Ultra Natural Power For Confronting Manipulators
57They Will Put A Microscope On You
Methodology To Stop A Manipulator
First what is Ultra Natural Power? Let me break it down; Ultra means
extreme, Natural means in accordance with nature, and Power means
possession of controlling influence. In short this is my coined term
for subconscious mental activity.
My model uses this powerful
concept to regain control in your life. This book will give you a
overview or synopsis of different types of manipulators, how they
develop, their traits, their mindsets, and their objectives.
Unlike
most traditional books, I have used a nontraditional format in my
writing mainly because the art of manipulation does not follow any
particular recognizable format. It usually operates beneath the surface
and rears its head whenever the opportunity presents itself.
I honestly
believe that no one starts out to be a manipulator but their is a
latent behavior in everyone that can take on a negative form of its
own, if not put in check.
First - If you suspect that you are being manipulated, you must disengage from this person.
Second - This person has zoomed in on your attitudes and behaviors and is using them to control you.
Third
- You will need to intentionally modify or change your behavior in such
a way that the other person is confused and can not predict how you
will respond to them.
Fourth - Depending on if the manipulation
towards you is of a harmful nature or simple ego control will dictate
the strength of the counter measures that you want to use.
Five
- It usually takes about 28 to 31 days for new habits to develop. Once
the other person realizes that their button pushing doesn't work with
you, they will first try to push harder then eventually begin to try
new more positive behavior towards you.
Step 1
Make a list of the manipulative behavior that you want to change. Place lines after each like this ___ ___ ___ ___.
Step 2
Make a list of the desired results that you would like to receive and make the same lines.
Make the two list neat enough so they it will last for 28 to 31 days.
Step 3
When
the subject exhibits the undesirable behavior, place a check mark after
that item and do the same with the other list when the subject exhibits
desirable behavior.
Monitor the two list daily and you will be
able to track the behavior changes or lack of them. Remember the main
key is to disengage then exhibit unexpected behavior.
If this person desires your companionship they will try to alter their behavior to be congruent with yours.
Step 4
Food for thought!. The majority of the
individuals out
there have no idea that they are being manipulated or the fact that they are manipulating people. This usually takes
place
at a subliminal level. It is kind of like riding a bike and not
thinking about it as you are doing it. It is just molded into your
behavior and attitudes. To bring about desired behavior; A modification
process has to take place.
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