WHEN THE UNEXPECTED HAPPENS
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Life hurts sometimes!
White Winter
Enjoy the plethora of wonderful landscapes about you!
When The Unexpected Happens
There is no doubt that life at times can become overwhelming; a death of a loved one(s), loss of a relationship, a pet, job, career, stress, depression, anxiety, any other unforeseen crisis or possible worse case scenario. This can readily bring on acute stress, disappointment , despair, anxiety, depression and sickness. Denial is not healthy. One must of course face whatever has happened. It is healthy to mourn or grieve the apparent loss or setback. Momentarily it is okay; but don’t camp there! It is not easy when the unexpected happens. One must first begin to acknowledge however it is you are feeling in order to move forward and embark on to embracing your inner emotional healing.
Yes, at some point in time you will experience some type of traumatic experience. But, this does not have to become the theme of your life. If you are centered you do not have to go into a counterproductive mode. For a season your hands may even be tied, rendering a sense of helplessness. You do not want to make life changing decisions while under distress. This will only further complicate your situation and take you further away from resolve. Prepare for change, life is a perpetual transition!
It may even get worse before it gets better. But, know it is only for a season, at some point it will get better! Therefore when the unexpected happens you must make a conscious goal to go through it! Not to stay in it! In order to do this you must learn how to depend on someone who is dependable. Although well meaning if you know someone buckles under distress or flies off the handle all the time. They may not be a viable source to help you through. Preferably someone who can be objective and knows how to go through a crisis.
God is totally dependable! God is a God of order. He can bring you through it and out of it! The one constant you can count on is GOD! Transitions help us become who we were meant to be. One might ask; where was God when this happened? He is just a prayer away! He is in the same place He was when He allowed His Son to be crucified and die on the cross for the sins of the world! Although He died, He arose with ALL power! It is because of Jesus we can always have HOPE when going through!
Planning in advance is great. But I know for a fact no matter how much you plan you cannot avoid the unexpected. There is always something waiting in the wings. Have you ever heard the saying; “ You are either in a storm, coming out of a storm or headed into one ….” You do not have to live your life paranoid. Life is full of the unexpected, some by design and some by course. God has given us so many natural ways in which to see His beauty all around us! Look around and simply begin to enjoy the plethora of wonderful landscapes about you. They are reminders that life is so much bigger than us! God is able! Learn how to persevere, hold on during a crisis and turn to God! Learn how to invite God into the messiness. Here is the time to develop your spiritual muscles!
It is because of God’s unfailing Love for us that we can count on Him and look to Him when the unexpected happens! He can turn it around! All His promises are true! God has promised to take us through everything! This is why it is so important to develop an ongoing relationship with Him! Knowing of God is not the same as KNOWING GOD personally! Start by building an intimate relationship while things are going well. This is the time to develop your healthy coping skills. It is important to learn how to become resilient! We can never totally prepare but we know that life and death are everyday occurrences for someone. This also helps us develop compassion.
Balance is key. However in order to balance it out we must look on the bright side. You are still here! And there is more to come! As long as there is breath in our bodies we are living! The breath of life is a gift from God! Look around us God has given us the seasons to show us how things can change. Just think , it is so beautiful that after a long cold Winter. A beautiful fresh Spring comes forth bringing new life with it! Then a long hot Summer comes welcoming a nice cool Fall! “In this greatly rejoice , though now for a little while , if need be, you have been grieved with various trials, that the genuineness of your Faith, being more precious than gold that perishes, thought it is tested by fire, may be found to praise , honor, and glory at the revelation of Jesus Christ, whom having not seen you love. Though now you do not see Him, yet believing, you rejoiced with Joy inexpressible and full of glory, receiving the end of your Faith ;the SALVATION of your souls.” Once we realize that we were meant to live life to please God it really makes all the difference in the world! When the unexpected happens, you really can make it! Remember, there is more in store! You can always count on His Word! God’s Love lasts through eternity! When we have God we have everything we will ever need. Absolutely nothing gets by Him that comes our way! Everything is under His control and His promise to never leave or forsake us is so True! I PETER 1 says:
“All flesh is as grass, And all glory of man
as the flower of the grass,
The grass withers
And its flowers falls away,
But THE WORD of THE LORD endures forever.”
