WHAT Does It Take to Be A Strong WOMAN
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Women on the Path
WHAT Does It Take to Be A Strong WOMAN
There are many excellent examples in the Bible of godly women who were accomplished. The women of the Bible are strong and quite diverse. There are many women in various roles to be admired. Eve; the wife of Adam was the first woman. She was taken out of Adam to be alongside of him as his partner. Sarah; the wife of Abraham had a child way beyond menopause, Miriam; Moses sister, Ruth; a godly mother in law, Hannah; the mother of Samuel, Esther; who married the King and saved her people, Deborah; a woman judge. Then there is Mary; the Mother of Jesus, Elizabeth; the Mother of John the Baptist, Lydia; an astute business woman, Martha and Mary, sisters of Lazarus who Jesus raised from the dead; they were two very close friends of Jesus. Then there was Priscilla the wife of Acquilla, they were a husband and wife ministry team that were never mentioned separately.
The Bible contains many wise inspiring women and many inspirational stories surrounding them. What made them wise was how they trusted God an incorporated His principles within their daily lifestyles. How in this 21st century does one make those same principles inclusive of one’s lifestyle? To many the Bible is a collection of historical facts that don’t necessarily apply in this day and time. If one were to look closely you will see that they too were leaders, business women, homemakers, well traveled, queens, wives and influential movers and shakers. The Bible has a plethora diverse godly women!
Proverbs is a book of wisdom and ends describing a virtuous woman that was quite resourceful: “A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life… One must read this in its entirety to comprehend the many attributes, wisdom, skill as well as great compassion that inhabited her being. Contrary to what is often thought the Bible does not promote one to be an unhappy unfulfilled doormat nor entirely domestic. Woman in the bible were manufacturers, importers, seamstress, realtors, managers, designers, mothers and wives!
Please hear me with your spiritual ears! For those of you who are single, it’s important to know a man doesn’t complete you. Nor do you complete him! God Does! If you are a single woman you must consult the Lord to help you navigate through the land minds that will readily attempt to get you off track. There is a posse of men just waiting for you to let down that gate. You are somewhat vulnerable in the area of companionship. I also realize that the world has provided many alternatives to support sex outside of marriage. But this is not the Lord’s Way. Be careful not to let your unsatisfied physical desires cause you to compromise your principles. Casual sex has it perils; is it worth the risk? In the meantime work on being the best you! You really want a man that will value you for who you are and respect you enough to make that commitment if he wants to enter you.
I am not talking about manipulation here. Don’t give parts of yourself away. If you have it is never too late to change! Confess & Repent! No you don’t have to crawl in a hole and look unattractive. Enjoy being a lady! Just make sure when you go out, don’t put yourself in a position where you might buckle and compromise yourself. The reality is 55% -60% of marriages end in divorce. So you want to really find someone who wants to go all the way; in a relationship! Please don’t even consider someone who is already married… Danger ! Danger! Seek out a man that shares the same life principles you embrace. Who excites you and you excite Him! When both are attracted to one another you want to grow and go through life and commit to building a lasting satisfying partnership. It takes one strong woman and one strong man two become a STRONG ONE! “What GOD has joined together let NOT man put asunder!”
It is important that as a woman of God you create a loving, healthy balanced, stable and fun environment in your home that is conducive to spiritual growth and natural development. It is very important to keep a playfulness about you and yes this should continue as you age! But not restricted only to the home. This can and should extend to your business environment as well. God wants us to enjoy life! He wants you to take time to “smell the roses as they say.” Yet, live responsively and still find delight and gratification in life! He wants you to have His JOY that is not contingent on what is happening or not happening! You can become a conduit of that JOY!
Many woman work alongside countless co workers, continually adjusting who they are in order to be accepted. Often insecure, unsure and full of anxiety. They are not sure of who they really are? They have simply learned to operate under a veneer of hardness that protects and or serves as a barrier between the harshness of life. This is not always the case. More often than not there is a necessary survival mode one must operate within in order to climb the corporate ladder. Sometimes this can be laden with much moral compromise. There is nothing wrong with climbing the corporate ladder. Just make sure you are not sacrificing your inner peace as you rise. Take your principles along with you!
For some woman all too often a dependency on others rather than building a relationship with the Lord becomes the priority. Loneliness and neediness then becomes the motivator to relate to others. There is nothing wrong to desire friendship, fellowship, success or companionship. But one must never want people approval over the approval of God! Losing your unique self; which in fact everyone innately possesses in the process is not worth it. Often the personality is developed only to simply alter or adjust and conform. “Approval addiction” for some often becomes the norm. Rather than coming from a place of self and inner fulfillment. The approval of others are ardently sought to fill and unquenchable void…
Please see Becoming a Stroing Woman Part 2 for more……
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This hub is indeed a pearl of great price. I pray women will heed your wise suggestions and allow the Spirit of God to teach and direct behaviors. It is imperative that women of God abide in Him and follow the path He has set before us, lest we fall miserably.
This is really brings the point home for me. Excellent job on writing this. Just love it. I agree that No Woman should want other people's approval before God. God to me is the top. No questions about it.
