The tip:How make up with boyfriend after a fight:
69The Tips:How to make up with boyfriend after a fight:
Considering that his feelings might have been bruished after a tiff,you take the initiative and send him a message saying SORRY and you are there for him.
Men are also not averse to receiving flowers as a gift,so send him a bouquet.Red roses are always a good option.
Other than that,a bottle of expensive red wine would also go down well,during that make up dinner.
Act mature and don't be stuborn.Try not to talk about the fight as it will make him more sad.
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You know, once I had a fight with my wife and she went to bed in tears. I felt terrible, and decided to make the first move. Went up to her and planted a kiss on her wet cheek. She gave me an uppercut which sent me tumbling! No broken jaw, thank you for asking. But after that, she has to make the first move!
me and my boyfriend waz talkin on the phone from 7:oo at night to 2:oo in the morning so my auntie must have heard me talkin so she got up and said get of that dam phone right now so i said okay and just hung up in his face on mistake and then my auntie took my phone and so when he called back my auntie must have told him dont call for the rest of the night cuz i had to go to bed so now im scared he might brake up with me how should i tell him that im sorry for hangan up in hiz face what do i say pleaze help me somebody cuz i think im fallin in luv with him how should i tell him that im sorry ?
i fought with my boyfriend last night. he left promising he would come back and never did. i found him drinking with his friends and his ex girl friend. it broke my heart and i poured my feeling out. he said he wasnt going to beg. so all night i was in tears, hopeing that he would come after me. but the next moring i found him at the gas station and he did not only chase me he cried, begged and pleaded for forgiveness. sould i forgive him?
@lolita
If you or anyone with a similar situation comes back, please do not chase your boyfriend around after a fight. He probably needed his space, and it makes you come across as slightly needy/clingy by begging and pleading that he come back. Next time wait for him to make the next move and give him time and space.
my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 years we love eachother though he said something really mean to me so i left his car and now im calling him after a couple days and he wont answer me what should i do? it was his fault but im always the one who has to apologize
yesterday me && my b/f broke up. It was the second time this happened. December 22 will make it a year, and i feel miserable. Lately we've been arguing about issues. The other day he said something really mean to me, and it hurt my feelings. So i decided taht yesterday i would tell him we needed a little break. Well, when i was on the subway coming home from school, i saw him with his basketball coach && they were talking to these two girls. So, i kindly went over to near where he was so i was in plain view. i knew he had seen me because he burried his head in his hands. then, we were on the same bus the whole way home, and he would not look or speak to me. (LIKE I DID SOMETHING WRONG). then when we got off the bus, i said to him taht i didn't think we needed to be together anymore. He agreed, and he told me he was so mad at me that he didn't love me anymore. i'm so confused its been almost a whole day, and he would normally call me by now. WHAT TO DO? email me @ sexiilexii413@yahoo.com
Resist the tempation to place blame or argue about the relationship... and give your ex boyfriend plenty of space if he needs it.
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my boyfriend asked me the other day if i liked anyone else. and i said nope just you and he said good, and i said do you? and he said well i love you with all my heart but i kinda like .... (another girl but im not sayen her name on here) and it hurt my feelings and he keept on and on about her and he started hurten my feelings even more. and i cried. and so then he got me really ticked and so i started getten smart and he starten geten smart back. and he finally said god,bye,im not talken to u,and btw dont be suprised if i dont talk to u tomorrow! and idk what to do,can someone plz help me? and fast?
If he caused the fight, then you shouldn't have to apologize. And you should never have to put up with a boyfriend liking another girl. if he loved you like he supposedly does then he wouldn't like another girl.
My boyfriend was drunk on sat night and we went to the grocery store and took a muffen from the bakery and started eating it..I said are you going to pay for that he got so mad called me names..told me to go the f home....I waited and text him and said I was sorry...he has not called what should i do.
