The Importance of Personal Values

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Values help you get motivated.

Values help you get and stay motivated. Values relate to our purpose in life and are used as guiding principles, rules if you will, to make your life easier. What is important to you? What is important about your business? Do your personal and business values align?

Values provide you with a strong foundation; a method for living your life to it’s fullest. Values will also help you in finding your purpose in life. From the list of values provided, choose your top values and live by them. If you already have values that you use, confirm that these values are in alignment with your business goals, and mission and vision statements.

If your business values and personal values are in alignment, great. If they are not, you will be dissatisfied, unhappy, and you will definitely not generate the results you want. Difficult to be a bank robber and think you can save the world. No alignment there.

Values help you gain real clarity about what you stand for.

1. Choose ten words from the following list that appeal to you.

2. Select the top four of these words and place one on each line as your Top Four values.

3. Choose to live by these Top Four values for at least the next thirty days.

4. At the end of thirty days, review these Top Four words to see if they still work for you. If not, substitute as needed.

You will not be graded; this is not a test. You are looking at what works for you, not someone else. If you want to change your values, do it.

Use Your Values Daily: How values can work for you.

Say you chose the word "generous" from the list of Values. It could mean that each and every day, you were helpful to others or shared more of who you are with others. With practice, being “generous” becomes a familiar aspect of who you are and you would start attracting other people who were “generous”. You would look for reasons to be “generous” and you would be “generous” to yourself”.

Choose 4 Values from this Sample List:

Accepting, inspire, accomplished, intelligent, kind

Aware, knowledgeable, beautiful, leader, brave, loving

Calm, motivated, compassionate, observant, organized

Connected, original, cooperative, passionate, courageous, patient

Creative, peaceful, decisive, perceptive, devoted, persistent

Disciplined, playful, discriminating, prepared, receptive, energetic resilient, enthusiastic, respectful, excited, responsible, expert, risk-taker, satisfied, flexible, sensible, sensitive, fulfilled, spiritual, generous spontaneous, graceful, strong, grateful, happy, thoughtful, harmonious thorough, humorous, trusting, independent, willing, insightful, wise

Reminder: First choose ten from the above list. Then, choose your Top Four Favorites. Use these Top Four values to live your life and your business by.

1. _________________

2. _________________

3. _________________

4. _________________

When you live by your four chosen values, your business and personal life will have more purpose, more focus and more possibilities. Now make it real.

America's Vision Coach

Joanne Victoria
Joanne Victoria

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Satori profile image

Satori  says:
15 months ago

This is wonderful. Getting away from values leads to empty, unfulfilling activity - and it can't possibly satisfy. People have done that individually, collectively, and the entire political system does it - which is why it's neither particularly satisfying, nor particularly functional. Thanks for advocating a choice to live by ones' values - they're what make the things we do meaningful, and so often overlooked in today's essentially meaningless society. Thumbs Up!

Ntathu Allen  says:
15 months ago

Thanks for this Joanne. Running my own business means I place great value on working with people whose values are in harmony with mine. It makes such a difference to how we relate and connect. Great example you have given us. I have chosen four values from your list and will consciously focus on being those values and seeing them reflected in my daily life - calm, trusting, thoughtful and persistent. It will be interesting to see what difference it makes to "my life"..... watch this space. Ntathu

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qlcoach  says:
15 months ago

Great Hub on how people can begin to make changes. I use the value approach when I counsel inmates in the jail or on probation in Grants Pass, Oregon. Believe it or not, the two most important values for inner change seem to be honesty and openness. Feel free to see how I try to continue to help others in new ways. Sincerely: Gary Eby, author and therapist.

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Whitelighter  says:
15 months ago

Thank you Gary for your feedback. Appreciate your helping the inmates using values.

Joanne

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Whitelighter  says:
15 months ago

Thanks Satori for your keen observations. As you can tell by the hub, I agree!

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Whitelighter  says:
15 months ago

Thanks Satori for your keen observations. As you can tell by the hub, I agree!

John J.  says:
15 months ago

Great article that engages the reader right off the bat. I especially like the interactive touch. Choose your personal values, hold yourself to those values and make it happen! Good stuff, Joanne.

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Whitelighter  says:
15 months ago

John, Appreciate your great feedback...and glad you like values as well.

Joanne

glenys brown  says:
15 months ago

Thanks Joanne This month I am working on being ethical, responsive, healthy, and congruent. Loved the simple process and clarity. Article and photo was bright and inviting. Glenys

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Whitelighter  says:
15 months ago

Gleenys,

I support your values and appreciate your feedback. Maybe the foto was too bright..have to check with admin!

Joanne

Curtis Mendez  says:
2 months ago

I enjoyed this lesson, Thanks!

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Whitelighter  says:
2 months ago

Thanks Curtis, appreciate that you enjoyed it.

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