Veterans Day Message
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Thank You Vets
I didn't know how to classify this Hub because there are no tags that reflect honor, sacrifice, bravery, and heroism. This day, Veterans' Day, used to mean very little to me. I admit that as the grandson of a WWII Vet in high school I could have cared less about why we had days off from school, as long as we didn't have to attend classes. Unfortunately for me, by the time I came to not only respect all that my grandfather gave, but also the sacrifices of so many millions of brave men and women and their families, Grandpa Louis lay wasting in a home, stripped of all but his past glories. It took my own enlistment in the army for me to recognize true greatness. And I thank him today, as I pray for what Veterans have done for this nation since its inception.
What it means to me
This is my second Veterans' Day as a civilian after leaving the army with my captain's bars back in April 2007. My six years in the army served me well. I found discipline in myself I thought only existed for sports or standing in line for playoff tickets. I lived in many parts of the country I might not have otherwise, and I served for 16 months in combat. But this day means more to me because it binds me forever with my grandfather and my brother, by more than blood, by the honor of serving our Nation.
Last year I raged with disgust as my former employer, Lockheed Martin, made me decide to work either on Veterans' Day or the day after Thanksgiving. A company that is comprised of thousands of Vets actually made their employees choose to work on a day when they should be toasted. This year I am kicking back, working on my book about the parallels between my time in Iraq and my grandfather"s time in WWII, and thinking about my brother serving in Iraq now as his family, a wife and two young sons, pretend to go about their day to day lives in Arizona while counting the days, hours, minutes, and seconds down to when he returns. The same could be said of thousands of other families whose sons and daughters lace up their boots each day, in and out of this land. Those that choose others before themselves. Those that get paid far less than movie stars and heiresses for doing something this country needs. But most would happily do it for meager pay, because we are a small percentage who give more than we can ever be reimbursed for. It's a forever kind of fraternity. And it's kind of cool, actually.
And finally
Because I don't know when I'll finsih this book, or even know that it will ever publish when I am done, I wanted to thank some people who helped me be a better Soldier, leader, officer, and by some way allowed me to come home safe. Though they may never read this, and in no particular order, my sincerest thanks go out to:
Phil Zachary (CBS Radio honcho who said I would be a shitty Soldier), you made me try harder everyday and you don't even know it; Drill Sergeant Sparkman. You never got my name right, and you couldn't spell, but your incompetence made the platoon come together; The dude from my Basic Platoon who told me to read The Fountainhead. Great book. Ryan Simpson, my AIT roommate and pal at Bragg; Wes Welton, Bragg buddy and confidant; Lt Col Tim Parker, for getting me out of my civilian clothes at USASOC and into Butterbars; My tank-mates at Armor Officer Basic Course, Ft. Knox. You never let me live down swamping the tank, but we were a good crew; My former Troop Commanders, Rex Copeland, John Hawbaker, and Andy Hiersteter. I was glad for my time serving with each. John, I always admired your thinking. Andy, my friend, we'll always have Mosul...and Baghdad; Jeff Bouldin. Thank God for you in the desert. I laughed and learned from/with you. You were the real commander of C Troop in the end. The whale story will forever make me laugh; Jackie DeGaine. My lawyer-iffic friend. Thanks for the songs, the dinners, and making it to my wedding. You're amazing; Melissa Alex, widow of Staff Sergeant Eugene Alex. You and yours are in my prayers daily; Mike Felsberg. A childhood friend of mine who died a yound 2LT in Ramadi. When your light expired too early I got even more focused. Just found a picture of you from little league, too, best of times; My best friend and college roommate, Keegin. I love ya; The men I served with in every unit; Our good family friend, Barry. You are the master of the care package and Im Pine Tar. My sister, Zett. You're the best cheerleader; My brother, Ross. You are more suited for the army life than I ever was, but that always made me push myself harder and harder. Be safe. Come home intact; My grandfather, Louis, for everything; My parents, Mark and Marybeth. You could have forbidden me to join the army after spending so much money on college, but you didn't. I know it wasn't easy for you, but the number one thing that has remained a constant has been your love and support. Without you I'm nothing; And of course my wife, Sandi. You didn't have a great role in my time in the military, but you are the star of my life's show now. I thank you for putting up with me, marrying me, and inspiring me daily.
Happy Veterans' Day to all those who have earned the right to be called veterans.
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They are opened here, too. When did they stop giving people the day off on this day?
