The Secret of My Success
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Questions I ask myself every day by far have been the biggest asset of my success. The amazing thing about the questions I ask myself is that I almost always come up with an answer or solution, even if the question seemed impossible. I lie in bed each night and ask myself, "How can I make the world a better place? How can I find a way to contribute to millions of people by giving them hope and inspiration?" And the answers start flowing like a magnificent river of knowledge. That's the secret - to keep the idea flowing. If you want to know an answer to a question, if you want to find a solution to a problem, then don't just make a meek attempt at finding a solution.
Don't just say, "What if?" and when the answer or the solution doesn't appear, give up. You have to create a whole stream of "what ifs" -- "What if I try this? No, that won't work. What if I try this? No, that won't work." One drop of water upstream meekly trying to find its way to the waterfall may dry up before it ever reaches its destination, but with each additional drop, the water gradually becomes a river that will reach the waterfall. This is the state of mind - the creativity - that you want to generate within yourself. What happens when you get just a small current? The current pulls everything toward it.
HOW QUESTIONS CAN UNLOCK
THE GENIUS IN YOU
The most effective way to control your focus is with the power of questions. Every day the questions we ask ourselves determine our focus, our thoughts, and our emotions. Asking empowering questions helped me lift myself up whenever I felt I was knocked down. Instead of asking questions like, "Why me?" I began to ask questions that could help me get back on my feet.
"Ask and you will receive. Seek and you will find; knock
and it will be opened to you." -Matthew 7:7
Think about it. The quality of questions we ask ourselves determines the quality of our lives. What’s the difference between those who are successful and those who aren’t? It’s the quality of there questions. By asking better quality questions those who are successful make critical distinctions that others don’t. Back in the day when the automobile industry was still in its infancy stage, hundreds of pioneering people experimented with building them, but Henry ford distinguished himself by asking a quality question “How can I mass produce such a machine?” Ghandhi accomplished what an army of men couldn’t accomplish by asking himself the powerful question “How can I free India in a nonviolent way from British control? Bill Gates became the worlds wealthiest man by asking, how can I license (dos) instead of selling it.
Here are some problem-solving questions to help you find solutions when problems arise:
"Make it Happen" Problem-Solving Questions
1. What is amazing about this problem?
2. What is not the way I want it yet?
3. What am I going to do to make it better?
4. What am I going to stop doing to make it better?
5. How can I make it an enjoyable experience while I make these changes?
I also ask myself my morning, "Make it Happen" questions, so I can jump out of bed with enthusiasm.
"Make it Happen" Questions to jump start my day
1. What am I thankful for?
2. Who do I care about? Who cares about me?
3. How can I start my day better today?
4. How can I leave the world a better place
today? How do I feel about that?
5. How can I gain more momentum?
6. What am I looking forward to?
7. What am I passionate about?
"Make it Happen" Night Time Questions
1. What did I offer today? In what ways did I make a positive impact in someone’s life?
2. What was life's lesson for me today?
3. How has today made my life richer? How can today be an investment for my future?
These questions have dramatically improved my quality of life by shifting my focus. When you know the right questions to ask, you can help others as well by throwing a question their way.
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Thanks for your kind comments Tatjana!
Thanks for this reminder! Anthony Robbins whom I read years ago always reminded us to ask quality questions, but you take it a step further and add a spiritual component to it, which is to me very empowering! I too want to contribute to the world in my own way.
Will be asking quality questions.
Thumbs up!
Thanks for stopping by VioletSun. I'm glad you enjoyed it!
'Seek and you shall find.' That is definitely the road to success. Every invention has its roots in a question. Very thoughtful of you to compel the readers to awaken their inquisitiveness. Thumbs up.
Nice to see some inspiring and thought provoking ideas - I'm generally a very optomistic person, but there were a few pointers I will be trying - thanks for the help.
I needed that at this moment. Thanks for such an inspirational Hub
dori
Interesting Hub there. I agree with the questioning and seeking the answers. Great stuff! Keep it up!
Excellent! What a wonderful reminder... I especially liked the variety of questions... morning / throughout the day and evening! Thanks for the inspiration... i truly enjoy reading all your hubs.
Tatjana, please tell me some of your best answers you got through the power of questions
VioletSun, please share how you would like to contribute to the world.