Excellent!!! Great!! Fantastic!! I couldn't word this better myself! If only men would realize how important women are and the wonderful attributes God gave us women to be able to be the perfect companion for our mate, there would not be separations, divorce, abuse etc.
Unfortunately, man has left God. He doesn't walk with Him, therefore, he treats the *companion* God gave man because God saw that it wasn't good for man to be alone.
Adam must have felt lonely for God to see that as Adam surely saw how the animals were in pairs, caring for each other, having babies and he was all alone.
So God in His infinate wisdom and love for Adam, took a rib to make a woman. Why didn't God just make a woman as He did Adam? Good question..yes?
It is because by taking a rib, the woman would have the man's dna and all that God gave man, the woman would have so that she can understand and help him, plus, once they had sex..they became one person..like a key that fits in a lock, they became one flesh.
If both men and women, studied the Bible of how both are to be with each other, what a difference the world would be.
Creativeone,We are on the same page here! Thank you as always for stopping by. Yes, we must encourage them to be all they can be in the Lord! Blessings!
RevLady, Thank you for your insight and comments. Yes, let's pray! We must share with others they do have other choices... As women of God we must as you say: "Abide In Him." God really does want us to enjoy life! He is the essence of life, when you seek Him above everything else He will make a WAY for you! Blessings!
Leop, Thank you and I am so glad, Amen! There is a security that comes along with living to please God! Yes He is TOPS! Thank you for sharing and stopping by. Blessings
wonderful sis
Bravo! So many gals get so caught up in the NEED for a man in thier life they lose themselves. Keep up the good work
DeBorrah - great Hub, I'm sending the link to it, to my wife's laptop!
This hub really ministered to me. Thank you. I've been single for 10 years and wonder if I can even do the "wife" thing again; if God so wills, I would love to have a godly man in my life. I do know a man does not complete me; God certainly does! It just sometimes feels I'm carrying the burdens of life on my own, but I do know God is here as my Husband in the meantime! Thank you so much again!
God knew what He was talking about when He said it is not good for a man to be alone. When He has chosen a woman to walk alongside us He has considered her heart, her spirit, her potential to help her husband in his ministry and testimony. Her gifts are matched to his for balance and wisdom. Her strengths and talents are considered and chosen by an all knowing God so that the two are stronger than either alone. 1+1=1 and that math is not wrong. There is a work to be done in the man and she makes that possible in the Spirit. There is a work to be done in her and that gives the man a sense of his masculinity. His love for her and her love for him grow with each passing year and their testimony together is a thing loved by the Lord and will stand for all eternity. DeB I know how much you love the Lord and I hope you know how very much a godly man loves how you love the Lord. May your love for our Savior grow and the love between you and your beloved grow as well. I love you sister, so much. Bob.
Hi Deborrah Were you named after Deborrah in the Bible? My guess is yes. Every single woman needs to read this. Every woman could benefit by reading this. You have put together another precious hub. I am grateful you share your gift to reach others. Your love for the Lord shines. I feel the Holy Spirit as I read your words.
Thank you for your beautiful comment on my hub, I am thankful our paths have crossed.
Your hub has inspired me. I am linking this to twitter, blogger and facebook. Hugs Your sister in Christ.
Wonderful sharing DeB. Reminds me that it is God who completes my joy as a woman and that no other relationship in my life can be secure without God in the midst of it. Teaches me also to stand strong in the Lord in a world that is full of compromises, not to be just men pleaser but God pleaser. God bless you.
DancingRedFeather, Thank you!! I always find it interesting that Adam was in his perfect state when God created Eve as a comparable companion. God really does intend for marriage to be a beautiful union. When a man and a woman come together they were designed in a way that yes, the two become “one flesh.”
I must say that there are still some men who honor God’s Word… The Word of God is so powerful! God our Creator has designed each one of us uniquely different. He knows just what we need! This is why we must consult Him often so we will know how to navigate through life properly. On this side of heaven we are His children no matter how young or old. Perhaps, its so we can stay humble and depend on Him? The wonderful thing is when you are alone God will be there for you! If you are married He wants to be in the center! Yes, it would be wonderful if we could study God’s word together and apply it! The world would definitely be totally different. Thank You for sharing! Blessings!
Thank you sis and Blessings!
Upstar, Thank you! This is to encourage them to seek God first! The chances of finding the right mate is much better. Spending personal time in God's Word can help in that area and give them a clearer perspective.
Thank you for sharing, Blessings!
Jim Low, Thank You!! I appreciate you stopping by,I am interested in her opinion? Blessings!
Judah's Daughter, Bless you! The Lord knows right where you are. What is important is that you remain open to Him. In the meantime be the "Best You" with God at your side. You are asking yourself the right question before a potential spouse comes along? If it is to be? It is important that there are some known, shared core values and a willingness to grow together….
Continue to give any anxiety to the Lord, whenever you begin to feel weighted down. Shift your focus and yoke up with the Lord. Praise your way through and dance like David! Don’t let it totally rest on you and pull you down. Look at this way it keeps you talking to the Lord. You are not alone! Smile! Just think in the meantime the Lord has you to Himself! Thank you for sharing & Blessings!
