in this hub is gradually.

kazeemjames01 profile image

kazeemjames01  says:
2 weeks ago

Thanks everybody for your comment

dwarfstar profile image

dwarfstar  says:
6 days ago

Sex addiction is psychological problem, the more you think of it the more you crave for it. IT is in the mind..so therefore, control your mind then u control your hunger.

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