Hey Anjali,
Can you share a time in your life when the power of questions offered you keen insight?
Take Care!
Your hub reminds a little of Rich Dad, Poor Dad. If you want something you can't afford, don't say, "I can't afford it." Instead, say, "How can I afford it?"
Good hub! :)
Good Hub :). All the quesitions below is very productive. I will tweet this
"Make it Happen" Questions to jump start my day
1. What am I thankful for?
2. Who do I care about? Who cares about me?
3. How can I start my day better today?
4. How can I leave the world a better place
today? How do I feel about that?
5. How can I gain more momentum?
6. What am I looking forward to?
7. What am I passionate about?
Thanks Enelle is there anything to would like to add?
I agree wandererh- too many people say they can't afford something instead of saying how can I afford it. What goes into our mind is very powerful.
Hey fortunerep- glad my Hub helped. Would you like to share what it helped?
Thanks for the probyte2u!!! Stop by again.
hi there Success Guru - This is by FAR one of the most interesting hubs I have ever read - and i read A LOT of hubs!!! First of all - we're on the same page regarding your comment, the genius is you. in my profile i mentioned how every one of us is beautiful in a unique way and has possesses a unique kind of intellect. I have never thought about the importance of analyzing the questions I ask myself. Thanks so much for this hub and your contribution to the hubpages community. dawei888
It's been said that a mind is a terrible thing to waste. When we share with others, we leave a part of ourselves with them. May what we share or impart with others be positive and inspiring. And those acts of kindness are not wasted.
Hey dawei! Thanks for stopping by. I'm glad you got something out of the hub. Yes the questions we ask ourselves is a simple concept that can make a big difference. What part of the Hub did you like the best? Tell me a time the power of questions had a positive impact in your life.
Hey Santo! No truer words have ever been spoken! What would you like to add about the power of questions?
I have a buddy during my college years and one thing that he likes to say (up till even now) is "Why Not?" When he heard that something is not doable, he would ask this question, because to him nothing is impossible if you really look into it.
He has achieved much success now based on this simple question.
if you need an answer for any question then start looking from the negatie side and you will find out the positives
Hi. I think the key quesiton that most internet marketers ask themselves is how to scale up an exisitng business that's working. These kinds of questions usually occupy my mind when i'm away from the computer. dawei888
Mate, this hub is really awesome!
even i have a habit of thinking about the passed day at night .
i believe that we can be a really good human if we admit our mistakes and try not to repeat them so its better if you make mistakes and rectify them .
i feel there is a spelling mistake in " Gandhi " and not " Ghandi "
Surely each line that you write are worth pondering upon. This is perhaps the reason why this hub has gained a lot of comments and positive rating. I will surely bookmark this. Keep up the good work and for sure you will always be successful.
Hi dawei,
Yes this is a key question and the absolute best way to scale up your business is by tapping into someone Else's opt in list. There are businesses that spent years building their list to thousands of subscribers and if you can get them to recommend your product or service to their existing clients it will rapidly increase your business. What are your thoughts on this?
Hey Alberon anything you would to add about the power of quetions?
Hi metaphysician I like the question "why not?" It's amazing how one simply question can completely change your life. Anything else interesting you want to add?
Hey swathin2 interesting approach! Any other insights?
Thanks marcofratelli I'm glad you enjoyed this Hub! Feel free to jump in if you have something more to say.
Hey techie thanks for the tip! Any other insights?
Hi JPSO138, thanks for your kind remarks. Your comments are always welcome
hi there biz guru - i have a friend who sells some items on ebay. at first he was struggling to get hits on his ebay store & auctions. then he had an industry-related magazine send out emails on his behalf with links into his auctions. 10 months later he's a platinum seller!
Yeah that's just what I'm talking about dawei. Tap into other businesses client list and bam! It can grow your business fast just like your friend that went platinum. A good way to do this is by surfing the web for related magazines and sites like yours. I recommend actually giving it the personal touch and calling them. I once landed a deal in just one magazine alone that resulted in about $10,000 of free publicity with a two page article. Orders for my books came in for about a whole year!
This is a great hub. There are so many gold nuggets of wisdom here. No wonder you are a success guru.
The first question I usually ask myself is - what am I thankful for today?
Thank you for joining my club. I am honored.
