Tips For Hair Repair
77What to Do When Your Hair is Damaged Beyond Repair
I hope this has never happened to you. You go into a salon and have a chemical service done to your hair. It can be a color, a perm or a straightener. What happens next is not good.
Your hairdresser may or may not say anything at this point. She/he can still make it look OK. They know how to cover up damage temporarily. They use styling product, maybe blow dry it. But the real trick to smoothing out frizzy over processed hair is to apply heat. If they are using a curling iron and you have not request that, ask them why they are doing it. A logical answer would be to fluff the front, to style the bangs or top, to make large curls all over if you had a tighter perm and want it smoother. If you asked for a body perm and they are now using an iron to soften out the curls, you may have gotten a perm that will be too tight when you get home and wash it for the first time.
Thoroughly check your new perm right away while you are still at the salon. If there is something that you are not satisified with, speak up. Now is the time to let them know how you feel. Be sure to speak with the salon owner or manager. There is the option of deep conditioning your hair right away if it is WAY too curly. It will relax it some what. If that isn't enough, give it at least two weeks to settle down. You can deep condition it during this time as often as every other day.
What to do if your hair has been over processed and is dry, frizzy and fragile.
I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but there is not much you can do now. I would suggest that you go back to the salon and ask to speak with the owner or manager.Ask him/her to wash and condition your hair. They can get a better idea of what is going on when it's wet. Ask them to then give you their oppinion as to what is making your hair dry, frizzy and breaking. There is nothing you can put on your hair at this point that will fix it. I'm sorry to say, but your only option is to try these steps.
1. Wash less frequently.
2. Use a heavy cream conditioner, leave most of it in.
3. use a styling aid such as gel, mousse, leave in cream, and hairspray.
4. Go back to the salon once per week for deep conditioning treatments. Ask for these to be performed free of charge. Do this for 6 weeks, then once a month for 3 months.
5. hope it growes out quickly and possibly change hairdressers.
So, as you can see, there is not much that can be done for overprocessed hair. It can not be fixed. It can be covered over to make it appear smoother, but, you can not fix it.
Using products such as a heavy leave in conditioner mixed with some gel will help it look better. Using a curling iron will also smooth it out. This will have to be done every time though, since, as soon as you wash it again, the dry, frizzy's will be back.
Hair can not be repaired after it is damaged. Your hair is not a living thing. That's why you can cut it and it doesn't hurt. Once the hair shaft exits your skin, it is no longer a living thing. It is just, well, actually, read this from Wikipedia
So, if you want Beautiful Hair, you need to be careful about chemical treatments. Chemical treatments include perms, permanent color, straightener, hi-lites. Some chemical treatments that do not cause damage are semi-permanent color and lo-lites. You can read about both of these on my web site, Beauty from Within.
Another suggestion about chemical services. If you have one, your hair should be fine, IF you use a high quality, salon quality, shampoo, conditioner and styling aid. This is SO important! Why spend the money on having the chemical service in the first place if you aren't going to take super care of it after it's done? Shampoo and conditioner found in a grocery or department store are usually cheap detergent with fragrance added. They are not only harsh, but will relax a perm, fade a color and dry out your hair. Yes, even if it says it's for chemically treated hair. Salon products are the correct pH balance for optimum hair health and beauty.
Please refer to my web site for more details about how you can keep your hair beautiful and healthy. You can have chemical services done. Just know when to stop. Don't have too many done on the same hair. What I mean by that is, when you have a perm or permenent color, that hair has to grow out and be cut off before it is all gone. You CAN color just the new growth. What you should not do is color the entire thing every time. You also should not re-perm until the old one is completely gone.
I hope this has been helpful. If you have any questions, you can contact Michelle right from her web site, Beauty from Within
Have a beautiful hair day. :-)
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Comments
Lisa, I'm so sorry to hear about your hair situation. I'm glad you have started using natural products. In my salon I do still offer permanent hair color, BUT, I let them know EXACTLY what having this done means to their hair. Then, it's their choice. Some people will still choose the permanent, but others want something gentle and as non-toxic as possible.
I use a very gentle color called Shades EQ by Redken. It works great and is so gentle, your hair looks and feels better after it is done. This is what I offer first.
I'm happy to hear that you have your healthy hair back and are treating it gently. Are you using quality products as well?
I have not had a colouring for years, but I have frizzy curly hair. You are right, saloon products make a big difference. They are usually 3 or 4 times the price (in my town) but at least they work wonders.
Hi, Michelle. I am using high quality products. My company offered a really good leave-in conditioner and a hair masque. I have very fine hair also so I have to be careful not to use anything heavy like hair wax or hair gloss. Recently though I tried using my company's leave in conditioner with Paul Mitchell's hair serum. I apply both when my hair is wet, not damp like the instructions say. It does make a difference but like you said you have to do it every day.
Dear Michelle, Im thinking that my hair is over processed. I had highlights put in a couple of months ago, which I may do every couple years, and I heard the hairdresser say "uh-ohh, you processed fast!" My hair is sticky when it is wet, I can barely get a brush through it, and forget trying to pull it up while wet. Please, what can help me???
Amanda,
I'm so sorry to hear about your hair. Have you spoken with your hairdresser? This should be your first step as he/she should be the one to help you work through this. Unfortunately, it can not be fixed, it can only be helped. What I mean is, the hairdresser should do a series of moisturizing treatments as well as give you, (yes, give, not charge) products to use at home. They need to know what they have done and they should help you with it for as long as needed at no further cost to you.
Many times, people will not go back because they are upset with the situation and/or the person, but if you want them to make this right for you, go back and insist on seeing who ever is in charge. The owner or manager as well as the hairdresses should be sat down and told about this and what you expect as a result.
I wrote an article about how to talk to your hairdresser and here's the link.
http://beautyfromwithin.squarespace.com/talk-to-yo
I hope this is helpful.
Take care,
Michelle Moseley












Lisa Latimer says:
16 months ago
Hi, Michelle. Great article. I used to go to a hair dresser who used to give me highlights for the longest time. Then one day she said my hair was starting to get too gray so she suggested me dying my hair completely. She made the comments "It's time."She tried to convince me that I'd be saving money. She lied. After the first couple of complete hair dyes my hair was a wreck! The small frizzy patch on top of my head became worse. She did not explain that there may be some risk that my hair would become more damaged and that possibly my frizzy hair patch would get bigger. It cost me in terms of money in expensive hair products to attempt to fix my hair, and to no avail. It also cost me in time because my hair then became an obsession. I also paid the price in terms of lower sel-image and self-confidsence. I no longer see her. But when i thought about her comments "It's time" what she really meant was time to damage my hair beyond repair. Chemicals such as ammonia and even hydrogen peroxide are not only very drying but toxic! There are a host of other toxic ingredients in commercial hair dyes also. Now, I only use natural hair dyes using henna and a solution called cover the grey by Light Mountain-the lowest in toxicity. Other women have suffered worse hair fates than mine called toxic hair loss. I am lucky that didn't happen to me, but still, what a pain!