If you are reading this, most likely you are a woman that either has been cheated on, thinks your man is cheating, or just wants to learn the signs to look for if you think your man is cheating. All my life, I have been surrounded by cheating men. My father cheated on my mom and now I have a half sister that I barely know. My uncles have done it, as well as my brothers. I have seen the heart ache and pain, the divorce and separation that it brings to families but most importantly children. I was a child that came up from that environment, so I understand how it feels to wake up and see your mother crying her eyes out every night because her husband didn't come home, when he claims he is at work. I understand what its like to be the kid that plays catch with himself because his father is too busy raising another family. Trust me, I don't regret what I have been through because I did have positive male mentor's in my life from my favorite teachers to my basketball coaches, whom I actually respect more than my father. What men that cheat don't realize is that they are drastically affecting their children and the way their children will grow up, and the kind of relationships their children will have. If they have a daughter, the daughter will never trust any man when she grows up and will have several relationships with many men and may get pregnant at an early age. The son may look for a father figure in other men, which is very dangerous because that list of men includes pedophiles and strangers that are willing to pay him attention. I am not saying this will ultimately happen to every child, but when a man leaves the family, these chances increase. I urge any man that has a family to strongly get counseling to try to make it work before dissolving your family. Now lets look at the reasons why men cheat.

Number One: Men have very short attention spans. Men are very visual beings, and this is why porn is so popular with males, especially on the internet. Men like to look at many different things all the time, and it's hard for a man to go out on a date and not look at other women, no matter how good you look. You could be a Victoria Secret Model, but the fact is, if your man sees someone he thinks is hot walk by,dont be surprised if he takes a long look at her. It's just in our nature to look and many guys have gotten killed over looking at other females. This also means we get bored very fast. The most beautiful girls in the world have been cheated on, so what makes you so different? It doesn't matter how sexy you are, how smart, or successful. Every woman will get cheated on in their lifetime at least twice. It may be scary, but it's true and if you dont believe me, you haven't lived long enough.

Number Two: Men like new things. You may think that your man is happy coming home seeing you in your pajamas when he gets home from work with the house a mess and the kids running all around, well he doesn't! If a man comes home to this sight every day, he will look for someplace quiet and peaceful, like a 23 year old receptionist with her own apartment, no kids, and enjoys cooking for him. Nothing is sexier to a man that the last picture I just painted. It seems that today's woman has forgotten the simple joys of cooking, cleaning and looking good for her man. If you fall into that catagory your man probably has a girlfriend you know nothing about. Men cheat because they like new things, they like to hear new voices whisper in their ear and feel new flesh against there skin, it's a fact and there are many social examples that prove this fact.

Number Three: Men are overly sexual by nature. Men need sex constantly, it has been said the Men think of sex every six seconds, in my case that's not true, but I have friends that talk about it every second. Sixty percent of all men cheat and forty percent of all women cheat. The sexual drive or hunger that all men have is one of the main reasons Men cheat. When men are in that sexual mode, they are not thinking of the consequence of there action, they are thinking, how good they will feel in that moment. There is no love, only lust that overtakes his hormones and pushes him to the limit, almost temporary insanity. All men no matter your color, religious belief, or background have this inside of them. Does your man always come home extremely late? Does he always have to take trips out of town? Does he ever let you use his cell phone to make calls? Just some things to think about. This means if you have ten guys in a room six are no good for you, the other four might be good for you, but no man can be trusted in the end. I feel sorry for the women of the world because all of us men are losers, but I know for certain the above list is the reason men cheat. CoryLavel says, Be Wealthy!

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