The (Good) Old Days Weren't So Bad After All

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By William F. Torpey


Ella Fitzgerald, a former Yonkers resident
Ella Fitzgerald, a former Yonkers resident
Hudson River Museum
Hudson River Museum
Main Street, Yonkers, N.Y., a few decades ago
Main Street, Yonkers, N.Y., a few decades ago

Yonkers, N.Y., was a bustling community in the '30s and '40s when I grew up in what my folks told me was "The City of Gracious Living." Recently, however, I read in the New York Times that it's now referred to as "Beirut-on-the-Hudson."

Yonkers had its share of corruption and crime in those days, but, as kids, we roamed every neighborhood -- from the Hudson River to Mount Vernon and the Bronx to Hastings-on-Hudson -- freely, without fear.

Ours was a poor neighborhood, aggravated by the depression and suffering -- along with everybody else -- from the effects of World War II. We were poor, sure, but we were happy.

When I look back at those "good old days" I muse about the times we expropriated the forbidden fruit from the trees and vines all over town, the times we tied the trolley ropes -- so that when the car hit a depression in the road - the rope wouldn't feed out, thus stopping the trolley car dead in its tracks.

A few from our depressed neighborhood turned out fairly well, a few didn't. In any case, most of us -- somehow -- grew up to be honest, upstanding citizens.

Although some of our street-corner conversations in those days had a Runyonesque flavor, we weren't bad kids.

We were city folks; no one I knew owned a car. The trolley took us everywhere we wanted to go. We didn't own our homes, either; we lived in rented flats in aging apartment houses. We rarely worried about money. How could we? We had none to worry about!

There was no TV in those days, only radio. Everybody listened to the radio; it offered a cornucopia of shows ranging from such scurrilous entrees as Fibber McGee & Molly, The Shadow, Inner Sanctum, Lights Out ... the list goes on and on.

I look back now at that time as the halcyon days, days when everybody on the block knew one another, days when it was safe to walk the streets at any time of day or night, days when it was safe to leave the apartment door unlocked.

When I look at how the world has "progressed" over the last few decades, I can't help but be concerned about our future.

The Great Depression and World War II were great tragedies, sure; we had financial disasters ... we had Hitler (and Tojo) and Mussolini. But, in many ways, it was our finest hour.

Our tourists back then didn't have to worry about being accosted, mugged and murdered at every turn; we didn't have Los Angeles -style "race riots;" we didn't have mass murderers around every corner; nor did we have religious freaks creating havoc.

Let's put our heads together and find a way to make our streets safe again.

Let's help the downtrodden, get our kids off drugs and into schools or good jobs, and create a better quality of life for everyone.

Let's live our lives in peace and comfort, and set things right for those who've been left behind.

Rodney King asked, "Can't we all get along?" I think we can, if we want.

This column was written as a "My View" for The Hour newspaper of Norwalk, Conn., on May 8, 1993. I now write my views on a wide variety of topics on HubPages. You can, too. It's easy, and free! Get paid for writing about what you love, or whatever interests you!. HubPages makes the technical part easy. Make friends and get help on its active forum. Take a quick tour to see how easy it is to get started today Click Here -- To view my HubPages Profile Click Here


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Bob  says:
2 years ago

Bill, Your tallents are waisted at our post. You should be writing for the newspapers again. God knows they can surely use someone that doesn't write nothing but Anti-American editorials. I too loved those days, and they were less crime ridden, but those were also the days when a cop seeing you misbehaiving could kick you in the butt and tell you to move along. If you complained to your Pop , he'd kick you in the butt too. Nowdays , the kid would go to court and complain , the cop would lose his job and your Pop would be locked up for child abuse. Give me the 40's anytime.

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William F. Torpey  says:
2 years ago

Thanks, Bob. I think there was no better time to live than the first half of the 20th Century, despite the fact that the period suffered two world wars and a Great Depression. Nevertheless, we all knew our neighbors, who were usually also our friends, and our families weren't scattered all over the country.

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terenceyap07  says:
12 months ago

Thank you for sharing this hub and a part of your life's rich exeperiences with all of us, my friend!

*smiles*

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William F. Torpey  says:
12 months ago

I'm glad you're enjoying my hubs, terenceyap07. I love writing about the old days in Yonkers, where I lived until 1952. Thanks.

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Tirisacha  says:
11 months ago

I wasn't around in the old days, but sometimes I wish I was! Sounds nice.

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William F. Torpey  says:
11 months ago

I'm sure you would've liked the old days very much, Tirisacha. Even during the great Depression and World War II daily life was pleasurable for us kids. I suppose the older folks worried about the troops overseas or finding some coins for our next meal, but we kids played stickball on the streets or softball and baseball in the parks, skinny dipped in the Hudson River or road the trolley cars all over Yonkers. It was nice, indeed. Thanks for commenting.

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gwendymom  says:
9 months ago

maybe in times of hardship people grow closer to one another. Maybe for reassurance, a shoulder to cry on. I had only witnessed this phenom in the days after 9/11, things seemed to change overnight, and Americans grew closer to one another, but of course it did not last and after a few months things went back to the way they were, It's sad really that it takes a tragedy for people to realize the need each others support, for a kinder, gentler point of view.

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William F. Torpey  says:
9 months ago

I couldn't agree more, gwendymom. We rarely look ahead to avoid problems. It inevitably takes a tragedy to get us to do something that should have been done long ago. The whole world was on the same page after 9/11, but we failed to keep that spirit of cooperation alive. Will it take another 9/11 to get it right? I hope not.

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