I believe self-respect is very important to everyone, especailly vital for women. It should be the first important quality we should have rather than anthing else.

When you fail to respect your self, many behaviors will be like giveaways. The way you talk to yourself and others is an announcement of how you feel about yourself. The way you allowed other to talk about you and treat you is another giveaway. When you believe you don't deserve to be heard or to be spoken to with dignity, which reveals that your self-respect is low. Of course you don't hear yourself say like" I don't deserve happiness". But listen to others around you, how do they talk to you, and how do you talk to them. Don't you hear yourself saying these often "I know you dont want to hear this, but...."? And like this " I am not sure about this, you decide...." You demean your message even before you say a word!

Your family, friends, lovers will treat you the way you teach them to treat you. If you expect respect and give it in return, that sets up an atmosphere for everything you want. If you are self-disrespecting, that is what others will give you. So when you are not treated with respexr, you should do something about it. If someone treat you disrespectfully, you should treat them politely and at the same time explain that you will not stay around for their abusive behavior.

So stop self- disrespecting, and doubting yourself, throw these negative thoughts away. Think of what you want, what you expect, and set an example on yourself. You will then definitely get respect from others. Law of attraction never fails. YOU ARE THE ONE RESPONSIBLE TO CHANGE OTHERS' VIEW OF YOU.