No matter how good looking a man is when you first meet, when you start to get to know each other, here are the 7 types of men that will suddenly turn that handsome guy into an ugly duckling. A woman will run for the hills when she comes across certain deal breakers in a new relationship. Keep in mind, this a woman's perspective, not a nun's.

7. The Slacker. You may seem wonderful at first, but if you don't have a job you're not long term commitment potential no matter how much she likes you. I don't mean to sound materialistic, but I am a realist, if you don't have a car and she has to pick you up, it's going to get old. When you still live at home and your mom still cooks for you, does your laundry and yells at you for not taking out the trash or because you forgot to mow the yard, you've got a lot of growing up to do if you want to be in a serious relationship. Unless you're a full time student, and so is she, it might be ok, but for most women, we want you to have it together before you get involved with us. We ALL know what women want out of a relationship: a long term commitment, marriage, a home, and children. If you have really bad credit, that could also be a problem because that shows her that you are not responsible.

6. The Pretty BOY or METRO-Sexual. Ok, ladies... admit it! Metro's can seem a little too gay for a straight guy! Leave the shopping and a day at the spa, for you and your girlfriends. We don't want to watch our knight in shining armor getting a manicure while he is getting a pedicure right next to us, especially if he wears clear nail polish. We love it when our men dress up, but not everyday! If he tries to look like a Calvin Klein model on a regular basis and would rather watch QVC with you instead of sports, that is kind of weird. Fellas, we like when you experiment with color in your wardrobe, but anything pink may be a little too much if you're already doing other metro things. If a man spends more money on his hair products then we do, or if his apartment looks like a page out of the Crate and Barrel or Ikea catalog, that really isn't cute. It's cool for men to like nice things, but come on! Don't go overboard and start swimming in the gay sea. The Pretty Boy: A guy that spends more time getting ready then we do can start to seem a little full of himself, conceited, and maybe a little arrogant. Yes, we want you to look and smell good when we go out, but don't over do it. If we're waiting around for you for too long, we may walk out the door and never come back.

5. Mr. Sensitive. It's cool if your man went with you to see the Sex and the City Movie, and if he watches other chick flicks with you but make sure he is also into Action, Adventure, Sci-fi, and other manly movies. Any guy that cries during a chick flick may seem a little too soft for us. We want the hero not a drag-king. We don't want a push-over either because we won't respect you if we can walk all over you. If we can beat you up then that is a problem too when what we really want is a man that can defend our honor at the drop of a hat. Baby talk can be a little cute, but not too much and not during sex! Never ever refer to your, or our, sexual organ in baby talk, baby talk is only cute when playing or when you want to be sweet, like when you're in trouble for something small, don't turn it into your native language. Whining is not cute either! There is nothing more unattractive then a cry baby boyfriend! When guys cry for us, at first it's cool because we think you have real feelings, but if you're crying all the time, you can come off as a sissy!

4. The Super Jock & the Car-man. If you're on steroids and all bulked up, you're really like a woman's play ground and we just want to play on your equipment. I know it sounds shallow, but it is more fantasy then real relationship potential. If all you can talk about is sports and what happened today at the gym, it gets really boring. It's great to be athletic, but don't over-kill it, have some intelligence, substance, and be able to have meaningful conversations. Don't ask me what I ate today or how many protein shakes I had. If we want to talk about our work out and want some suggestions, maybe we'll ask you if you're a personal trainer, but please have the ability to communicate other thoughts and ideas.The Car-Man: If all you can talk about is cars, you have the same problem as the super-jock, you must have other information to share and communicate. Even if you're a car dealer or a mechanic, we really have no interest in cars until ours break down and you fix it for us. When you go on and on about a subject we know little to nothing about, our A.D.D kicks in and before you know it, you're all alone.

3. The Super-FREAK. We love great sex! Honestly, we do... but when you start getting a little too nasty, we start to worry about STD's and your nasty belt with all the notches. Now, in this case, if the woman is a nasty girl, then you're a match made in heaven, but unless you have other things to offer then it probably won't last long. You can only have so much sex with out the intimacy of a relationship, you know, long talks and walks in the park. There has to be more to a relationship then just sex, what are you going to do when she can't do anything for a couple of days? Don't you want some kind of substance in your relationship besides lube? Don't think we are hard to please, but a conversation can take you further and deeper in a relationship besides an orgasm, which is equally as important. The super-freak has fling and rebound potential, try to save all your good tricks for when you're emotionally invested in her.

2. The Control Freak. We love it when men take charge, but don't try to keep it all to yourself. In a relationship, you have to share the power and make decisions together, but if you don't let her get a word in edge wise, it will get old... QUICK. No intelligent woman is going to be your bobble head and let you run her life and make all her decisions. In Hispanic couples, it's the Machismo thing that we love to hate. We do love it when you take control in certain situations but don't be a power hog! Before you start telling us what to do, how to dress, try to keep us from our normal routine, or keep us away from our family and friends, you should know that these are ALL red flags for us in a relationship and her people will notice and let her know what they see as the writing on the wall. If you criticize her and her friends or family you are headed to the singles bar. Besides, most of us think that when you're trying to control us too much, it's because YOU'RE doing something you shouldn't be doing.

1. The Momma's Boy. If your mom still dresses you or has to be a part in your decision making all the time, that is a big problem. If she always has something negative to say about the girls you bring home you might as well marry her! Meddling mothers are a major problem in relationships and marriages, it can also be the source of many long drawn out fights and arguments. No one is asking you to turn against your mother, but you do need to stick up for us when she is out of line or crosses any important boundaries. We really don't want to put you in the middle of a tug-o-war between your mom and us, but mothers need to learn when to butt out and understand that you're all grown up and not her baby boy anymore. We're not suggesting that you need to cut her off completely or that you're not allowed to talk to her any more, but what we really want is for you to be independent of your mother's influence. Make sure your mom cuts the cord before you get involved in a serious relationship before the two queens in your life fight over the throne! You will always have your mother's love no matter what you do, but you don't want to lose the love of your life because your mom doesn't know when to mind her own business. There is no need for mothers to nit pick and be involved in every aspect of your life, when she sees that you're not being treated right then she needs to speak up, other wise, she shouldn't say a peep. Haven't you seen Everybody Loves Raymond? If a woman marries your whole family when she marries you, no one wants to marry MARIE! With that said, women, don't smother your sons because you're only making it impossible to find a good girl to marry him and take care of him in the future.

If a woman has broken up with you and has accused you of being any of the 7 types of men mentioned, it is probably true and you may want to re-evaluate your style. No one wants you to change, but you can get tweaked a little here and there because when you think about it, they sare small changes. For example, if you're a jock or car-man, talk about other interesting things like current events, new ideas, and other topics. If you're a momma's boy, get out from behind her apron and don't let your mom have so much control because she is really hindering your true independance. If you don't want to change anything, then you will have to wait for that one in a million type of girl that will love you 100% as you are and won't get bored or tired of it. Good luck!