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By Jerilee Wei


"I wasn’t really asleep I was just meditating on unconsciousness.” -- Unknown
"I wasn’t really asleep I was just meditating on unconsciousness.” -- Unknown

Jammy Time

Summer time is the time to re-set your children (and your own) sleep clocks. Maybe it's not possible during the hectic school year for any of you to sleep in, except on the occasional weekend -- but school being out and summer offer a real chance to get much deserved and "needed" sleep.

In general, kids need between nine and eleven hours of sleep while they are still growing.


      “Last night I dreamed I had insomnia. I woke up exhausted, yet too well rested to go back to sleep.” -- Bob Ingman
“Last night I dreamed I had insomnia. I woke up exhausted, yet too well rested to go back to sleep.” -- Bob Ingman

Your Child And Lack Of Sleep

Some of the research on children and lack of sleep is very disturbing. It's well documented that children who gets mostly A's and B's in school get on average, forty minutes of sleep every night than those with lower grades.

Kids who don't get enough sleep are more apt to also significantly be:

  • Depressed
  • Without energy when awake
  • Tired
  • Tense
  • Moody and stressed
  • Irritable
  • Have a negative self image
  • Have ADHD
  • Problematic behaviors
  • Lower levels of social skills with peers and adults
  • Be hyperactive
  • Less attentive
  • Have difficulty learning
  • Be prone to breathing disorders
  • Be twice as likely to frequently and loudly snore
  • Have poor coping skills
  • Perform poorly in test taking, failing a startling forty-two percent more frequently, than kids who got the age appropriate amount of sleep

 


      “Sleep is when all the unsorted stuff comes flying out as from a dustbin upset in a high wind” -- William G. Golding
“Sleep is when all the unsorted stuff comes flying out as from a dustbin upset in a high wind” -- William G. Golding

Sleep Tips For Elementary School Aged Children

Many children in this age group (ages five to twelve) don't get enough sleep according to the American Academy of Sleep Medicine.

Here are some tips to make sure that your children get the sleep that they need:

  • Kids need sleep routines. Not only do children like consistency, they need it and so do their bodies and brains.
  • Bedtime snacks of tryptophan (an amino acid necessary to sleep) are a good habit to introduce to your children (cheese, milk, yogurt).
  • Avoid the sleep trap of excessive liquids being drunk in the hour before bedtime. Nip kids waking up to go to the bathroom in the bud, by making sure they don't have a full bladder.
  • Avoid excessive "electronic" stimulation such as frightening or high action movies or video games right before bedtime.
  • Avoid excessive high energy games and rough housing that stimulate excitable children close to bedtime. A rule of "quiet time" close to bedtime can work wonders.
  • Make use of traditional and transitional cherished items (dolls, stuffed animals, or other favorite toys) that kids can sleep with. This provides security and comfort.
  • Make sure that your child's bedroom is conductive for sleep. The room should be cool, quiet, and have little or no light ideally. Additionally, remove from sight daytime exciting toys that tempt little ones away from the business of sleeping.
  • Don't skimp on providing your children proper mattresses, comforters, and pillows. Also be aware of proper pillow placement for a good night's sleep. 


“Take rest; a field that has rested gives a bountiful crop.” -- Ovid
“Take rest; a field that has rested gives a bountiful crop.” -- Ovid

Sleep Tips For Teens

Well, in the full tilt age of them "knowing it all" it's hard to convince teens that sleeping is just as important to their health and daily performance, as it is to an infant.

It's no secret to parents that teens are late to sleep and late to rise -- an obvious challenge in parenting, both during the school year and during more relaxed summer. However, this is a period of high growth for their bodies and minds, and they needed their sleep, admit it or not.

Encourage them to:

  • Choose a consistent and reasonable summer time bedtime and develop the habit of reading for ten to fifteen minutes before sleeping, rather than falling asleep to the television or stereo.
  • Establish a bedtime routine that they can carry with them to college and adulthood, by taking a relaxing shower or bath each night.
  • Educate them on the folly of caffeine in the late afternoon and evening. Caffeine is one stimulant that inhibits healthy sleep no matter what your age is.
  • Make them aware that physical activity should be avoided close to bedtime. Exercise shouldn't be too close to bedtime, as it will be a stimulant and make for a poor night's sleep. Exercise about five hours before bedtime is more appropriate.
  • Teach them before they reach their teens that stimulating activities, such as video games, the Internet, and television in the bedroom shouldn't take place right before bedtime.
  • Gift your teens with the awareness that they need balance between sports, other activities, music, work, and even friends. This is especially important at this age group in learning and establishing the life skill of managing their time wisely, including their sleep time.

Note: Ideally, studies have found that during teen years it is much more normal for teens to be awake from 10:00 a.m. to 11:00 p.m.

Teens and Sleep Deprivation


"The best bridge between despair and hope is a good night's sleep." -- Anonymous
"The best bridge between despair and hope is a good night's sleep." -- Anonymous

Summertime Sleep Habits Die Hard

Sometimes all good things have to come to an end to adjust to new realities. Summer sleep ins for kids have to be reset in time for school to start up again.

You can reset your children's internal sleep clock before school starts by:

  • Starting about ten days before school starts, begin moving up bedtime by 15-20 minutes.
  • At the same time, begin waking your children up by the same amount of time.
  • During this time, also try to have breakfast outside in the early morning, as morning sunshine helps to reset the internal clock. Motivate them by having a surprise each morning that gets them excited about getting up.

 

Restless Leg Syndrome in Children

Restless leg syndrome (aka RLS) isn't just something that happens to adults. Children can have sleep problems too. Parents often ignore this symptom which shows up very often with other modern day childhood diagnoses, such as ADD and ADHD and shortened attention spans.

