First I would like to state that gay people are indeed people just like us but with a different sexual preference, I do not discriminate. There has been a recent wave of gay men surfacing around Chicago, I wont mention names but most of the out of the closet men were either married or had girlfriends.

Women need to protect themselves by knowing the tell tell signs because this subject is one of the leading causes of STD. So you say your boyfriend or husband has been acting strange ,here a some of the signs to look for. We're going to go with the does he game and if you find yourself saying yes to more than 15 of the questions or at least a majority,chances are he's definitely down low. Please don't by any means let this cause a problem in your relationship,if you have suspicions just ask him.

 

1. Does he show an interest in the way you style your hair by saying remarks such as thats hot,oh you're working that do,what kind of mousse did you use,did you wash your hair with a PH balance shampoo,or try to style your hair himself?

2. Does he wear more colorful clothing than you or have a fascination with pink or rainbows?

3. Does he spend hours in the bathroom doing his hair or in the mirror?

4. Are his pants always seeming to get tighter and tighter?

5. Does he hug or touch his friends in weird kinds of ways?

6. Does he look at other guys judging how they look or how something they have on looks,does he do it too much?

7. Does he watch weird or gay porn?

8. Does he listen to the divas such as Patti La belle,Celine Dion,Aretha Franklin or watch Americas next top model more than you?

9. Does he like for you to do wierd things to him sexually that a female would most often prefer?

10. Does he watch soap operas knowing all the characters and whats happening?

11. Does he get mad if he misses Oprah or another talk show?

12. Does he spend time at the shop getting his nails and feet done?

13. Does he do facials alot?

14. Does he smell the scented candles in Walgreen's or other stores?

15. Does he comment on your friends clothing alot? His friends clothing?

16. Does he wear makeup,eyeliner perhaps?

17. Does he act unusually too happy when a hot guy approaches?

18. Does he pluck his eyebrows to shape them?

19. Does he get nervous or offended when someone comments about a gay person?

20. Does he spend too much time with a single male friend?

21. Does he gossip about other people to you?

22. Does he ever comment on men looking good or being sexy?

23. Does he have a best friend that is gay?

24. Does he wear thong underwear?

25. Does he seem not to enjoy sex as much with you?

26. Does he talk funny or shyish like?

27. Does everyone else think he's gay?

28. Does he ever talk about ex girlfriends?

29. Does he prefer shopping at the mall more than you?

30. Does it take him forever to pick an outfit?

31. Does he seem like a female friend you'd hang out with?

32. Does he watch alot of romance movies,musicals?

33. Does he listen to alot of love songs?

34. Does he get excited when the circus comes to town?

35. Does he perm or straighten his hair?

36. Does he own a set of flat or curling irons?

37. Does he trim his penis hairs?

38. Does he shave his legs often to have them smooth n silky?

39. Does he own a YMCA CD?

40. Does he have a magazine in his collection that shows gay men talk about gay subjects?

41. Does he use any lip gloss other than carmex that has a fruity flavor?

42. Does he walk with sort of a switch but still manly?

43. Does he choose the majority of your clothes when you shop together?

44. Does he like to dress up sometimes or role play with you where he gets to be the woman?

45. Does he have a fantasy about getting spanked?

46. Does he have male friends who's girlfriends you've met?

Again these are only a few signs that I have come across but if there is something I may have missed please alert me on it in the comment section so that I made ad it, then we can finally get to the bottom of the down low subject. Its not even what these men do that women care about,sure it would hurt if you have been in a relationship or marriage for more than 5 years,have children or not, the fact is women have deicated themselves to men who were cowards,who couldnt face themselves by not letting the world know who they are,but wouldnt change themselves to live the husband or boyfriend part they play. This is a dangerous game because in the end its the female that gets hurt,so we really gotta be careful these days because most men will show no signs at all, but if you feel it,its got to be there somewhere.

There is never anything wrong with being yourself,nobody in the world should have to pretend to be someone to be what others would prefer.