Should you check your partner's emails for signs of cheating. Would you open snail mail from the post office with someone else's name of it. Even if you are married, you should not open mail that does not have your name on it. It is considered trespassing and infringing upon someone's right to privacy when you open mail that is not addressed to you.

Then why do you think that it is OK to open mail because it is generated from an electronic gadget or device. Communication is communication whether information is being transported around the country in a mailman mail sack or being electronically generated from a computer. You should not have the pass word to log onto the computer if it was not given to you to use. Google and Yahoo have sign in users names and passwords that are privy to the owner of the email account. You would not open someone's bill to check payments and  balances if your name is not on the outside of the envelope. You should not use someone else's password or user name to get into their email account.

Checking your partner's computer for any reason is not ethical and it is not right. You should refrain from even thinking of "hacking" into your partner's email account even if you both were in the sheets together last night. Intimacy in the bedroom does not necessarily mean that your partner's personal business with his name on it is a reason to read his email.

If you are suspicious of your partner cheating then why check his email for evidence? Why do women think they need to check a collar for lipstick or a cell phone bill for an unfamiliar number?n If the relationship is at the point of untrustworthiness, then you are not dealing with much of an ironclad relationship. The minute that you think that something is amiss, you guessed it, something is amiss. A woman's intuition do not need a Sherlock Holmes inspector investigator on the scene to know when your partner is cheating.

Bookshelves are filled at Barnes and Nobles and the Border Bookstore of what to look for when you think that your partner is cheating. One book listed over one thousand check points to look for as if at a crime scene. You do not need one thousands ways to find out if you partner is cheating. With the advent of the computer, make that one thousand and one ways to see if your partner is cheating.  If you think he is cheating, he probably is cheating.

Even if you have his user name and password and manage to see that the email has someone other than your name in the send to box, he will deny any knowledge of it. Even if you both see another name in the send to box, he will swear that it is a computer glitch and somehow the spamming and hacking of computers threw that name in the send to box. If someone else's name is in the send to email address complete with  romantic content in the body of the email, he will still tell you that you are not seeing what you are seeing. A word from the wise is to not go to the one thousandth and one reason to find out if he is cheating.  If you think he is cheating, he probably is cheating.

Your partner must have given you other clues or you would be wanting to check his computer to see what size carat diamond he was buying for you online secretly. You are thinking of searching for evidence pertaining to cheating so more often than not, he is in fact emailing someone else. Do not accuse him of emailing someone else because you are the person who he is supposed to hide the cheating from. You are the one that makes whatever he is doing so much fun because he knows his hands do not belong in the cookie jar.  He should be satisfied with your package of Famous Amos cookies but you are suspicious so he probably is not.

Talk with your partner and spouse to see if you can work things out. You may tell him that you thought of checking his email and of course he will surely deny any wrongdoings. Should you check to see if your partner is cheating. No you can not check his email but you may check his heart. If his heart is not in the right place which is entwined with yours in love everlasting,  then it is best for you to move on complete with your private detective devices.