The Seasons Change
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You're correct about the unexpected happening, I guess the best thing to do is stay continually praying and hoping for the best and keep expecting to take care it all. We are in the good hands of God, there's nothing or no one greater than he. Thank you Deborrah for a very enlightening hub. creativeone59
DancingRedFeather,
You are right when one passes away who knows the Lord it really is like they are on a long vacation. Of course you miss them but you can now think of them at peace and no longer suffering or in pain. It really is wonderful knowing that you will see them again!!
The point is to prepare yourself by developing your coping skills before something does happens; which you have already done. This greatly impacts your physical, mental and emotional well being! Life on this side of Heaven is not very long. Therefore I want to encourage others to do the same. To enjoy as much of life as possible despite what is going on! It is important not to take life for granted! Things can happen unexpectedly yet, you can still always find something good to focus on!
Thank You for sharing! You have shared some wonderful ways that everyone on some level can relate to... Blessings
Creativeone,
Yes, you are so right we are in "good hands with the Lord!" It is also at this time we are able to strenghten our TRUST in Him as well! Yes "There is nothing or no one as GREAT as HE!" Thank you for sharing! Blessings
My Dad passed away in July last year and at Christmas time I assured myself He was attending the greatest birtday party ever! Really nice hub!
Satan loves to keep us in the prison of our own mind. He makes us believe premises that are not true and keeps niggling us with thoughts that are lies. I am reminded of the song "Mr. Bojangles" where the man loses his dog and after forty years he still grieves. I'm sure it was a nice dog but not worth turning to drink. I'm sure that whatever pain the man in that story had was hooked to the loss of the dog. Obviously there were lies set in his head. The enemy is so good at what he does. We all need to pray for each other and hold each other up each and every day. Love you sister.
This hub is filled with naked realities about life. There is something in the nature of life that presents one difficulty after another. Sometimes, it seems that before we can recover from one situation or one problem in life, we run head on into another. Before we can recuperate from one difficulty, we find ourselves right smack in the middle of another. At times, problems mount and seem to surge out of control. But, I have noticed something peculiar under the sun. Nothing stays the same. Problems, pain, troubles do not last always. God gives us the gift of respite, a time-out, a refreshing, a break from the difficulties. How we choose to use it is our choice. But these are the times when we can experience great moments of joy, moments of special remembrances, moments of exhilaration and appreciation, moments of smiles and humor, moments of praise and thanksgiving. As you so perceptively stated Ogans, "Absolutely nothing gets by Him that comes our way!" Even as we experience turbulence in our lives, God is working everything out according to His purpose and our good. This is an excellent exposition on life.
I just love 'invite God into the messiness',I'll always remember that-I mean you have to be really close to anyone to invite them into your messiness--! Brilliant.
awe, thank you for your hub page as it's great to have people like you that have experienced unexpected events, which I call hiccups! How much we need to depend and believe in Jesus and God's eternal plan.
Godslittlechild,
It can be comforting when you Celebrate the Homegoing of your love one. Make sure you also take time to enjoy life and your love ones still on this side of Heaven... Thank you for visiting and sharing! Blessings!
No body, Thank you for stopping by. I want you to get you a simple little Praise Song of your choice ready and prepared. So you can sing the enemy away! Praise is POWERFUL ! Do not let him take your JOY the Lord has given you! You cannot change anything that has happened… ALL the wonderful things that the Lord has done in your life certainly can override whatever he tries to torment you with! DON’T LET him pitch a tent and camp out anywhere near your Temple!
