TRUST IS A WORD THAT CAUSES CONFLICTED

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By chicago girl


ISSUES WITH THE WORD TRUSTED

 

TRUST-the position of somebody who is expected by others to behave responsibly or honorably. is this something we have to earn from one another? Some will say the foundation for marriage is base on trust is this true.

I believe most people have issues with trusting other, we can say that we trust our spouses and our close friend.

  Have you ever looked at his phone after he came home, maybe looked through his wallet.

If you have ever once found you self wonder if they were fooling  around!!! Well guess what you do not trust them a hundred percent . My questions would be why is that question always there, is  this just human nature, or maybe it is listen to bad situation that other are in  and fear that it might happen to you.

 

My problem is i think certain  word can cause controversy in a relationships or marriages, WHY?

We put a label on something that we have not control over, is it trusting or hoping that whom ever t will behave honorably.

 

From mine own experience most people will question if their spouse if being faith to them does this we truly don't trust or pure fear of losing the one you love the most?

The mind goes crazy in fear other doing wrong ,then the war begin. Do we do damage to the relationship when this happen or are we just let the other know how insecure we are.

 

 

When you here the words" you need to trust me " should be a big red flag" or are they just ask to not be accused of doing wrong anymore. When you accuses someone of doing wrong will they eventually do it, after all if your receiving the consequence either way.

I think the word trust is used on a emotional base to make other feel good about the relationship and the bottom line is ,everyone has crazy thought about what other are doing when they are not with each other this is HUMAN NATURE  so we need to think before we speak, when our mind wonder off a bit in the crazy place. 



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badcompany99  says:
8 months ago

You deff will always have my trust and look at your hubscore almost at the 90, I love watching your progress and I await your next hub.

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