Almost six percent of this nation's children have RLS. It's frequently dismissed as growing pains and often tied to an iron deficiency. It is also thought to be genetic.

Sleep Disorders In Children

Summer Sleep Ins in the News

  • Black Friday, boutique style: Sleep late and still save bigPioneer Press6 hours ago

    Most everybody was late for the big Black Friday sale in Stillwater, which by standards of the day was itself a late starter. Turns out, these shoppers like to sleep in the day after Thanksgiving. But it didn't matter.

  • IOCP Sleep Out reaches 25 percent of $2 million goal in one weekPlymouth Sun-Sailor5 hours ago

    What a difference a year makes. Through the first six days of Interfaith Outreach and Community Partners' 2009 Sleep Out campaign, the organization has brought in $500,000 in donations.

  • Most sleep tight night before CATThe Times of India13 hours ago

    While the largest number of CAT aspirants surveyed (26%) said they’d prefer to sleep the evening before the Common Admission Test — the gateway to the prestigious Indian Institutes of Management.

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BkCreative profile image

BkCreative  says:
7 months ago

You know, I've taught for many years and our kids are constantly coming to school sleep deprived. I've read studies in the past that said this is one of the main reasons for the hyper behavior. It is such an easy problem to fix. Our children are not ill - they are just tired.

Thanks for publishing this - hope many parents will listen. If your children always need an alarm clock or a screaming, stressed out parent to wake them - then they are not getting enough sleep.

Jerilee Wei profile image

Jerilee Wei  says:
7 months ago

Thanks BkCreative! Tired and nutritionally starved by our American lifestyle.

Aya Katz profile image

Aya Katz  says:
7 months ago

Jerilee, thanks for this very practical hub about children, teenagers and sleep. I think another culprit is daylight savings time. Bow naturally goes to bed when the sun goes down. With daylight savings time, though, this ends up "later" than otherwise. This also affects my special time with Sword, which only begins when Bow has gone to sleep. If we only begin that at eight, it's hard to be done and in bed before ten.

I imagine that cheap electricity, daylight savings time and a few other modern "conveniences" are very much to blame for the sleep deprivation that many young people experience. It's really very easy to fall asleep when everything gets dark...

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Jerilee Wei  says:
7 months ago

Thanks Aya!  Glad to see you back, your insights, hubs, questions, and comments have been missed by many.  Good point, daylight savings time does play a role. Hope your storm damage isn't still a problem.

You made me think about growing up in the desert in a time when air conditioning wasn't the norm.  While we tend to think of naps and quiet afternoon rests as something for babies, I know from those days the value of a good afternoon nap.  Is that possible with Bow? 

Modern day electronic distractions are also big cause of lack of sleep and over stimulation of children. 

Here it's difficult to get the right amount of darkness for proper sleep when the houses have zero lot clearances and neighbors motion detector lights come on and off on both sides of you

cashmere profile image

cashmere  says:
7 months ago

With school hours and social activities being what they are it is indeed difficult to get the children to sleep enough. In fact I often feel sleep deprived myself. Very nice hub.

Jerilee Wei profile image

Jerilee Wei  says:
7 months ago

Thanks cashmere! I know what you mean, sleep when they sleep has often been my motto.

Aya Katz profile image

Aya Katz  says:
7 months ago

Jerilee, thanks for noticing my absence! Things are under control, and the dead tree was cleared away today. We're putting up a new chicken coop and there are lots of non-Hubpage related activities scheduled in the next few weeks, so it will be a while before I'm fully as active here as before Easter.

Artificial outdoor lighting all night long is such a bad idea, for many reasons, not the least of which is the way it interferes with our natural rhythms.

I want Sword to sleep as much as she likes in the summer, but I want her to get up at a reasonable hour, too, because taking care of the chickens is going to be one of her chores. That's why keeping a reasonable bedtime seems like a better solution than sleeping in all morning.

Yes, Bow does like to take afternoon naps, but only if I, or another caretaker, naps with him. He won't let us go off and do something else.

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Hawkesdream  says:
6 months ago

Thanks for this, I hope my daughter in law sees it, my grandson sleeps such a lot weekends, it seems that he is just trying to catch up.

Jerilee Wei profile image

Jerilee Wei  says:
6 months ago

Thanks Aya! I can see where sleep patterns could be problematic and how sleeping in all morning wouldn't work in your situation.

Thanks Hawkesdream! Catching up is so very hard to do when it comes to sleep.

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Lissie  says:
6 months ago

I have never slept so much as when we 6 months camping - we were generally asleep at 9pm and awake at dawn usually aboutt 7am - artificial light has a lot to answer for. Though I think its crazy that high school starts so early - I remember a local school years ago moved the school day forward an hour by making the first period non-compulsory "study time" so school started at 10am - makes a lot of sense to me - I never could wake up before 9am without an alarm until my mid 40s!

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Jerilee Wei  says:
6 months ago

Thanks Lissie! It's a shame that modern life does not allow for just depending on our own natural clocks. That was a smart local school. Some high schools in Central Florida went to something similar, only because of budget cuts this year, threw out what was working and went back to the old much earlier hours. Guess they didn't learn anything other than money rules.

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Lissie  says:
6 months ago

Having been full-time working at home since Feb I now find I naturally go to bed at 11pm and wake at 7am - its not far off what i had to do for years for a job - but because I am under no pressure to leave the house, or even get dressed its so much better!

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Jerilee Wei  says:
6 months ago

Thanks Lissie! I'm retired and that's pretty much the same hours my own clock found.

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