I have a scripture for you that I am sure you already know: “Finally brethren, Whatever things are TRUE, whatever things are NOBLE, Whatever things are JUST, Whatever things are PURE, whatever things are LOVELY, whatever things are of GOOD report, if there is any Virtue and if there is anything Praiseworthy – MEDITATE on these things. The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do, and the GOD of PEACE WILL BE WITH YOU!” Again thank brother and remember there is VICTORY in your PRAISE! In His Love & Blessings!
RevLady,
Life certainly does present its share of difficulties. And yes they can come in waves. But you are right “nothing stays the same.” I have come to accept that as a handmaiden of the Lord it is expected. Yet, because of this I am acutely aware that God’s presence is steadfast. There is a wonderful praise song “Trouble Don’t Last Always” I find much delight and peace in praising the Lord, before, during and after trouble.
Yes, God does give us “respite time to rest and refresh” as you a say. Words cannot express my Thankfulness, Trust and Love that I have in the LORD! I am eternally grateful for His intangible, invaluable blessings and presence in my life! Whatever difficulties that occur can never transcend the precious moments and memories that HE has allowed in my life thus far! Since I know that “Absolutely nothing gets by Him that comes our way!” I seek Him daily and stay close to Him. I also know “That it in Him we live and move and have our being.” Thank you for your insightful words of wisdom and encouragement. You are a blessing to me, everyone on hubpages and I am sure others as well! Yes isn’t it good to know that God is working it out according to His purpose and our good! Thank you for sharing & caring, Blessings!!!
Itakins,
God is infinite and so much more than our finite minds could ever imagine. So, I say “invite God into the messiness” because He is so real to me! I believe it is important to relate to Him in a real way. To get to know Him intimately! He already knows anyway and is right there …. We really do just need to invite Him in; because He does not force Himself into our lives or stuff… Thank you and thank you again as well for taking the time to stop by, and please do come again! Blessings!
Patriciarose7, You are quite welcome and yes, I have experienced many unexpected events. It helps to see them as opportunites to draw even closer to the Lord! Or as you say “hiccups.” Yes I agree “we need to depend and believe in Jesus and God’s eternal plan.” Thank you for sharing your words of encouragement and wisdom. Please do come again. Blessings!
there have been many losses in my life, but in the end the Lord has proved his faithfulness. Thanks for a great post!
UPstar
It is through those losses that it's so comforting knowing we are able to cling to the Lord! He has promised to "Supply ALL our needs" Yes God truly is Faithful! You are welcome! Thank you for stopping by and please do come again! Blessings!
Whenever something comes along that hurts, I remember Romans 8:28. All things work together for good for those who love God and are the called according to His purpose. It always holds true if you're willing to look to HIm for whatever could become good out of tragedy. The Bible says to praise God for all things. That means especially the things that break our hearts. That's the hardest time to prise HIm. It just tells Him, "Lord I am hurting, you know how I am hurting, but I am going to be obedieant and praise You anyay and go through this with You." In the end, you'll see how God has used this hurt to make you into a better image of His Son Jesus Christ. " I can do all things through Christ." This is narrow road that leads to life. No, it's not the easy road, but many are going down the broad road that leads to destruction. Begin starting your day with the Lord. Build a strong relationship with Him! Get gut honest with the Lord. He already knows you better than you know yourself, but it builds intimacy. You are His workmanship. He is your King,He is responsibile for you. He is the only comfort for a broken heart! He's never closer to us than when we are mourning. Wherever you are now begin to draw near to Jesus and He will draw near to you. Resist the devil and he will flee. That's what our Bible says. Good hub, look forward to reading more.
Life is a process, you must learn to process life or life will process you.
Whoa! God is so able. Thank you for the reminder and the confirmation. You have inspired me to trust Him more!
Thank you DeBorrah, I needed this at this moment.
I just love those stunning photos you used.
"Go through it; don't stay in it." What great advice this is.
You have done the world a service with this fine piece of work. Thank you very much for it.
