Hi there and thanks for dropping by. I write about mens gifts on my website Find That Gift For Him, and that includes sexy lingerie for men. Or at least women buying sexy lingerie to wear for their men.

I'm sure this will be controversial. Sexy Lingerie. You see there are many men who love to give lingerie to their girl.

But the question is, is a gift of sexy lingerie for her really a gift for him?

Of course women like lingerie, particularly silk lingerie. It looks feminine, it looks sexy, it makes her feel good.

It feels nice on her skin. It's sleek and slinky and she likes how it makes her feel. So many women love to have sexy lingerie in their wardrobe.

But what about when he gives it to you? Is he giving it to you because he really thinks you want some sexy lingerie, or because he loves it when you wear it?

Because there's absolutely no doubt that men love to see their women in sexy, slinky, beautiful lingerie. We love it, no question. And there's nothing wrong with that. If it makes our women look sexy for us then why not?

But I suspect that most times a man gives a woman a gift of sexy lingerie it is really, whether or not he'll admit it, a gift for him.

Here's a simple test if your man gives you some lingerie and you're wondering if he's really buying it for himself.

Ask him if it's ok if you wear it when you want to, even if that means it's at a time when he's not actually going to see it. And I'll bet he comes up with all sorts of reasons why you should wear it for him.

So he's bought it for himself as much as you.

Now I'm not criticising men for enjoying seeing their girls look sexy, far from it. I'm leading up to something here.

It's this. Lingerie is usually a gift for men.

So girls, if you're looking for a great sexy gift for men then why not buy HIM some lingerie.

Not that I mean some lingerie for him to wear. But buy yourself some wonderful slinky, sexy, sheer, beautiful lingerie and surprise him one evening by wearing it just for him. And making sure he sees it!

Now that's a sexy gift for a man that I can be confident any man would really appreciate.

You get to feel good wearing it, and he gets the gift of seeing you in it. A win win situation. Maybe you're looking for a sexy valentine gift, or a sexy birthday gift. Trust me, he'll love it if you buy lingerie for you and wear it as a sexy gift for him.

My favorite place for wonderful lingerie is Pampered Passions. (I had to spend quite some time there looking around to make my mind up )

On my site Find That Gift For Him (all about mens gifts) I've written about sexy lingerie, including for larger women. For example there are many larger women who don't realize that there are some wonderful stores around that sell great looking plus size lingerie that would leave any man weak at the knees.

Check out this article to find out more: Lingerie for larger women

And as if that isn't enough here's a few more suggestions of great lingerie sites if you're looking for a great gift for a man.

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