Toddler Tantrums
59What Are Toddler Tantrums?
Toddler Tantrums are simply when your toddler throws a temper tantrum. Entering the terrible twos and (as I like to call them) the terrific threes, children begin to establish and grow at a very quick pace. Since these kids are so young, they do not know how to express themselves with their words so they result to crying, screaming, and throwing fits.
What Causes Toddler Tantrums?
Anything at any time can result in a temper tantrum by your toddlers, but there is usually an explanation for it. Most of time they fall into one of two classifications - physical or mental.
Some examples of physical are your child is hungry or thirsty, or your child is too tired to fall asleep. Some examples of mental are they tried to perform a task and failed, or they could have tried to learn something and failed.
One of the most frequent reasons for toddler tantrums is when your child is told No.
Handling Toddler Tantrums
There are some simple tips that are the first steps in handling toddler tantrums:
- Control your anger. If you are angry, and your child is angry, you are just going to say things that you don't mean.
- Adding to the above is to stay calm. Take a moment if you need to cool your jets. Count to ten, walk away, whatever, just keep a level head about yourself and your child will notice.
- Don't give in. If you give in, your child will use their temper tantrums as a way to get what they want.
Check out my wife and I's personal experience with the terrible twos and toddler tantrums over at Children Tantrums. Our 4 year old and 2 year old daughters were driving us crazy until we found a course that instructed us on what worked.
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LUCKY! My youngest is just starting them, and the 4 year old seems to be easeing out of hers. My biggest problem is I have a short temper, and I know that doesn't help in trying to control my kids.
You have girls, so I'd recommend this book,
The Female Brain, by Louann Brizendine
Thanks @Haunty - but I doubt I will ever understand the female brain, I don't think any man will ever.
My twin 3 year old granddaughters try the odd tantrum, but have learned that it does not work. My four year old grandson still has tantrums sometimes. I have found that one thing you need is patience. They grow through it soon enough and all children are different so no hard and fast rules work. What works for me is to listen to them while kneeling down to their level.When they get heard like this sometimes they calm down.
Thanks @earnestshub, I forgot about that one - kneeling down to their level.












\Brenda Scully says:
7 months ago
Very good advice, I was always lucky my children did not have temper tantrums, but a friend of mine all her three children did, it was a night mare for her, she was a wonderful mum, but they really drove her mad with the tantrums