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The Differences between Sex and Love

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By samchoo


Sex and Love are are twin sisters

What is the difference between love and sex? Is it possible to love someone without having sex?

Yes, there are difference between love and sex, but because they look twin sisters, people are confused. That's why when men said to naive virgins: "If you love me, then have sex with me." The ignorant succumbed to this disinformation. If he respect your body, he will ask you to keep your body holy for your wedding night.

You can love a person without having sex. Having sex does not mean you love a person. Sound confusing?

Love is more than just a romantic feeling because such 'puppy love' feelings come and go. In most relationships, these feelings last for only a few months. Love is a commitment to stick to a person at all times, whether in good times or bad times, with good teeth or with bad breath, in good health or bedridden, in youthful beauty or in wrinkled ugliness, in wealth or in poverty.

According to Gary Chapman in his book "The Five Love Languages", love can be expressed in five ways - spending quality time, gifts, acts of service, physical touch and words of affirmation.

Sex is one way to express love. But sex is not always not always an expression of love. To some men, it is a release of a physical urge. When he is hungry he eats. When he has the sexual urge, he visits a sex therapist. In this instance, there is no love attached in the physical act. So it is possible for a man to make love to a woman without loving her.

Another difference between sex and love - sex lasts only while it stands but love lasts whether it stands or not.

Is it possible to love someone without having sex? Of course! How could it be possible to make love to all the people we love? How we wish.

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Tatjana-Mihaela  says:
14 months ago

Great hub, clear and honest. I agree with you completely. Love is love, only sometimes connected with sexuality. Just to add one fact: with learning how from man, woman also can have sex instead of love-making.

Thank you for this hub.

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