Tips for Dealing with Social Anxiety
80Dealing with Social Anxiety
Maybe you are not aware of this, but about 20 million people in America have a problem with social anxiety, these people are usually not understood and they suffer a lot from the frustration of having to avoid people and being alone.
Going to a party, to work or to a public place can become a real challenge for them. However the severity of the symptoms are different in each person, some people experience anxiety just in public speaking and performance and others have generalized social anxiety.
Let me give you some tips to deal with social anxiety
Social phobia is a personality disorder and needs to be treat it by a professional psychotherapist or physician so you can overcome it easier.
- You can take some medications to reduce your social anxiety symptoms like anxiety and depression. However you most be aware that some medications cause serious side effects so its vital that you consult with your doctor before trying any medication.
- The most effective way to recover from this disorder is to use psychotherapy, take a cognitive behavioral therapy and if you follow the therapy you will be able to see great results.
- Learn communication skills, there are many courses like books, audios and videos about how to communicate better with people, create conversations, persuade people and be more confident, this will help you a lot to have more confidence when talking with some else.
- Learn relaxation and mediation techniques like breathing deeply, yoga, exercise and any other techniques that help you cope with anxiety symptoms.
- Research about natural remedies like herb medications and natural supplements that help reduce anxiety, relax your body, calm your self, have more energy and be more sociable.
- Expose your self gradually to social situation, its highly effective to little by little meet some new people, go to some public places, talk with someone you dont usually talk that will cause you to be more comfortable talking with others over time.
- Meet new people that have your same hobbies and interest, the easiest way to engage in a conversation with others is to talk about something that you have in common to meet these people, do things that you like to do and meet people that do the same.
Those are some very important tips to deal with social anxiety, you dont have to live all your life with this problem, there are very effective treatments that if you follow them it will work for you. Do the tips that i tell you above and you will be a lot better, it requires persistence and effort but the rewards will be great.
Another thing that you can do and help you a lot is to join social anxiety support groups, here people that have your same problem interact with each other and share their experiences and results on what is actually working for them and what they do to cope with their symptoms. If you want to read the experiences of other people you can also find online forums for social anxiety.
A i have said find professional help, dont stay alone for a lot of time because it can produce depression, is better to find a close friend to go out from time to time or with a family member.
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Social anxiety is indeed terrible. I had speech disorder a long time ago, being already a shy person, it brought my confidence right down, speaking as well as interacting and joining in at social situations. Luckilly my speech disorder cured in my teens and I put myself in stressful situations to overcome my social anxiety. Going to college changed my life, it made me more open and socialble, I learnt a lot. I am still a shy person but not as shy as I used to be. I think people with social anxiety need to push themselves, go out of their comfort zone. People with SA should not care about what people think or say about them, they need to gain some insight about curing it, like reading books or going to a therapist.
Great information but lots of spelling mistakes and missing words.
I have such a hard time around people. I have a bridal shower this weekend. i barely know the bride and don't know anyone that will be there. i feel so rude because i always make excuses not to go to events. but what will i talk about, who will i sit by? i dread hours of feeling uncomfortable and trying to make small talk, while everyone else is so comfortable and friendly with each other. i can tell i make people feel awkward around me. they don't know what to say to me. always weird silences, always avoiding eye contact. i dont know what to do except take xanax and try to leave as early as possible.
I decided to try to go on a date tonight.. I got to the restaurant and left before he got there. I was so freaked out and paralyzed with fear of meeting someone new.. I ruined both of our nights. :(
I decided to try to go on a date tonight.. I got to the restaurant and left before he got there. I was so freaked out and paralyzed with fear of meeting someone new.. I ruined both of our nights. :(
I am entering my second year in college and I find that my social phobia is getting worse & worse. It was pretty bad in high school but, now it seems almost paralyzing. Most of my concerns resemble those Nicole (above). Just feeling completely awkward in every social situation to the point that make up an excuse to get out of it. I'm 19 y/o and I've never been on a date, never kissed & never had any really close male friends because my social anxiety completely inhibits me from doing so. I am currently an intern & simply associating with my coworkers on a daily basis is almost an unbearable task. I'm so scared because I am a journalism/communication major and I know that if I don't rid myself of my disorder, I'll never reach my full potential in life.
when I got out of college I got a job and my social anxiety keep me from ever feeling comfortable at the work place. I became depressed and was eventually let go. now im starting a new job next week and I am afraid of the same thing happening
Yeah it sux. i am scared to talk to girls lol. well i get embearrased and overthink before i even talk to em . i know i have a chance with some but i am to self consciense of my face exprssions .. ERGGGHHH!!!!
(oh well life could be worse)
Im not that shy cuz i work in retail i can speak to older people pretty good and little kids with no problem and with guys my age good as well but when it comes to just blabing and making conversations and keepin up with manly jokes i kind of suck. I am not a social person so i feel awkward with long talks. When i drink alcohol i feel much better and loosen up alot but still have my SA even at high levels of intoxication lol.. weird.. still not a good habit rarely do this people if u have to .. just to break the ice i guess is fine in my oppinion . but dont leave no one on a empty date just like' freaked out' said. that is plain rude just go wit it and c what happens









jennyj1 says:
9 months ago
Social anxiety is terrible, I know first hand, I did fix it though using all natural anxiety cure methods