Linda-patriot,
That is a superb scripture to meditate on! Yes we are to Praise Him! REJOICE ALWAYS!! There is a Balm in Gilead; Healing is available! We realize that there are fewer travelers on the narrow road. But we know that it is the path that the Lord has designed for us! Yes, “We can do ALL things through CHRIST!” Intimacy is wonderful it is here we develop a closeness that yields security! What a wonderful King He is!
Thank You! I have enjoyed your comments and thank you for taking the time to stop by and please do come again! Blessings!
Shriketexas, Life takes on a whole new meaning and purpose when you truly have an encounter with the Lord. His plan for your life then becomes your purpose. The gift of His Holy Spirit is a precious abiding Comforter that is given to you. Your security is in knowing that whatever happens around you and to you He is totally aware of... As we seek Him daily and meditate on His Word and implement it in our lives, He reveals our path forward... Blessings!
Steffsings, Yes God is able! You are quite welcome! I am glad that you are inspired! You can depend and TRUST in HIM! Blessings!
Beth100, You are quite welcome! Thank you for visiting and do come again, Blessings!
James A. Watkins,
I am encouraged coming from the master photography illustrator! See I listened! I took your wonderful advice presented in your great hub; "Advice For Success on Hubpages!"
It is unexplainably wonderful when you know the Lord is always with you. And yes HE WILL take you through...
Thank You! I am humbled by your gracious comments. Again wonderful to have you back on The Hubpages! As always it is a pleasure! Blessings
Thru all of lifes circumstances we have always come thru. God said he would never give us more than we could handle. He gives us the strength to overcome all the unexpected. This is a most Benificial hub in helping us to overcome and be comforted in the lord knowing he will be there thru it all so that in the end we will come to a place of peace. Thank you DeBorrah! Blessings..
Great Hub, wish I had witten it!
TimehealsAll,
Yes He does! You can count on the Lord! There is much Peace and comfort when you know that regardless of what happens "Absolutely nothing gets by the Lord that comes our way." It is my prayer that many are encouraged! You are quite welcome and Thank you for sharing. Please come again... Blessings!
BL Tween, Thank you! Blessings!
"Go Through it"
Great advise.
Thank you
Duchess OBlunt, Yes! Thank you for coming, Blessings!
Here in my city, few days before about 2 miles away a Petrol storage tank blast and we ran away asap from our house,Thats real unexpected thing , when we celebrating my sisters b'day nd that happen. We can't do anything in these type of problems. We just pray to god, so these type things doent happen again.
Dennis Kirk, Wow! I am sure that was quite unexpected...
That experience will be memorable, because of it you can further develop your coping skills. I know it was not at all funny when it happened. But you can certainly say that you all had a "Blast" at her birthday celebration! The wonderful thing is you made it through! Yes continued prayer is a wonderful idea it keeps you connected to the Lord and you know He is always close by no matter what! Thank you for sharing and please come again, Blessings!
Thanks again for another inspiring Motivational Hub. I enjoyed it. I looked at the picture above which said "seasons change" and it reminded me of a Joel Osteen Message I listened to only yesterday - "Being Pruned, so you can Bloom". He said there are different seasons and most of the time, out of the difficult times come beautiful Miracles and gave lots of personal examples.
He likened it to childbirth - the most pain is just before the baby arrives. (sorry, too much info. lol but we're ladies. lol).
So I guess we should look for the good in those Unexpected Events knowing God see's it all.
Regards. :)
Lady E, You are quite welcome and it is always a pleasure! Joel is great! Thank you for adding such wonderful comments. I always use the example about Labor pains and birthing a Baby! Yes, we must be optimistic and exercise our FAITH! At some point God always works it out for our Good! May His favor rest upon you!In His Love & Blessings!
Dear Miss Ogans: Your thoughts are so wonderful and lovely as you share them over the passing of loved ones.Such a very nice narative.
Thanks for the wonderful hub.
Yes God is there to confert us in our stress and trouble.
May God bless you.
Keep up the good work
Stars439, Thank you for taking the time to stop by as well as your kindness! Blessings!
