When it comes to the subject of foreplay, men need it just as much as women do. Not only does foreplay enhance a man’s sexual climatic experience, it also instills a sense of undoubtable lust for you too. Moreover, taking a new aggressive approach towards him is a welcomed relief now and then. Men thoroughly enjoy it when their lover happens to be hot and bothered, horny and lustful from them. It truly is a real turn on for them!

Nevertheless… I know. I know how hard it is to break out of the shell you've been hiding in.   It is hard to be the one to initiate sexual foreplay, and sex.  For some women, it is damn near impossible.

So why do you think that is? My feelings on the subject matter is that I think, some women are afraid of being rejected by their lover(s). I also think by our very nature, women are less likely to be assertive as men, especially when posing as themselves. Women naturally tend to be more self-conscience, and insecure.  One great way to overcome those self-imposed, emotional, imprisonments people, is by creating a “different” you. Therefore, what I mean by this is that it doesn’t hurt to change-up your appearance a little, if it helps you to feel more confident in the bedroom.   What do you really have to lose? {Besides another night of the same ol’, same old and even worst maybe nothing at all. So seriously, what is there to lose?}

To get yourself more confident in your new look, {especially at first} try to where your wig in the comfort of your own privacy. It is so important to get use to the way it looks on you, and how it feels on your head. If you live in a large town or city where it out in public once or twice, to build up more confidence before presenting your new look to your man. If you live in a smaller community, put it on once you’re outside of town, and where it the next time you go shopping at the local mall.

A fun way to introduce your new look to your lover. is by taking self-portraits of you in your wig, and emailing a cropped snap shot to your man. Just make sure to never reveal your complete face. In order that you not give yourself away too quick, try taking photos at an angle, or maybe even in a fun, black and white print. If you’d like; try planning a special “unveiling,” and make it a truly special evening for the both of you. There is all kind of fun things you can add to an “Unveiling” bedroom activity. Like, sprinkling red, rose pedals down the hallway to your dimly, candle lit bedroom. Where you happen to be laying naked on top your bedspread, wearing only your new red wig, and bright, crimson, red lipstick.