The Hardest thing in a relationship is seperating. You may not be breaking up, but either way, separation is hard period. You don't know whether the relationship will last or if you or the other person will still feel the same way after you reunite. Im gonna be heading off to basic training really soon but I dont know if I can stay away from my boyfriend for such a long period of time. With the Military, relationships get harder because you dont get to see that person as much as you'd like to and you'll be lucky if you get to talk to them. When you're married, it gets alittle easier, but for those of us not down that road yet, it takes a toll. I'm hoping that my boyfriend and I last forever but i'll just have to wait and see. Through these hard times......