As a lifetime advocate for the overdue respect, and resounding encores due black women, this piece was a must do for me.

Again I find charges being unfairly hurled against black women. This time it the degregation of the black community and family unit. Well let's take a realistic look at black women that have found themselvves unwittingly in a context they didn't embrace.

 Inbred distrust, and manipulations, disrespect , abuse, and abandonment by the very men they are responsible for giving breath to, disjointed family units facilitated by substandard academic institutions misdirecting her children, and to say nothing of the infusion of drugs and alcohol through the back door of her communities and homes have claimed more of her men and boys than the community can produce.

 Every since her existence, the black woman has been the target necessary to be acquired to steer the black nation into eventual oblivion. A fact , that has been loss through a smoke screen of covert operatives dismissed as racial theories and dysfunctional family units.

 The trajectory routes, as has been the weapons are many. From the slave masters retched violations of her womanhood , to the abandonment of her by her own men and sons she gave life breath, hope and love to. She' been pitted against her own sisterhood by her own sisterhood and often times forced to defend her very God given cause against her own. Her men and boys are abandoning her at an alarming rate through no fault of her own. And the very institution, the church, that was always her mainstay through trials and tribulations has preyed upon her then cast her to the forefront as some demonic soldier of satan responsible for the plummet of another man of the cloth's fall from grace.

 When she addresses the plight, she is tagged as being antagonistically, misaligned , and hateful . When she demands her standards be met, and her validation of a true woman be rewarded, she's tagged a PMS imbalanced angry, golddigger. Reverse psychology at it's finest I would submit.

 She bear children for own men only to have those very men disown not only her, but the lives they merged as one.

 This is not a theory. It's cold hard facts. I don't believe for one moment that the fact that one half or more of all single mothers are African American is an accident or a statistic compiled by the choices of the sect it represents. I can tell you how we got here too.

 It begins with education. The vast majority of our children , through the plight of inferiorly educated parents, wind up in poorly performing academic climates themselves as a result of impoverished social and that all important economic arena.

Bottom level education and social development only has one correct sum. That sum being bottom level self support systems comprised of further self esteem eroding conditions stacked on by the bottom tier social environment. Add these together and the sum of those two parts is the debacle into crime and incarceration.

A vast majority of black men that can't function in mainstream's stacked arena turn to the criminal sector. At this juncture, self defeating choices are imminent daily. We began to despise the the face of the being that delivered us into this hellhole. We direct the the blunt of the blame for our demise at the black woman, being too malnourished in education to to see, she gave us the opportunity by giving us life, it's us that refused the opportunity by not attempting to break the redundant cycle of oppression, instead we feebly attempt to manufacture a crutch to support our self adopted reasons for the state of ourselves and our communities.

 We have a bad racial stigma, that we perpetuated, not some mystical white man. That stigma? Simple..."It's not my fault" The hell it isn't.

But we know this. The question is when are we collectively going to unify ourselves and stop this?