Virginity is the most sacred pocession the girl has and it should be given only on the right time and to the right guy. Dont after for sex right away if you are not sure with your partner. Remember it very wonderful to have it on the right guy and on the right time and with true love, its not just magic of sex you felt but also feeling of being cared and being loved tenderly. Here are some cool questions that you must think first before giving it. Remember it will be your lost if you are not thinking much about it.

1. Shoud you consider Sex necessary to you now?

According to many Doctors that teen are engaging in Sex because they are tease by many and jealous of not having it, while others are doing it.  And some are just rushing things out, they thought that having it could give outcome for the relationship.  All these were stupidity!  Mostly western countries are thinking these way and it is very sad at the one because most boys at aged 16 to 22 are thinking sex just part of fun.  You girl will just end up a loser at the end! Sex is not necessary if you are that young.  Give it to the right guy at the right time. 

2. Does Drugs and Alcohol contributes in endulging Sex or force Sex? Yes in endeed, there are many girls lured by their friends to join them in parties and in drinking spree and you dont know what will happen next? Many Guys tend to use it as a reason to make the girls to give up their conservativeness and twist their minds temporarily.  What is scary with these is you dont know what will happen to you at the end you might end up raped.  True friends and lovers are caring and very respectful, if they are acting strange to you especially with drugs and alcohol, you better go home.

3.  Saying Yes to Prove Something to Someone?  a lot of young women (and some young men) have sex because they think sex is the best way to show a person the love they feel, and having sex will guarantee that person will love them back. Becoming involved in a sexual relationship does not guarantee a commitment or a relationship, no matter how much you hope that it might. Does he claim that you're causing him physical pain by not having sex with him? Are you afraid to lose him if you don't have sex with him? Do you think sex will make your relationship better? Examine your reasons for considering sex, and don't let someone talk you into having sex before you're ready. If you're hearing lines like: "If you really loved me..."; "Show me how much you love me..."; "Let me show you how much I love you..."; or "What's the matter? Are you scared?" you're being manipulated into a decision. That is right, if your boyfriend really loves you.. He can wait and respect you much. 

4.  How about using condoms etc. so that i could sex? There are many pregnant young girls in the world, and that is because of thinking this way.  Dont get jealous if people are engaging sex, because not only your moral is damage but your future too, men preferred to marry a woman  who are not into sexual activities. It is something that would give them peace of mind.  Dont get tempted with condoms, because you know what having sex without condoms is wonderful. Wait for the best time.

5. Contracting HIV? The only 100 percent effective way of avoiding AIDS/HIV is abstinence. Latex condoms used with a spermicide can decrease the chances of transmitting the deadly disease, but they're not 100 percent effective. "I ask high school groups if they know anyone who has tested positive for HIV/AIDS, and usually they say yes. Then I ask them if the person they know looks sick. Usually they say no. Testing is the only way to know who carries the virus."

6. Does the Relationship Change if We Have Sex? Though people often feel that having a sexual relationship will make them closer, the reality is that in many relationships it can change the way two people interact with each other.

Yes indeed very very much and mostly both of you, can feel something  new... and you girl can feel a bit regretting and a bit happy. But if you are asking if it can make your relationship grow stronger, it is not the solution.   

7.Feelings in Terms of My Personal Values and Religious Beliefs? "Society has placed such a taboo on premarital sex that guilt feelings almost always develop. More so for girls than guys. Culturally, it's often viewed as okay for a guy to have sex — he gets a pat on the back, a girl gets called names," Will there be an added level of dishonesty and deceitfulness in your life as a result of your decision? Lisa: "I felt bad all the time. I was afraid my parents would find out. I knew deep down I wasn't doing what was right according to my religion."

8.  Responsibilities that Go with Being a Sexually Active Person?

Always remember that sex is a responsibility towards to the someone you love and to the someone you care.  It is true, it is one way to bind you together so give it to right guy at the right time. Be responsible is choosing the right guy and I am sure both of you will be happy in the future. 

A REMINDERS

A guy who cares about you will be willing to wait. He'll have more respect for girls who stick up for their beliefs. Sex can be an awkward, intimate act. Baring yourself literally and emotionally can be difficult. Assert yourself from the beginning. Know where you stand, and then stand up for your beliefs. Sex that occurs as a result of pressure from someone else almost always has negative consequences. Giving in to someone else's wishes won't make someone like you more. You'll end up feeling bad about compromising on a decision that should be yours and yours alone. Don't compromise your feelings and principles. Before you consider having sex, consider your options. You are in control of your body, your life, and your future. 

5 SIGNS YOU SHOULD WAIT

If your decision regarding becoming sexually active centers around one of these fears, you should wait!

1. Fear of losing him

2. Fear of appearing immature or babyish

3. Fear of being viewed as a prude

4. Fear of being seen as inexperienced

5. Fear of what other people will think