I guess I'll just copy my post to the UPI alumni wire and a great col by award winning columnist joe galloway, but listening to taps echoing from berms built of soil and blood of thousands of workers of all colors and ethnicities who died building the Panama Canal...and 5,000 American graves overlooking the rain forest...well..I was humbled by my gratitude to Gabe, and Ross, and my dad and my grandfather who served in the 82nd in wwI , and as with the 233rd anniversary of the marine Corps and their black tie ball the other night, I danced the obligatory one dance, and straightened the bow tie a few times, but mostly I focused on the empty table with the Marine placesettings and thought of Mike Felsberg and his folks and all we owe to all of you...these are new times for America. These are socially significanttimes, and when all the love and admiration has subsided for an exciting new president, he himself might admit to his neophyte status...guard us well, lead us well, and as we were reminded today, a little humbling is good...a note from today...I noticed a VFW member probably in his late 80s, walking with a cane, on his wife's arm, laboriously making his way to the grandstand and a chair, he was saluted by the sgt at arms and took a seat. The ceremonies don't wait for 11 minutes aftere 11 on the 11th day of the 11th month here in Panama...heat is a factor, so thankfully things started at a cooler 9am but it was humid and 89 degress within an hour...this guy was proud but weak..before the end of the ceremony the ARmed Forces medley was played....
This vet did not rise for the Cassons "Army Song" or Anchor's Aweigh, but midway through that Navy song he started to rise, and i kind of felt bad that his old bones could not get him to his feet in time for his own proud service song...I was wrong...he must wanted to make double damned sure he was on his feet at attention for the US Air Force!...Before you could say "Off We Go, Inter the Wild Blue Yonder" this vet of the Army Air Corps was on his feet, brushed his wife's steadying arm away, snapped to and held a salute and pivoted slightly to see what other airmen were standing, and winked to them, holding posture and salute until the last note faded into the Coast Guard's song...!
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Joe thank you for the reflective col. I thought of you and your guys a few hours ago at Corazol National Cemetery in the former Panama Canal Zone, where 200 folks gathered...USA, Canadian, and UK Ambassadors were there...VFW members, embassy military Marine detachment and some attaches, but in a country where I am always meeting ves and dual citizens and Panamanians whose brothers and dads and grandads fought for the USA the number of TV cameras or any other Panama media reps was, well, zero. The BBC noted the lack of a cohesive veterans' force in the election, and I remarked to our colleague Richard Gross in Santa Fe a few weeks ago that when asked to speak here and there I always ask the veterans to stand or people to acknowledge relatives now in the military. My unscientific poll shows only 1:60 Americans with any family member or even very close friend in uniform. And this is supposedly time of war. The VFW guys talked about benefits and the fight to get them. Not particularly unique but when my dad passed away, with his two Purple Hearts, he was still awaiting VA benefit reviews pending "lost" documents in a fire in St. Louis or somewhere. My mom's only brother, a Korean Era vet passed away yesterday not a wealthy man but of enough means that he could scream at the VA for the past 40 years and still afford to go elsewhere. Your vet heading back to the shelter is the sad legacy of a country whose priorities have gone sour. When my daughter arrived exhausted Sunday from Central Florida and the victorious Obama campaign trail, she gave us some "souvenir" buttons, signs, stickers etc for posterity. Unlike my dad and sons, I think the only uniform I ever wore was the Boy Scouts, but still, driving into the manicured rolling hills, with palm trees and bamboo bending in a wind coming from the Panama Canal literally across the road, I decided to grab one of the signs. Just for theheck of it I passed through the security gate with a big blue sign on the dashboard which said "VETERANS FOR OBAMA."MS/MH
great write-up Gabe.......hats off to you for your service and love of country...and the way you can describe it.....
Mark, I can just picture you in Boy Scout shorts....wow...sexy legs and all.......the belly-button sticking out of the shirt w/b great icing on that cake.........(especially with your Vet's for Obama sign...!)
Love y'all....!
Nice article..........good luck with your book.
Paul
Hi,
I'm a fairly new Hubber and just read this post today although it was written last year Very nicely written with a lot of feeling. I hope you have a great Veteran's Day this year and that your brother is back home by now!
Thanks, for reading. My brother returned home at the end of February safely to his family. Please take the time to thank a veteran on Wednesday.












JED says:
13 months ago
GABE,
HAPPY VETERANS DAY TO YOU !!
" YOU EARNED IT "
P.S. IT A SHAME THE SCHOOLS ARE OPEN HERE IN FLORIDA, THE KIDS WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND THE IMPORTANCE OF VETERANS DAY.