We live in an age where women receive a constant bombardment of endless belittling for being a plus size. Not only has everyday society been brutal towards larger people, but also in the past decade, the medical health industry has joined the cause. Many health care professionals are pushing slightly overweight women and men into costly, evasive surgeries. With ever-increasing numbers, medical illnesses such as anorexia and bulimia are no longer hush hushed, rather an acceptable fashion trend.

What is even more disturbing {about today’s society} is witnessing many influential people acting as an enforcer to the skinny ideology. All to often woman under there mother's loving direction are told to lose weight. Some mother's even go as far as to make their daughter use crash diets.  Like they themselves have often used.  Many of today’s role models push women into thinking that they have to be thin to be sexy.   Not even the mightiest of women are excluded from this plaguing idea. One only has to look at Oprah Winfrey's own trials and tribulations too stay skinny. Today's women are forced to live in a reality that rewards poor eating habits.  Regardless of any dietary sicknesses caused by malnutrition. These self inflicted conditions are part of the overall effort to be thin.  A majority of women make themselves endure unhealthy lifestyles, so to appease mainstream ideology. In communities across the world, many women suffer from a wide range of stress related ailments, due to the added pressures placed upon them to be thin.. They soon find themselves suicidal, depressed, physically sick and/or in debt. This burden to be thin leaves countless people victimized by failure, as they crumbled under the added weight to fit within the bi-laws of a materialistic community. These bi-laws are nothing more than empty inclinations of ingenuous people.

There has been of late, a growing lack of concern given toward women who are left facing many undesirable consequences, due to extreme weight loss. Women base so much of their self worth off the idiotic notion that they are ugly, not sexy, and unwanted all because of their weight. With so many women out there suffering from little self esteem, why does society deem it necessary to place so much self worth on size? It is because of this absurd reality, women will freely starve themselves, or go on crash diets. Many women do not realize that their bodies need to consumed more fat grams, than the average male person does. In particular, women need to consume more food high in Omega 3 oil. It is a scientific fact that without certain fats in a woman's diet, that woman will be more susceptible to fatty tissue tumors and fibroid tumors. The fibroid tumors often lead to hysterectomies,  and the fatty tissue tumors create large protruding masses below the dermis skin layer. But those are not the only abnormalities that could occur. There are a wide variety and range of starvation and poor diet abnormalities. Like hair loss, brittle finger and toe nails, irregular menstrual periods, thyroid problems, kidney infections, mineral imbalances, irregular bowel movements, decreasing immune systems, added pressure, extreme stress, so on and so forth. Many of these concerns can happen rapidly when trying to lose weight. Especially for those who may have started a new, and radical diet change. Too little fat can have some very serious consequences.

What these misguided woman should be told is, how beautiful there bodies really are. If a woman is overweight, start by suggesting a healthy diet of fruits, nuts, vegetables, and lean meats. They need to know it is not necessary to starve themselves in order to lose weight. More importantly, the necessity to purge or diet is not the right direction to choose in the first place.  I personally believe that men need to take responsibility for their own behaviors, silence or harsh words. What woman really need to hear is, the opposite sex telling them to maintain a healthy, nutritional diet and to stay active and exercise.   Men need to support the idea that not everyone can be thin.  Mainstream media is another outlet where fat women after often berated mercilessly.  Women would gain more self esteem and drive if all the magazines, newspaper, and television shows started focusing more on women's health and moderate exercise techniques.  Regardless of a person's weight, that person should be advise to walk around the block or two, instead of going on crash diets. A daily activity, like the one suggested, will help keep them in shape. Women just need to stay active. They also require more exercise than men. But many woman cave in when the word exercise is mentioned. So instead, women just need to be reminded to stay positive and active. It is known that on the average, 20 minutes of intercourse burns 250 calories. Men should work harder at helping with maintain this well balanced life. Regardless of who she is, men should themselves be asking more women to go on walks, to the gym, or bike rides in the summer sun. The only thing women, and men for that matter need to worry about is staying active while they consume a good healthy diet of nutritional foods. There weight after that should not matter. Men need to go back to asking a woman out based off of want he desires, and not what other people desire for him. Mismatched relationships only lead to more unhappiness in an already difficult world.

Big boned women have a certain softness to there body. All plus size women have voluptuous body lines. When lying together with such a woman, one cannot help but to press harder and deeper in order to feel more of what she possibly has to offer.

When it comes to a woman’s appearance, a fuller, healthier woman has a stronger, undeniable beauty. Healthy, robust women have better skin color. Their skin also feels more well-conditioned, and softer to the touch. It seems that healthy woman have a passionate field of sweeping combinations, that make their beauty exceptional. Where as unhealthy skinny women lack the vivaciousness, a curvaceous healthy woman offers. Skinny women are drawn in, sallow colored, and bony to press up against. Skinny women also lack the added cushion on their backside, breasts and thighs that makes sex more erotic and sensual. Without this soft padding, making love feels slightly colder and not as warm, as it feels when pressing up against a fuller woman's lavish curves. Moreover, plus size woman are more pleasant to hold, caress and love. Once famous artists, like Courbet purposely chose heavy set women to paint. Their softer fleshy rolls and fuller hips, dance off canvases sexually enticing all who were engulfed by their beauty. As these paintings whetted the appetite of men viewers, many lucky women reap the rewards that such ravish desired brings forth. There are many unknown and known artist's that painted fully figured, completely nude women. Artist such as Jury Frantsuzov, Elena Lee, Edouard Manet and Courbet.