Think experientially this holiday. These "gifts" are just sexy experiences that will make the season bright for you and your partner:

1. Take a bath together. Dim the lights and burn a few candles, fill up with bubbles and let your troubles float away.

2. Ladies, take a pole dancing class and rehearse in front of your honey.

3. Lingerie shop together at Victoria's Secret or similar shoppe and enjoy choosing sexy garb and try it on again as soon as you get home.

4. Write an erotic story for your lover and read it aloud. This is sure to steam things up.

5. Exchange messages. When one feels relaxed in the body it is more likely to get one in the mood, and by one, I mean the woman.

6. Make a sexy meal. You can google "sexy foods" and find specific items that will really "whet" your appetite. Serve something chocolatey for dessert.

7. Play twister together. Take the game very seriously and the loser has to lose clothes.

8. Play strip poker. After the game, make sure the winner gets a nice reward.

Hopefully, these tips will add a little warmth to this overwhelming winter holiday. And if any of these tips lead to sex, remember all the health advantages. You will be cardiovacularly healthier and they say if you don't keep "using" it you'll lose it. So, let the sexcapades begin!