Is there something you can learn by being  robbed at gunpoint?   As TW Jackson explains in the Magic Of Making Up System  after your initial contact...you want to set up your "1st Date" again.   AND...the MOST important part, the secret and the part nobody else but T Dub will tell ya :-)...is the date HAS to be EMOTIONALLY CHARGED.   Okay?   That DOES NOT mean 'dinner and a movie'.   because...well...it's BORING...and does not  create a bonding...or in our case a RE-bonding experience.   In fact, you want to pack in several emotionally charged mini-dates in a span of a couple hours.

Why?   If you just do 'dinner and a movie' you lose out on a Sociologically PROVEN principle...   emotionally charged experiences = bond   Look at it in another way.   Last time you went to the bank, do you remember the person in line in front of you?   Behind you?   Probably not. Me either.   But...   What if while you were in the bank, it was ROBBED AT GUNPOINT?   and the robbers couldn't get the safe open. The robbers are livid,  screaming and waving huge guns around. The tension feels so thick you could cut through it with a knife.

You are lying face down on the cold bank floor and can see your breath fogging up the tile below.   You are trembling...because it is eerily silent for a moment.   "Oh my god!"   "Where are the robbers?"   "Are they behind me?"   "Are they watching me?"

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