Disastrous relationships should be avoided like disastrous storms. Just as meterologists can predict when a storm is on its way, here are five steps to let you know when a disastrous front is heading to your  relationship.

Warning One: The cold front is the relationship have neither one of you talking to each other. There is a communication gap bridge that has to be connected so that the two of you can swim through the ails of your relationship. The silence treatment lets your partner know that you are angry but does nothing to fix the communication gap. You need to open up the bridge and get to talking to your partner about why the relationship does not seem to be working out.. Discuss the issue,. come to a conclusion or compromise and then forget the incident. Keeping the communication gap open does not to give your relationship a warm front so that the it does not become a disastrous relationship.

Warning Two: The quiet storm has crept into the bedroom and now the two of you sleep back to back without any intimacy. Relationship need the intimacy that only the two of you share. The shared unison of body and soul heals the stresses of the day and bring the two of you together in a bond that actually opens up other communication channels. Without the bedroom liason and the place to share important communication decision and a lot of these are made in the bedroom, the relationship may be headed to a disastrous situation.

Warning Three: Frequent outbursts of adrenalin that is the result of constant disagreement is a sign of a disastrous relationship. If you find that you are the sounding board from your partner after a long day at work, then you need to address the issue. You need to make sure that the frustrations are not settling on your relationship when the solution of the problem lies elsewhere. If there is an argument, do not bring up issues of the past that can not be solved in the present and in the present state of disagreement. Change the setting to a quiet front by waiting for the tides of the argument to change to that of a low tide and then discuss the real problem.

Warning Four: Unequal status in the financial state of the relaitonship can cause a relationship to be disastrous. Early on in the relationship especially if there is talk of marriage, you both should know the other philosophy on spending and saving. You will have to curtail y our shopping if the two of you have agreed to buy a house together. You must be financial responsible so tha the relationship does not become disastrous because of differences on the management of money.

Warning Five: A couple having uncommon interests can cause the relationship to spiral into a disastrous situation. It is a saying that opposites attract but this old adage is not always true if an interest of one partner is of disinterest to the other to constant arguing and bickering about what the other does. Come to a common ground and adapt to the other unique interests to avoid a disastrous relationship.