So, let’s face it, life has changed and changed for the worse. I was watching a caveman documentary about how people had “supposedly” evolved. Before the show, I remember thinking, this was going to be another half-naked caveman, with club and loin cloth blowing about in the breeze, while running after (or away from,) a Mastodon.

But actually, it was about how early primitive people had evolved through the context of relationships as well, and that proved to be very interesting. Not to say that they didn’t have their problems either, and worse; matter of fact, their problems would eventually spill over into our world and, et, nothing has really changed. It was a theory of how life handpicked Homo Sapiens to evolve over other creatures.

But if you ask me, life probably now rues that decision.

Walking upright and having sex had a direct correlation to we six footers edging out the rest of zootopia, it apparently had something to do with calories and energy conservation. Maybe humans are no smarter than any other animal. We were just able to out breed the rest of the kingdom faster and eventually, like the hundred chimps in a room typing the Gettysburg Address adage, we invented the gun and away we went.

It's common knowledge that whatever is given, can also be taken away. And if you look around, it feels as though life is slowly taking back that gift of superiority. Judging from the inside out, life may be saying, “Well, I can’t raise a significant threat against humans, there’s no time to turbo-evolve a new creature against man, so I’ll just haveto make this an inside job." Life began evolution with relationships, and me thinks life will destroy man through relationships. Why do I say this? I could say look at statistics, (but then my Hub would be over,) so I would like for this to serve as a meeting place for all who want to vent, read, laugh, cry, agree, or vehemently disagree, c'mon, that's fun, right? I'm a person who has had a few good relationships, and a lot more bad ones, and that’s where life is hitting humans in the proverbial ballsack.

Where do I begin? I wonder what our Great Grandpapies who had to work behind methane spewing oxen, plowing fields and sweating all day, would think of the Emo crowd? Don’t get me wrong, I love Emo girls, (it’s a sick little fetish, I know,) but Emo guys are limp wristed, lame rich kid wussies, who get totally hot girls to buy into their distorted view of sub masculinity.
(Who says we don’t need wars?)

Life has gotten way too easy. What happened to when the world was hungry? When you planted, reaped, and starved until something sprouted? When a family bonded together by the crops and the farm they used to necessitate life as they knew it. Now, the third or fourth largest killer (it's always a tie between heart disease and drunk driving,) is obesity.

My point to starting this hub is to discover where relationships really are in the United States, and even on a global level. But, at the street level, the home level, the heart level and the real mind level. No more god dam lies. And never at the psychologist level, (I've got a bellyful for them, believe me.) I will hold no truth in the dark about where I have been, what I have witnessed and the theories that appear to exist not only in my heart, but maybe yours as well. I am a bit of a misogynist, but if you ask me, the sexes are really trying to manipulate and destroy each other now anyway, more than help each other.

Going back to caveman days, the gender war probably began when the first cave man slapped his wife, and she looked around and said, "I can't beat him now, but one day, I'll be on his level. One day, I'll hold the club" And the first feminist was born.

People, there is nothing new under the sun, so lets not pretend to be so sheepish about how we really feel. Love is a game we play. We all don't feel the same about everyone we meet, some are lovers, some are providers, some are rebounds, some are for late nights and other are for nooners.

Homework:

On this first point, can we agree, or disagree? Is there anyone out there who goes into a new relationship, with the same level of trust, care, dedication and openness as maybe with someone who they might have spent a few years with, building those levels?

Are those levels ALWAYS build able, with everyone we meet?

Are there some people who just are not important, no matter how you or they slice it, meaning, no matter what they do, you'll never give them enough respect, enough concern or enough of a chance to be someone significant to you? (But you'll have sex with them anyway?)

What do you all think about types? (Such as, I go for this "type" of guy, or this "type" of girl.) And how well to types play in the formulation of long lasting relationships? I say they hinder, you say?