TIP #1 - Playing hard to get is very important. You must appeal to her power of seduction. Let her use her sensuality and sexuality to "catch" you. The important thing is that once you know a single girl is interested in you, then you can appeal to her power of seduction by playing hard to get. Don't call her every night. Don't make big sexual moves on her at first. You must appear to be interested, yet still holding back a bit - not quite sure if you want the relationship to go further. Make her feel, as though she has to work harder to convince you that you do want the relationship to develop.

TIP #2 - Convince the girl that she is more interested in you, than you are in her.

Example: End the date before she does. You've gone to a movie and are now having a bite to eat at a restaurant. Instead of letting the date drag on to that awkward time when she finally says she has to go home, maintain control of the evening. While the conversation is still good, while the date is still going well, announce that it's getting late and it's time to go. Tell her that you enjoyed the evening and that you are looking forward to getting together again. This is going to surprise her, since every other guy thinks, that by some miracle, if he hangs on long enough that maybe he'll convince her to have sex with him. If a girl wants to have sex with you, she will let you know. So if you haven't gotten these vibes, end the date while it's still going well. You'll set yourself apart from the other guys she's used to. You demonstrate that you are not easy to get.

Example: Don't rush things sexually with single women. Appear as if you are still deciding whether or not you want to be involved. The first example in this section of ending a date before she does, is a great way to accomplish this. Also, if the mood, the time, the place isn't right, or it feels the slightest bit awkward, don't try kissing her for the first time. If she's interested, the time and place will come. But, by pushing it, you risk blowing an important event, you risk coming off as being desperate for action and worst of all, you risk appearing inexperienced and inept. Don't be afraid to wait until the time is right.

Example: Don't always be available to do something with her. You have called a girl and asked her to go to a movie on Tuesday and she declines. Don't say, "Well, how about Wednesday?" or "What day can you make it?" Simply say, "That's too bad you can't make it. Maybe some other time. Talk to you later."

Hygiene & Body Image

Poor hygiene will really turn a single woman off or any person for that matter. Keep your hair and teeth clean and your breath fresh. Be sure and bathe, wear good cologne, and wear a good deodorant. Don't forget to shave either. Be aware that facial hair will make you look older. Also, most single women are not attracted to beards. If you insist on wearing a beard, keep it neatly trimmed. If you are going bald or have a receding hairline, don't try to disguise it by combing it a certain way. This makes you look silly. Women are not going to judge you because of your lack of hair. If you're getting thin on top, just cut your hair short all over. This will give you the appearance of having more hair. Another word about hair. If you have a chest or back like a hairy gorilla, trim it. Too much hair turns off the majority of women.

A word about gray or graying hair. This can attract single women like a magnet, provided that you have a slender body to match it. If you're overweight, she will see you as just a fat old man, which will be a turn off and don't die your hair either because this is not good for your image either. If you are an older man, wear your hair short. It will make you look younger. Study the models in the magazines for some nice hairstyle ideas. Finally, it won't hurt to have a nice tan either. Women love the beach, so it will certainly help for you to have that tanned beach-hunk look.

How to Talk to Single Women when on a Date

When you're out on your first date with a single woman, it's quite natural to ask questions to get to know her better. However, there's an art to asking questions and I will teach you how. Here's what not to do, which will make a bad impression on your date. Whatever you do, don't ask one question after another. This will make her feel like she is being interrogated or interviewed for a job. The best way to ask questions is to let her answer, then add additional comments and conversation around her answer. In other words, make her answer a topic of conversation. Then you can weave in some more questions using the same technique. Using this technique will be non-threatening and not so obtrusive. Plus, she will admire your conversational skills by you expressing interest in her answers.

How to Win the Hearts of Single Women Using Poetry

I know what you may be thinking. Poetry is for wimps. All women in general love poetry and one of the fastest ways to a woman's heart is using poetry. I can assure you that if you use poetry on her she won't think that you're a wimp. She will be impressed! Here are some great poems to give to her to win her heart:

Poem #1

To: ____________(her name)

It takes the Sun and the Rain,

to make the flowers grow.

It takes the Moon and the Stars,

to make the Heavens glow.

It takes a wish, and lots of hard work

to make a Dream come true.

And to make my Life really happy,

it takes a "Sweet" and "Lovely" girl like you!

* This poem below is my personal favorite poem that worked best for me on single women:

Poem #2

To:_____________(her name)

Some girls are nice,

Some girls are "Sweet,"

And some are "Dear as can be."

And once in a great while,

a girl like _____(her name) comes along,

Who happens to be "All Three!"

Poem #3

To:______________(her name)

You make me feel....

like something special,

because you are.

Poem #4

To:______________(her name)

I'll tell you my fantasy,

it's an evening for two,

anywhere...with you.

When I would meet women at bars and nightclubs and scored their phone number, just before I would say goodbye I would write one of these poems on a piece of paper right in front of her and give it to her. Try it guys, this technique really leaves a lasting impression!

A Few Warning Signs for Potential Marriage Problems

I know you are single now, but at some point in your life most likely you will get married or remarry. I wanted to pass along some valuable advice to you before you take the plunge: Guys, I just can't express to you how serious marriage is and your choice of the right mate is critical to your happiness. I want you to succeed in marriage and it's a wonderful feeling spending the rest of you life with someone you love, get along with, and share common goals and interests with.

This week I want to alert you to some warning signals to look for that may potentially lead to a divorce, if you're planning on getting married:

How do her parents treat each other?

Do they disrespect each other and are they always arguing and showing no love for each other? Our personalities are influenced by our parents. The way her parents treat each other can be an indicator of how she will treat you when you're married. If it's negative, watch out!

Find out about her work history.

If she has drifted from one job to another, this could indicate she has a problem getting along with others. And if she can't get along with others she might not be able to get along with your friends and relatives, which can lead to marital friction.

If you don't drink and are turned off by people who drink, don't marry a woman who drinks a lot. This can cause major problems.

Does she have financial problems? Does she mismanage her money, in debt, overspends and shops all the time with no thought whatsoever if she can afford it? When you get married, things will be no different. She will most likely be the same way financially. If you are frugal and good with money, then money is going to be a major source of conflict in your marriage.

Do her parents object to you getting married?

If they do, then cool it for awhile. Put off the wedding until they have your blessings.

I'm not trying to preach religion to you, but it's a known fact that the family that prays together stays together. Sharing your religious beliefs is a very strong foundation for a successful marriage