Brother Bob you are right! God created us, so who could possibly know better than HIM! He knew that Adam needed a committed companion so they could grow together. I know that’s right! Who else could say 1+1=1 and be right! The things of God must be understood through the spiritual mind. Each spouse has to TRUST GOD to allow that oneness to gel. Its like epoxy. It comes in two separate tubes but once they are mixed right together there’s no getting them apart. “What GOD has joined together let no man pull apart.” Yes, there is a dual purpose for both spouses. Life events continue to mold and shape you and you grow closer together. There is such a comfort being able to be vulnerable and transparent….
“God is Love” and He is eternal, His LOVE lasts forever! You are right again about that Love growing as each year passes. The Love of God is wonderful! It is a precious gift so naturally you want to share it. What's is so interesting because I know you know where I am coming from. God is AWESOME! Yes I do love the Lord and my beloved. I pray for you as well that his love continues to grow in you and you and your beloved as well. “pray ye for one another” I am so glad that you stopped by, I always enjoy our visits. Much love to you my brother, Blessings
We are strong women in the eyes of God. We just need to believe it. Thank you this hub.
Skye2Day, You are very insightful! You guessed right! Yes I am named after DeBorrah in the Bible! I am so glad that you stopped by. I too can feel the Spirit when I visit you as well. It just shows how amazing and powerful God is. Thank you I so appreciate your gracious comments. I thoroughly enjoy your hubs. I too am glad that our paths have crossed! So glad that you have been inspired! Thank you for helping get the word out... Until next time, Blessings!
Chin Chin, Thank You! God can fill us with His JOY like no other. When we are secure in Him we have a STRONG foundation! Yes we can be confident in Him and not compromise.... You have made some very powerful and insightful statements. Thank you for sharing. I know others will be helped by your comments! I have enjoyed your visit! Please come again, Blessings!
Trudy Van,Its amazing how God has built us so we are able to carry life! That in itself takes strength! Yes we can be STRONG in the LORD! Thank you for sharing, Blessings
InSpired!
Thank you for a wonderful uplifting hub. You are correct we humans tend to look to people instead of the Lord for our needs. God Bless You
Manuella9505, Great!
Coolmon2009, You are quite welcome. When we look to God first it helps to balance everything else. Thank you for sharing & Please come again. Blessings!
Thanks. There is a lot of depth to what you wrote - Particularly in trying to fit in with others. With regards to sex without marriage, people now justify it saying "we now live in the millenium, everyone's doing it".
I think it takes a lot to be a Strong woman spiritually and on reflection and I am still Work in Progress.
Thanks for a thought provoking message, sometimes we need it. Have a lovely weekend. :)
Lady E. You are welcome! God wants to be in every area of our lives. WE can discuss anything with Him! He wants us to enjoy life as well. I hear you "we now live in the millenium," But so do STD'S, unwanted pregnancies, unfaithfulness..... This is why each of us need a personal intimate relationship with Lord... This is why Jesus is our Savior to save you from the power of sin. Yet, He always allows you to choose....
It does take a Strong woman spiritually; We all are works in progress. As long as the Lord has us on this side of Heaven there is more to learn for each of us.... As I was taught: "we are forever becoming..." I always enjoy our visits! Talk to you later.... Thanks for sharing. Enjoy your weekend and have a WONDERFUL time enjoying life! In His Love, Blessings!
I have always loved that Proverb. What wisdom. And your words are wise as well in your advice to young women. Thank you for this pearl.
James A Watkins, It really is a wonderful Proverb! Thank you and your commemts are always welcome! Blessings!
Amen!!! Proverb 31; one of my favorites!! I believe this goes right along with Isaiah 54, about Israel too, the wife of God adorned in her stones of fair colors. Thank you DeBorrah for this message of strength and courage!! This gives us a clear perspective of our roles in the Light of His Truths!! Be Blessed!! ~K
Kim Garcia, Both of those are really great scriptures! You are quite welcome! The Word is really powerful! It is amazing how really ageless His principles really are! Yes we can be strong and courageous! Thank you for taking the time to stop by and share, Blessings!
Wonderful hub. I think the greatest thing we can wish for our children is strength of character, and that means the moral strength you mention.
Dolores Monet, Thank You! It is admirable in this 21st century to desire moral strength and strength of character for your children especially when many feel "anything goes!" Thank you for sharing, Blessings!
brilliant hub well written, strong women are out there, and getting stronger....
Poetlorraine, Thank you! Yes! There are a lot of strong women. Thank you for sharing, Blessings!
Good Words! It is always sad when so many people do not realize what God has intended for them.A human being cannot complete another human being...period! As you stated it is only through God that any of us will truly find a sense of completion and acceptance!
Amber, Thank you! Yes God is the one who completes us all! Thank you for sharing and visiting, Blessings!
creativeone59 says:
2 weeks ago
I agree with every bit of what you said and I hope that a lot of the young women will read your hub, so they will know they're better than that. thank you for sharing. Godspeed. creativeone59