Hey Jill,
That is a great question to start your day! What other questions do you ask yourself and what kind of difference has it made?
To Your Success!
Hi. I appreciate your visit to my hub and I wanted to return the courtesy. I agree with you. I have found that oftentimes people, including myself, get stuck in their present situation and do not make progress because they do not ask the right questions, or focus on solutions based questions. Once you are focused on the solution, you have a clearer focus of what you need to do to work towards getting out of your present circumstance and to work towards getting the successful result that you want
Powerful stuff. Thanks for the hope.
Hey Tonie,
Can you think of a time the power of questions made a difference in your life?
Thanks for stopping by!
Bless You,
Jim
Hi RVDaniels, I'm happy I offered some hope! Is there anything you would like to add?
Take Care!
Hi Jim, I am currently asking this question right now : "what am I currently giving to receive what I am getting?" as well as "what can I give differently to get different results, specifically the results that I desire"
HEY Tonie! How are you? Love those questions! How's it working for you?
To Your Success!!!
Positive way of living I agree, is the secret to success
Honesty is the success secret for every human being.
a very positive hub. success has different meanings to people. how one measures success depends on how one perceives success. :-)
Thanks for stopping oderog- Anything you would like to add?
Hi prasannasutrave,
I recommend people only choose the strategies that work for them. If you ask a more empowering question do you often get a more empowering answer?
Yes bingskee, how one measures success depends on how one perceives success. :-) If you are interested check out my Hub on Creating Your Own Reality.
My oh my, it's the law of attraction isn't it? I have to say in the past months I haven't been doing anything... I've been asking a lot of the why me? questions.. thanks for this hub.. you inspired me to go back to the positive questions! ^_^
Wonderful hub and s v inspirational. I liked it to the core.
Nice hub, you did a great, but i will want you to share some knowledge with me if you don't mine, on how you made a lot of sells on ebay products, if you don't mine we can be friends.
Hey bingskee,
You are right! Your comments are always welcome!
Hey Cam Anju,
Yes it's the law of attraction! I'm glad you are asking positive questions now! Please share your questions you ask yourself or anything else you would like to add here! :)
very nice hub lot of good info
Hey jayb23, Glad you liked the Hub! Any insight you would like to share?
Hey Lgali, Thanks for stopping by! What else would you like to share?
Hey honestyt4isaac ,
The secret to Ebay is finding a good reliable drop shipper with a competitive price and products that don't have too much competition. This way you won't have to get bogged down with boxing everything. With the right drop shipper you won't have to buy the products until you get paid by the Ebay buyer. It's easier to start out selling less expensive products until you build trust by building up your feedback score. Plus there are some great books on Ebay for $1 to $10. Another great strategy is to see what the power sellers are selling and find out who their supplier is- hope this helps!
To Your Success,
Jim
Tjatiana with a (J) I am not about to make a kind comment, as my namesake has done, I just can't believe that you would come out and say you are a success.....I mean who says you are ....................Is it just you................
Answers would be nice......If you are Donald Trump which I somewhat doubt, please disregard this note.
This is so inspiring! I would say that Success is not all about wealth. If you are happy with your family, friends, work, employer, co-workers, you have good health, you help others, make other people happy, you don't hurt anybody, you don't violate any rules, then you're successful.
Thanks for sharing your hub.
Hey dyesebel! Yes I agree with al that! Anything else you want to mention?
Take Care!
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Nice post, thanks for sharing
I agree totally. If you dont ask, you wont know. I love to ask questions because you learn something new everyday, no matter what you may think you know, there is someone out there who knows something you dont know.
Great and well written Hub. Cheers!
Hi KANNAPPAN,
I'm glad you liked this Hub! Your comments are always welcome.
Hi iviryabo,
I totally agree! - glad you enjoyed it. Thanks for stopping by. Anything else you want to add?
I am bookmarking your Hub so that I can come back and read it again as often as I need it. When a negative circumstance happens in my life, too often the questions I ask are probably counterproductive. Yes, I can persevere through a problem, but not with the grace I would like, and I have been being mired down too long with certain challenges, as a result of asking the wrong questions, I'm convinced.
