Unfortunately,at one point in our lives we might experience some type of violation of trust. So what can we consider as a violation? Well there could be quite a few! The worse that a relationship can go through is INFIDELITY!!!!!

Why infidelity occurs is beyond me.There are so many types of excuses that may occur during this period of time when the violation could exist. Such excuses could be "I don't know why I did." What the heck do you call that. OMG! How could you not not know. Then there could be "Well I was drunk and stupid." Stupid,yes very,so why did you put yourself in that situation to begin with? Oh and the well we haven't had sex with me in so long, "I had to do something." All I can say is OMG!!!! LAME! What ever your excuse might be,IT'S NOT GOOD ENOUGH!!

If you are going to commit to someone in a relationship that means fully.Not part of the way,not sometimes,100% of the time. No matter what may come your way.

So what is considered infidelity. For the most part we all know its the most crucial one. Having sexual relations with someone other then your partner. One of the others could be Emotional Infidelity. Theres not much difference in this offense other then no sex.It can still break the trust in the relationship. Which in both cases could lead to the unfortunate death of the relationship. Anyway you look at it,the relationship is in a ultimate state of doom. If you partake in any of these offense with another person other then your partner,in my book you are breaking trust. An old saying comes to mind here,"Once a cheat,always a cheat." Yet there are few of those who do survive the mistrust and continue there relationship. But will it ever be the same. Unfortunately it will not. Something at anytime can trigger feelings of what happened in the past,feelings of mistrust come rushing back in. This is to be expected due to the fact that the trust was broken once before. If you are strong and want your relationship you will repair it,to make it whole once again. I applaud those who do make this transition. As for me I will never go through that experience again and those with the slightest doubt shouldn't either.

Mistrust,can not ever be taken back. Once its there its for life,so remember that before you set out to do so. Think of the consequences that may occur before you make the serious choice you could be embarking on. Some can forgive,but remember it's never forgotten.You can only be your own judge of your choices,do it wisely,it's your life!

Unless you are willing to give 100% in any relationship. Make honest and trusting choices in that relationship. Think to yourself,how you would like to be treated in any relationship. Then give your partner the same consideration. Only then should you committ yourself to that person for the life you deserve.