Jacobkuttyta, You are quite welcome! It is so wonderful and comforting to KNOW the LORD! Thank you! Blessings!
wonderful work deborrah
JesusmyJoy, Thank You for stopping by & Blessings!!!
---"You do not want to make life changing decisions while under distress. This will only further complicate your situation and take you further away from resolve. Prepare for change, life is a perpetual transition!" --- your words ring such truth and this entire hub is very helpful to read and remind ourselves of the things you say about setbacks, trauma and unexpected things happening but at the same time we can be knowing that GOD will not fail and nothing takes him by surprise and He is with us. Thank you!
Vanderhaven, Thank you! I am glad this has been helpful. And yes God is ABLE, He will NEVER leave nor forsake us. In this we can always find much comfort even when the UNEXPECTED happens. PRAISE GOD!!! Thank you for stopping by and please do come again~ Blessings!
"When the unexpected happens" - and it always does - "we have to make that conscious decision to go through it". Great truth, sometimes hard to accomplish, but always can - with Divine strength! Thanks for encouraging words!
Frogyfish, You are quite welcome. Yes! You got it!You can make it with Divine strength! Thank you for visiting! Blessings!
My family and I have experienced our share of the unexpected happenings. At the times I was not at the right place with God, they were far more devastating but thank God for his grace in teaching me to stay in that place of balance as he helps me to do so.
I love your images by this Hub. One of my favorite things to do when I'm struggling with something, is to visit some of God's glorious creation and it helps bring peace to my heart. That and seeing the smile and laughter of a baby or a child. Something about those two things bring God's joy to me at times I need an extra uplift!
Thanks for the Hub!
Jim Low, I am glad that your family has come through and pulled together... God's grace really is amazing!
Life is full of unexpected happenings and it really does make all the difference in the world going through them with the Lord. As we learn how to trust God it really is wonderful to see how He can bring about a balance. We learn to become resilient!
There is something so peaceful just looking at "God's Glorius Creation" as you say, His power becomes so evident. You are right about a baby or children as well ... God has so many ways of letting us know He is right there and knows just what you need!
Thank you for sharing and please do come again! Blessings!
OMG Am Speechless ......
No Word to define .
Thanks For Sharing
Regard
SHAZ
Shaz123, You are so welcome! Thank you for stopping by and please do come again! Blessings!
DancingRedFeather says:
4 weeks ago
I have a very different outlook than most people for when the unexpected happens. I like anyone else goes into shock or disbelief but I quickly pull myself back together and put all in God's hands because I cannot do anything of a death occurs. I can only cry and miss the loved one but for me death is like the person is gone on a long vacation and when they will be ressurected we will be together again.
Many times I look at my Mom's picture and I say.."Mommy, I miss you so much, I can't wait until your return." That is oehope that we have the ones who are believers in God.
One must live and enjoy every moment. I have eyes to see, a nose to smell a mouth to eat, a tongue to talk, ears to hear, arms to hug someone, hands to do anything, feet to walk..many are dumb and deaf, no arms, no feet and some no legs either.
I have sight to enjoy the slightes thing, some don't and cannot even see a beautiful sunset, only feel the warmth of it.
I live in a country where am not without food or clothing, doctors are available and it cost me nothing. I'm 66 and pretty good shape..in many countries at 45 a person is dead.
I have a roof over my head..and a bed with a pillow..Jesus ddidn't have that and many homeless sleep on the ground..in a cardboard box or in a doorway or an alley..easy prey to be robbed, raped or killed.
With my hands I can write in here, feed myself, clothe mmyself, bathe myself ..many don't have hands or fingers or arms to do that or hold someone they love or pet their pet nor can they put their hands together to pray.
I have a voice, I can sing, I can laugh, I can cry, I can do many things, I can praise the Lord.
I have feet to go where I want, to danse, to run, to jump, to do almost anything.
My whole body is a wonder, magnificent gift that I appreciate every day.
I have a brain that is healthy..many don't..many are mentally impaired.
I was very lucky when I was born to have all the above and be healthy and born with all my body intact.
What more could anyone want?