Today I will tell you something what happen to me and not that I did not liked but is not the way to do that. OK, this happen on YUWIE, very popular social network site, where I love to explore profiles and make friends. Now I have more than 2000 friends there and usually, when I find someone online, send them some message or some comment just to let them know that I’m here, that I don’t add them as a friend and then leave them like this. I like to know what they are doing and how is going. I never attack them with some affiliate links or some HTML comment with my affiliate links. If they are interested in something they will ask or check my profile. I make enough money using PPC programs and I don’t need to invade them and loose friends just because of one affiliate links. But what happen to me......   I receive one message from my “Friend”, let’s say friend because since I add him as a friend or he add me (This I really don’t know) he did not send me one message to see If I’m OK or just to say HELLO. His message was like this:

“Hi, I have one great opportunity for you, this you need to check, 10000$ in one month...........” and in the end affiliate link. I ask my self who is that guy? What he talk about? I’m about one year that I’m in affiliate business and I never do like this because it leads to failure and I know it. I reply on his message and my reply you can read here:

“Hello my “friend”. First of all I don’t know you, I never talk with you and you attack me on the first message with your affiliate link and this is no good. If you talk a little about this and after a conversation you offer me this then I would take a look but like this I will ignore your message. Way that you work leads to failure and I will explain why. In affiliate marketing you must not think of making money but in establishing friendship, relationship, trustees between each other and money will come alone after this. I even don’t think that you make any money with your system but not cause of the system you are promoting, cause of your method that you are using for promotion. Doing like this you will never sell anything because people will not trust you. So my friendly advice is to STOP doing this, learn something about affiliate marketing and start again and you will see that you will succeed. Did you try your system? You said that you make 10000$ a month but if you are using method that you use with me maybe you spend 10000$ a month and not earn. If you want I can help you, I have one e-book about affiliate marketing and I can send it to you for free, you read it and check what you do wrong, correct problems and start again. Hope that after this we remain friend and talk sometime about our business, our goal and our failures.”

After this I receive reply from him: “OK” and nothing else. I want to send them one more message just to see what he thinks about it but I couldn’t because he blocks my profile. Could you imagine this? I just send him a message and the content was only what I though that is truth and according his action I really write the truth and TRUTH SOMETIME HURT!!! He does what he does but doing like this he will never make any money not only in internet business but also in other job. I always accept any advice and after read this I decide what is good for me and what’s not but NEVER cancel or block friend profile just because someone says that I doing wrong. Internet is full of this and is very hard to sell something and earn money if you don’t use right methods and this you must learn easy or hard way, it’s up to you, accept some friendly advice or doing your way. But if you are not going anywhere using your methods then accepts friendly advice and try to use it and check for the result.