I fight with my boyfriend all the time it really pisses me off because i am the one who always has to apologise, but the fights never last very long. The other day it was the last day of school before the summer holidays and we are going into year 9. anyway there was a disco (sad i know) at our youth club but before that there was normal youth club and suddenly he sed he needed space and when i was trying to talk to him he got all huffy. then outside my friends were with me and i was upset so they went inside and got him to come out and talk to me, he wasnt very happy about it but he sed sorry but as soon as he had sed it he said "well as we are arguing, whats all these pictures of me doing on the internet??" which had COMPLETELY nothing to do with it! but then he went home without us making up. Me and my best friend went back to my house on the bus and when we got off right next to my boyfriends house, he drove past in his car and my bestie sed that he looked at me like he was gonna cry. when we got to the disco he rang me and left a message on my phone saying he wud be late, which was really brave. then when we got inside his 2 best friends were there and sed that he rang them and said that he had a letter of apology for me and that he was gettinf ready to be dumped. when he arrived he gave me a necklace but not the note (wasnt really fussed about the note) and then we made up.......but now we have had another big fight and it is all really pissing me off. :(
me and my boyfriend fight alot sometimes its his fault and sometimes its mine...well this past week we have been fighting but its because of me...i have had mood swings left and right...basically fights would be dumb but my actions due to my mood swings have been really hurting his feelings that lately he has been depressed and doesnt really feel the love i have for him...he says "by the way things are going i dont see the point anymore." that really bothers me because i really love him and its been 2 years...and now i am really sorry for it but the thing is he is tired of just im sorry...sorry just doesnt cut it anymore...i really want to make it up to him but i dont necessarily know how and im scared he is just going to get tired of it all and leave me...i really need help...What can i do to make it up to him?................(pbnazario@yahoo.com)
ok today at school my boo didnt talk to me or give me hug bt he claim he love me but you no what i aint even trippen even know that hurt my feelings cause he never act that way torse me so now im wodering do he want to be went me or is playing games
I have more guy friends then girls... and ladies I've learned what goes on in a lot of their heads. If you and your man get in a fight its better to just let them have space!! Don't try to convince your man that you're right and he's wrong becuz most men are stubborn. They all have mood swings just like us girls. Give them space and if he hasn't come to you and talked things over, then do something sweet to let him know that you're thinking of him and that you're sorry for the fight. Don't be too clingy but make them feel loved!!
Something happened with my boy that really bugged me. I had been out with a couple of friends one night,(long before me and my boy knew each other.) Me and my friends got a little too shit faced and i ended up staying the night at his place--- keep in mind i have very few gf so this was obviously a guy. However there was no attraction on my end at all, apparently he was very attracted to me. He kissed me, thats as far as it went. NOW my boy found out about me kissing this other guy, and even though it was way in the past he flew off the handle and told me never to talk to him or else he would block my number... well girls I don't put up with that BS!Im a strong girl and believe in respect! No girl should have to put up with something as ridiculous as that! Nor, should they have to tell their boy about something that happened before they were together if they don't want to. I told him to stop acting like a bitch and if he cant drop something small that happened that long ago then we would clearly have problems. If he doesn't show me that he wants me then he cant have me. Yes this sucks becuz I fell head over hills for this guy! But if he cant get over something that he has no business in knowing then Im gone. He wants me back. cant have me. Girls have to realize that they deserve to be treated like a princess! If the man your with now doesn't show you that, then dump his sorry ass, eat some cookie dough (my comfort food) :) , watch chick flick and once you've got the inspiration, get out there and date!! No real women needs a man to help her on her feet. Don't deal with the drama. Every girl knows if she is being treated how she wants to be treated. If you're one of the girls that has a good guy then do what it takes to make the relationship work, becuz those guys are hard to come across! But if you know deep down that you're man is not the gentleman he should be... in other words if you know his mama would smack him upside the head for something, get out! Find the girl you're suppose to be and live your life! good luck ladies! :) live and learn.
myrtha says:
2 years ago
me and my boyfriend got into a fight, and I told him that he hurt me enough and to please leave me alone. Ever since he haven't call or text. So what do I do?