The best way to take compliments

Because most of us do not get a lot of compliments, sometimes when we are complimented, we tend too not believe the compliment. This does seem strange, but in my life I have seen this to be true. We just do not understand how anyone could compliment us for our efforts.

I have learned to accept compliments in the following manner. When someone is giving me a compliment, I look them in their eyes and smile. This lets the compliment giver know we are paying attention and are accepting with eagerness the praise. Once the compliment has been paid, I then say, "thank you very much for your compliment. You have made me feel very good and have made my day." This is simple, but very effective. When people give you a compliment, be honest and sincere with your reply. You might just get more!

Dave