Thanks for dropping by in my hubs. Can I ask a favor please. How can I get good Hub grades, my rating yesterday was 88 now its only 84. I advertised one of my hub two days ago in the forums but that was void i dont know the forum rules yet i'm new with it and overlooked unitentionally. Grrr maybe some people pulled down my grade in my hub How to be rich in few minutes, the, two days ago its grade was 81 now its only 73, whoa. I hope you can give some insight with this.
Hey GeneralHowitzer,
Although there are many factors determining a good Hub score one thing I noticed that helped drive my Hub score up to 95 was interacting in the forums and joining other peoples fan clubs. The more active you are the better your chance of raising your score. This lead to more people posting comments in my Hubs which raised my Hub score and even got me listed under topics- knowledge and Education where people can find me. Although there are many factors this helps quite a bit. For more information check out Hubs on raising your Hub score.
To Your Success,
Jim
how to gain more traffic
Hi flowerpick,
Good question! See my comments just before yours.
Jim: I can see your hub has received a great response! I read your comments about the opt in list, wow, I didn't think of this, will mention this to my s/o!
BTW, I received your email and tried to respond but the system returned my email. Just wanted to say thank you for your email and support. :)
Thanks for stopping by again VioletSun! Your support and Hubs have been a blessing!
Wow! so many people interacting on this hub! topic seems to be interesting but here people are askig many questions for which they are looking for answers. any way let the secret be revealed to all so that the other peoples hubs also will become as popular as yours
Hey swathin2!
Here is the secret:
Although there are many factors determining a good Hub score one thing I noticed that helped drive my Hub score up to 95 was interacting in the forums and joining other peoples fan clubs. The more active you are the better your chance of raising your score. Put the personal touch on interacting with people. This lead to more people posting comments in my Hubs which raised my Hub score and even got me listed under topics- knowledge and Education where people can find me. Although there are many factors this helps quite a bit. For more information check out Hubs on raising your Hub score.
Hello my-success-guru,
Well, I am so new to this that I feel I am getting addicted to reading and digesting ideas and thoughts that are freely presented in this special dot com that we can access anytime of day. I am pretty amazed at what you wrote about the wonders that a question can make things happen. I think that you, guru, can make things happen through your articles. I've only read a couple and it seemed that they have already gave me a "jumpstart" of what to write and what not to write.
You made me go back sometime ago in my life, when I was youngER- when my Philisophy teacher once said that at times "there are questions left unanswered and they might just have to be questions forever." But when I went over your list- for the morning, the evening, and the other list- then these questions can be topics or sub-topics themselves.
Keep it up, guru--Hubpages deserve someOne like you.
Hi SimPly RaRe,
Thanks for your kind comments! To your success!
Update: The score on this Hub just reached 97! See if I can reach 100 and I'll let all of you know what I did! Take care!
This is something good for me to read as a beginner in Hubpages..thanks for sharing..
Just read the mail, guess a little bit late.
Hi hubpageswriter! Welcome to Hubpages! Anything you would likev to add?
That's fine metaphysician- want to mention something else?
Yeah really i praise your efforts.Hard work and determination. If we feel overwhelmed do some relaxing activities but make sure we study more than we relax!
Hello my-success-guru, Could this be the hundredth or the hundert, it seemed like a thousandth- but it's awesomely reverberating, doesn't even sound monotonous- content and style and theme- they are structurally fit to make a whole picture of the asking and the responding.
Thanks for your wishing me success, Mr. Successful--you are a true MotiVator !!!
The score of this hub is raising and this shows how useful this hub is for many. and these kind of hubs should have a place in the top list and hope it will get there soon
"awesomely reverberating" Thanks for your great remarks SimPly RaRe!
Hey swathin2! Welcome back! Thanks for all your wonderful support! See you at the top! Stop back soon!
Update: I just found out I made it to the (Hot Hub) section!!! I will soon reveal how I did this! I want to thank all my fans!
Alttention: All comments are welcome!!! :)
Its important to note that the sole purpose of questioning the self is to come up with an answer! If there are no answers, one can feel a bit like a failure, or frustrated over it. Mindfulness meditation tells us that the healing power of answers is within us all the time. If there are no answers, ask a different question, or else we are (or are we?) interested in deliberating an answer.
And this is where the importance of having a structured list of questions helps.
