I think this is more directed towards men....because after all I am a "man". So lets just tackle this from a man's point a view shall we?

Men have you ever had a feeling in your gut that things are just not right with your "ole" lady? Have you ever felt that something what not on the up and up? Well this hub is for you. You can call me paranoid, or insecure, but sometimes its not just you trip'n. I am 35, which people still think that that is young. But the difference between them and me.....I have seen and have experienced so much more then the average. So just like the cheating things there are signs. For example, THE CELL PHONE..when women are up to shit, they are protective of thier phone, then theres a problem. The thing is you dont really know whats going on....but you feel it, thats the first start of knowledge.

I have dated alot of women, and they all say the same thing.." I want a man that will treat me right and with respect." You know what that means? That means, to have money and to serve the @#$% right. But even then its like being greedy, its like they want more.....kinda like us. Its kinda like how I caught my ex ex. She changed her every way. She went to work out, even changed her underwear. Oh I was not going to notice that......right? Come on now!!! Men, when women cheat they become emotionlly involved. That is thier only weakness. And it shows. Because if someone is giving it to you ole lady right it will show.......trust me...even if you thought you were the best...theres always someone better.

So what do you want me to say? Or how do you want me to break it down? For one you cant stop her. She will find away to do what she has to do, so dont kill yourself trying to stop it. All you can do is be watchful, and she will slip up. Its the nature of the beast. If she is a WOMAN she will stay with what she knows, which is her "secert lover" and it will tell on her in the end.

If you are like me, well you just let them think that your stupid and then put the pieces together. Trust me it doesnt take long. If your lady is not having sex with you, best believe, it happening somewhere else......this is a fact. Remember read my hubs, women are better at this game then us. If you have a feeling, most likely its true, you just have to watch whats going on around you. I know its hard but you have to sit there and dont say a damn thing!!! Just watch, observe, and then make your jugdment. All I can say is dont be nobodys fool. Your first thought is usally your fist thought. Always trust your gut.....dont jump the gun, just watch......and be nice, untill you have proof of the crazy feelings that you were having. OK?

Oh and pray for the truth. If you are not ready for God's truth, then dont ask Him....because He will show you, probably what you dont want to see. And if He does, ask Him for restraint to deal with the truth...ok?

Love and Peace......Jykeith