In this modern world that we live in, there are not so many rules about having sex.

Scenario No 1 – You don’t have sex on the first date

Results:
Possible result No 1 – Your date might think that you don’t like him/her. That’s pretty bad because there might not be a second date. BUT, if you wanted a relationship, then it’s good because generally having sex on the first date indicates that you want to have fun not start a serious relationship. So it might as well be over and you’ll find more serious partner who wants the same things as you do.

Possible result No 2 – Your date will start respecting you more. This is a really good result if you want a relatonship because the person sees that you are not promiscuous and don’t sleep with anyone. Since there are a lot of people who do sleep around, it is always good to indicate that you aren’t that kind of person. The only downside is that you might not find out how good he/she is in bed  But that can be fixed later 

Possible result No 3 – If you don’t like your date, then no harm done. You haven’t had sex and you don’t have to see each other later on. So there will be no ties and you can start dating other people. I would just congratulate you that you survived the date because I know how horrible is to go on a date with someone you don’t even like. In my opinion, men and women can understand if they want the other person in like 10 seconds. It’s just the connection that is there or isn’t there. That’s it.

Scenario No 2 – You have sex on the first date

Results:
Possible result No 1 – Your date doesn’t call you back. That means that he/she used you just for sex and wasn’t interested in anything more. Don’t worry – there is always more where that one came from!

Possible result No 2 – You start a sexual relationship. That can be good or bad. It’s positive when you want a „sex buddy“ and enjoy just having sex but on the other hand, it can be bad if you wanted a relationship and now it’s ruined. In my experience, a sexual relationship turns rarely into a real relationship. When a man has started this process, he sees the woman as a sexual object and it is hard to reprogram that kind of man to regard the woman as something more.

Possible result No 3 – You start a real relationship. This doesn’t happen often because some people question – if you are willing to have sex on the first date, maybe it will happen in the future with somebody else, too? But there are some cases when the passion is great and you can’t help yourself and you just want to feel the partner near you and he/she feels the same way. These kind of relationships are really passionate and include having lots of sex. But I have to remind you that what comes quickly, goes as quickly as it has come. So beware – you need to really work on the relationship and make it more meaningful in order to maintain it.

If it were me, then in the heat of the passion, I would consider having sex with somebody on the first date, but as I know that there can be more negative consequences than positive ones, I would wait just a bit more 

Well, as I have brought out the possibilities of either sides and my point of view, the decision is up to you. Good luck with that