My favourite question, to my subjective self, is: "Do I have a problem with this?" A bit like God asking Adam "What are you doing?" All the while, a character such as God would know, you'd imagine!
The following is an overview of what I call 'Mudra Questioning' based on the meaningful-ness of the human hand. This involves a pedagogal, Kin(a)esthetic-Tactile way to remember how to ask questions, without being inherantly judgemental to yourself or to others. Each 'mudra' is corollary to one of the five Platonic elements and, especially in the non-theistic Vedic Sciences, to a solfège-like: do, re, mi, fa, sol, la, and so on - I wont give all of the corollations here...
A 'mudra' is a 'banda' lock involving finger positions. Here, we simply pay attention to each finger thusly:1) Thumb: What? An object. 2) Index: Which? / "What option?": denotes a choice, an option. In Vedic terms, denotes an autonomous, or characteristic tendency.3) Middle: Who? / To Whom?: Person or people, especially an authority or influential movement.4) Ring: When?5) Pinky: Where?
Note that "How?" and "Why?" are not present in this operation, unlike other presentations, because these are the *intention* for questioning and the *motivation and purpose* for the obtaining of answers. The "How?" and "Why?" are inherant in us and those answers we revel in.
Note the lack of depth in the Modern English. In Old English "Whom?" could've also questioned or referred to objects: "The cars, WHOM we drive", "The institutions, WHOM we are able to rely upon", etc.
Note with that "Which?" in Modern English doesn't accept the "giving" of multiple choice answers - we linguistically have a lack of options - due to a general lack of interest in self empowered statements and an obsession with specificity in our society. We need to change our language, atleast internally. Perhaps we need to read, read, read. Or skim, skim, skim?
Structured Mudra Questioning can now take place, in this crude example, in response to human limitations, somebody gives the answer (or you can present the statement) that:A: "... But Einstein said we cannot travel faster than light".
Your Analysis = Who? Next finger = Ring, When?Therefore, show interest in the answer and reply;
Q: WHEN did he say that?A: I don't know.
Your Analysis = When? Next finger = Pinky, Where?Therefore, show interest in the answer and reply;
Q: Well, WHERE did you learn that?A: On T.V. last night
Your Analysis = Where? Next finger = Thumb: What?Therefore, show interest in the answer and reply;
Q: WHAT was that program about?A: Extraterrestrial Civilisations in South America.
Your Analysis = Where? Next finger = Index: Which?Therefore, show interest in the answer and reply;
Q: Do you like old quotes?Q: Do you believe what the scientists might say?Q: Do you accept everything you see on T.V.?Q: Do you accept Extraterrestrial Life?Here, you'd be on the 'fourth finger', whichever one that might end up being, so from here you'd be able to facilitate the paradigm shift to a conscientious and empathetic mood.
Even if you know that Einstein actually showed through his calculations that we cannot accelerate to faster than light speed, i.e. his calculations didnt mention those whom already travel at over the speed of light.
You cant glean any more information without taking an attitude of interrogation. That is a different subject.
Note: Always ask yourself: "Are you interested?" Interest is the source emotion we need to tackle in order to learn.
The Far Side: Maintain the ambiguity?
What? Avoid naming things. Instead refer to "that", or "those", etc.Which? Avoid giving what you think might be choices. Leave it open and up to the person you are asking.Who?: Avoid specific names of people and places, for example "Albert Einstein." Instead you'd refer to "he", or "a scientist."When?: Avoid specific times, such as 10pm. Instead use "last night", or "previously", or "long ago."Where?: Avoid specific locations. Instead use "above", "below", "up there", "over there."
You dont want to be exacting and correct youself, or anybody else. Only to yourself can you exercise self-discpline, like when you cant come up with the answers. Only with this practice, though: The underpinning of your success is the absolute belief that what you are doing will lead to success, in spite of the fact that you are right or wrong. Just as others have done throughout the ages.
I dont question myself or others, I merely challenge my own beliefs.
Kia KahaStephen
This is a great hub! I love the positive slant and can imagine that approaching life from the perspective that you present in this hub would have an uplifting effect. I'm certain that it would help people get out of 'stuck' mode.
Thanks for sharing your wonderful attitude and those questions. I know they'll help many.
Shirley
P.S. I am bookmarking for reference. :)
Hey Shirley!
