Are the youth of today out of control?
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We have only to switch on the television or look at a newspaper to see that every day there are a whole load of youngsters either ganging up on their teachers, vandalizing public or even private property and generally giving the impression of being completely out of control. Much more crimes are committed by the youth of today and it slowly seems to be getting more and more out of hand.
Teachers have real problems handling their classes and in some cases have even been put at risk by assaults from their students. This is something that was nearly unheard of about 50 years ago but yet now has become commonplace in oh too many schools and colleges.
One wonders why this is happening and I can only think to say that it all stems from the discipline or better said lack of discipline that they have received from within their homes. Nowadays both parents usually work and between them have far less time in which to dedicate to their children and when they do have some they are so tired that rather than muster up the energy to try and correct their children's ways, steer them in the right direction and teach them values and manners, they just give in and let them do or say what they want.
It is a fault of the parents but at the same time it isn't completely their fault either because they are just too tired at the end of a day, so it occurs to me that maybe the whole system needs to be changed around in that our work hours should be changed to make allowances for the changed working world in which now women, who in most cases are also mothers, work just as hard as men and are deprived of having the necessary time that both them and their children need.
There has often been talk of reducing the working week by giving Fridays off but maybe a better answer would be for firstly yes to be able to have Fridays off for those that chose that option but secondly for the people who wanted to, instead of having Friday off, to be able to cut down the hours that they worked during each week thus giving them a shorter working day.
This way both parents could be at home a little earlier each day, they would not be quite so tired and they could dedicate to their children the extra time that they had gained. Maybe they could all do something together as a family unit and be able to talk and also listen to their children.
The children of today are nearly all left to their own devices as from mid afternoon when their school day comes to a finish and during which time they lock themselves away with their computers and other technological toys which on top of it is where they can find violent games and gruesome ideas and so they haven't really had a chance to learn how to interact well with other people of their own age and even less with adults. But eventhough they don't interact well they are still allowed to go out and do things at a much younger age than their parents did.
At any rate, I hope that something can be done to improve the situation because there is nothing nicer than seeing well mannered youngsters. But having said all this I also think that us adults don't help them that much either as our whole world has become more violent than ever and you would think that we would start to learn from past mistakes but as they say it is only humans who hit a rock twice!!!
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You have a very good point there and I agree with you on that one but I still believe that it is important for parents to spend more time with their children.
Absolutely! Sorry I didn't mean to disagree with you or infer that - I'm one who believes that a mother or father should stay at home until the child goes to school! I have always tried to talk to my children and their friends - while I disagree with them half the time, it's an important part of growing up! Something interesting happened just yesterday. When they were 11 or 12 I used to 'nag' them about what they watched on TV especially some of the music - they argued about freedom of choice is good and censorship is bad. However, they are 18 now and we had the same discussion - they agree now that censorship is important - freedom to create 'music' is important, but also it is important to make sure that certain music is not aimed at young children!
Very well said and it looks like you have a good communication with your children and that they are growing up to be understanding and sensible adults which is lovely and it is precisely this kind of communication that lacks in some other families. You're doing a good job of it all so well done as it can't always be easy.












SimeyC says:
4 months ago
Well I understand what you say and you do have some points - however I think that part of this is because there is more coverage! There's always been problems with teenagers etc, my friends used to go to other schools and line up waiting for fights - it's called teenage angst. The difference being that it was never reported. Now TV plays a part in showing all the 'bad' things - it doesn't show how many teenagers support each other, help each other through turbulent times - it only shows one side of the picture! It doesn't show how the teenagers I know embrace differeces in color, differences in sexuality, differences in politics - they don't judge - it doesn't show how more aware they are of the world!