Tips and suggestions on how someone can leave an abusive relationship.
56Love does not hurt
I have had to leave several abusive relationships. It took me a long time to realize that real love is not supposed to hurt. If someone says they love me they treat me with respect, listen to what I say and they do not deny my feelings. Therefore, if you are physically in danger my best advice would be to contact your local woman's shelter, make a plan to leave, get up enough courage to go and I'll tell you what, it's so much better once you get out you will wonder why you stayed so long. The alternative is not a good one, most women who can't leave will be either murdered or tortured until they do. I know what it's like and how alone you must feel, but you aren't alone. I think you're worth saving and I don't even know you. If you want to talk more my email is mrsbillingsley@gmail.com. Take care.
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jake says:
5 months ago
high i dont know if you can help or not i am a man who is going through hell, my wife and i have been together for three years and have gone through a lot we have a child and have been abusive towards each other in the past recently we have had a lot of problems financially with our car and some of my legal issues . we started fighting more and things got out of hand many times i became physicall and i know it was wrong but i couldnt handle the emotional abuse anymore so i snapped. she left and got a restraining order and now is going to file for divorse, she has told some of my family if i move out and get employment she would work things out with me and our relationship i know i have done something terrible and feel like shit about it im going to counciling once a week and have been diagnosed with major depression and anxiety from being abused as a child sexually and physically.i have tryed to tell her in the past but couldnt and i feel as tthough i should have so she could have helped me get help. please if you can help in any way i would greatly appreciate it im trying to become a better man and i love her so much and never want to have this happen again.life without my wife jut isnt worth living and if i cant treat her right she shouldnt be with me but i am doing everthing within my power to change i cant give up on us i just cant. please help if you can email jakegrande88@hotmail.com