Thanks for stopping by!!! Have you found asking empowering questions has made a difference for you? Please share.
Yes, I think it has helped me to ask myself empowering questions. Most times, it works and I get an answer to what my first or next step is, or seem led in a direction where I find what I need to know. When I don't, it's ALWAYS because I'm feeling frustrated and impatient and I don't wait for it or perserve. It works best (at least for me) when I remain relaxed, put the question out there and be open for an answer. Sometimes, the questions lead to more questions until I'm asking what I really wanted to know all along but didn't realize it.
I've actually been doing it so long that I don't even notice when I'm doing it most of the time anymore, it's become second nature. I'm not saying that I've perfected it because I sure haven't. However, I find that now, I automatically express gratitude or look to the answer of how to help others without stopping to think about it and ask. I think the questions, over time, helped me to reach that point.
I think you wanted an example though, didn't you? Okay, I'll skip the details, as this comment is already long (sorry). Asking myself how I could a) get back into writing after a ten year lapse b) help other writers (that's how I decided that I wanted to be of service) c) learn how to function online in a safe place with people that would be kind d) earn a living from home
Those questions came from answering the ones about passion, momentum, etc. The end result is that I found HubPages, began writing for clients, often help other writers, work from home. These things bring me joy and have brought to my attention some new things and avenues that I want to persue.
Gee, that's probably more than you wanted to know.
Welcome back Shirley!
WOW! That's great! Thanks for sharing! Actually it's nice for a change to see someone go above and beyond what I was hoping for! How do you help other writers? Do you mean Hubpages or something else?
Bless You
I help pretty much any writer that asks me, sometimes they come from HP, other times, it's just writers from the internet world who have questions or would like some direction regarding freelancing. If I know the answer to their questions, I tell them.
Hey, does that mean that they're asking me their empowering questions? :)
Thank-you for the blessing!
Thanks again Shirley!
Your comments are always welcome!!!
Hey, does that mean that they're asking me their empowering questions? :)
LOL
OK here is my empowering question: What is the best way to pay my bills freelancing on topics I love?
Ah, that's the question that I get most.
Guess the most helpful thing I can tell you about that is to write well, write often and make a name for yourself. Not just on HubPages, either. I imagine that you already pop into forums in your niche, etc. and have your website in your email signature. You can also watch the freelancing boards and apply for jobs. Many people get work that way, although I never seem to. Luckily, clients contact me because they've read about me here or on my site. I also get word of mouth advertising from clients, which is fantastic and a sure assignment.
My youngest daughter was taking a trip and mentioned to the travel agent that her mother is a writer. Because of that, I now have a regular monthly gig that is fairly easy and pays well. Think I'll have to make her my manager, since she also mentioned me to someone who wants a book written. Aren't kids great?
If you're looking for fast money, writing ain't it. It's more of a building process that increases over time.
So, the short answer is (I know, too late - I'm very verbose tonight) learn keywording, write and network.
I have a feeling that you already know all of this. :) Hope it helps.
Thanks again Shirley! Great tips! Stop by again!
Take Care!
Truly inspiring! So many questions but the answers are so few; that is only if we give up easily. Thanks for sharing this with us! =)
Hey Charia!
Thanks for stopping by! You must never give up! Was there ever a time you felt like giving up but you kept asking questions until you got your answer?
I loved your post! I think that most people do ask themselves questions, but they are self defeating questions like, "Why can't I do anything right?" or "Why am I always broke?" The mind will find answers to those questions, reinforcing our disempowering beliefs about ourselves.
Great post. I can see why you are a hot hub. You present value.
Hey SelfImproving Nan! Yes, I agree! What ever you put into the mind is what you get back! Thanks for your thoughts. Anything else you want to say?
Take Care!
Profound reminder MS Guru! The clearer the question, the easier it is to recognize the appropriate answer.
Since you ask if anyone has anything to add - yes. It helps to remember that the first answer is "YES". Replacing the millionth "no" we've heard, along with all the ones we hear as children, with a simple "yes" removes debilitating doubt.
Thanks for your encouraging thoughts and insight SEM Pro! Stop back!
