Warning Signs of A Break Up

You don't need a fortune teller to tell you when your relationship is getting stale.

If you're reading this, it probably means that you may have started to see the signs and your intuition tells you that something is wrong.

There are lots of warning signs of a break up and if you can pick them up, you won't have to say that you didn't see it coming.

Here are some warning signs to look for:

Not Calling

Before, your partner used to call just to say they loved you. Now the calls are becoming less frequent and when you're expecting the call it doesn't come at all.

Not calling is a sign that your partner has lost interest in communicating with you and you're on your way out.

They Critercize You...

It seems now that you're never able to do anything right and you cannot please your partner.

How come they're being so brutally honest all of a sudden? Your feelings may not matter much anymore.

Conversations Become Less Personal

The conversations become less about me and you unless they're complaining but more about general stuff.

You want to talk about the future, about being together, owning that house but they find ways to avoid talking about it or keep their responses very sparse.

Constantly Fighting

You're constantly fighting and arguing especially about little things.

Your partner may well be doing this intentionally so they can have an excuse to get away. Constantly fighting may lead to, "I cant do this anymore" and "I think we should see other people" and the classic, "I need some space."

You Spend Less Time Together

You and your partner are spending less and less time together where you used to spend time with each other.

They suddenly cant make it for lunch or they're doing something Saturday or have to work late. Whatever the reason, you don't get to see them as often as before.

This may also be for some of the other warning signs outlined. You spend less time because you're constantly fighting and so on.

They Seem To Always Be Busy

Spending time with you isn't a priority probably because they don't enjoy the time with you anymore or possibly because someone else is occupying their time.

You get a lot of excuses, apologies and maybe even promises that they will make it up to you.

Major Changes in Appearance

A 180° change in style can mean that they're spicing up themselves to someone else's liking.

She dyed her hair and cut them short - thats not even her style. Well, out with the old an in with the new. Why not get a new boyfriend too?

He got a new tattoo and he knows how much you hate those. Who cares what you think anymore.

Just because you may see one of these signs doesn't always mean that you're looking at the front door but if you see a couple warning signs then you should definitely brace your self for what may be coming.

Talk to your partner about it if you can and give them space before they make that request themselves. Don't try to start another fight trying to talk to them. If they're hiding something they will most likely be on the defensive.

Hopefully, you can both work it out together and decide whats best for both of you and how you can make things right.