OMG,..I got the same hamster running on his ferris wheel in my head at night too. Well actually all the time. I really liked your hub. My Grandfather who served in WW2 and raised me always preached mind over matter's. I believe in that to. I also believe by asking questions, you allow yourself to learn more about what makes you,..you and that's where your passions will spark that will direct you on the path you should be taking. Regaurding the :Why Me ?' I believe everything happens for a reason, you make not like it, you may not understand it, but down the raod you will say,..Oh thats why that had to happen. I try to look at the cup being half full and I live by the motto - Your opinion of me, is none of my business.
Thanks again for the great hub Jim !!! By the way I checked out your link,...Very good information.
Yes there are so many instances that I could not enumerate all. But at the same time there were instances that I am just so tired of asking at all. At those times I need to relax and be inspired to face the many questions again.
Hey Army Infantry Mom! Great insight! stop by again! I'm still thinking about that pizza LOL
Welcome Charia Samher! Thanks for sharing! Your comments are always welcome! Take care!
Its a great Hub
it reminded me of Michael Jackson song "Heal the world make it a better place" This is my favourite song. I always feel blessed and thank god when I think of others who could be less fortunate.
My father he always says to me Your life is not yours, its for others. Everyone lives his or her life for themselves... no big deal. real living is when you live for others.... care for others....help others.... their priorities are ahead of yours...just give dont expect any returns
Sorry I just got carried away
Hey thinking of above what i just said I can actually have a hub on it... I know my fathers sayings could inspire me..:)
Good Work my-success-guru. Keep it up
Hey sherly!
Thanks for stopping by and sharing!!! Anthing else you want to share?
285 fans.I did not know where to put my comment.Your writtings held my attention.Wow keep writting.Hope you turn them into books.Great work.Peace.Thanks for responding .
Hey Tamarii2! Thanks for stopping by! Thanks for your comments!
Great article. A little self examination and a positive attitude can go a long way.
Hey milynch43!
Thanks for stopping by. Your comments are always welcome!
great hub there buddy. :)
Thanks kmackey!!! :) Stop back! Anthing else you want to say?
Thank you for this. It is great. I have done the exact opposite of thinking lately and the results were miraculous. I am a logical thinker and one day, July 12th, 2009. I just decided to "drop it". No more control of my day. I paid attention to how the universe was communicating to me, illogical in my mind as it may seem and wow! Magic.
It is because I dropped my need for control [smiles]
Thank you for sharing.
Wow msorensson!
That is amazing! Let me know how this goes!
What did you discover so far?
Now isn't that amazing and the questions are perfect!!! :)
Hi AE! So glad you stopped by. Thanks!!!
Wow that is a great, positive hub, oh you are indeed very talented. I tried to email you back but it did not work ROFL. xox
How's it going blondepoet? Thanks for your comments. You certainly have your own style and you make me laugh!!:)
Stop back soon!
I've read somewhere that wise people don't know the answers but know what questions to ask. I'm a fan of your hubs. Keep them coming! :)
Hey monica! Thanks for stopping by. Stop again! :)
Terrific advice and hub, I feel that anything is achievable and in many cases it comes down to surrounding yourself with a mastermind of individuals who can solve a common problem together, perhaps as humans our question should be...how can like minded individuals come together in order to bring about common good? This applies as well to marketing as saving our planet. Keep up the great work!
Hey outdoorguy! Great thoughts! Stop again!
i like the way you share your thoughts with all in the form of your hubs. Hubtivity is becoming very familiar and the people are getting very much useful info by means of the helping hands from the people like you.
I hear you loud and clear. The key to happiness and success are questions. Without them we will never understand ourselves or the world around us.
Hello Sir Guru,
I am sorry to stop the traffic because I am the last to comment.Since I am writing my second Hub,my question is:Can I have the privilege of adding you up as a link on my Hub? My Topic:The Anti-Aging Secrets. I read All the comments on you Hub from Start to Finish and learned a "ton-load" of good advises,honest compliments,and sincere friendship.Will you pls. remember me when you put up a group-hub because at the rate you are going I am classified as Your Follower and You as My Guru.
Namascar (Philippines)
Great article dear! Truly inspirational and motivating...liked the way you have given the article a tutorial form and yet interesting one...
Tatjana-Mihaela says:
4 months ago
I always got so many answers in my life, only because I adore to ask questions.
Thanks for further inspiration, thumbs up for this evergreen Hub.