"Is it possible for men and women to be just friend without being romantic?"

Words that I quoted from an article in the paper Herutomo in one edition of Cosmopolitan magazine.

Questions that encourage me that notabene work in a company with the majority of men inside. Are men and women formed a friendship can lead to pure without a romantic relationship?

Can we just be friend?

Let see, each time watching the film about friendship between men and women (cross-gender friendship), you will more often see the film with romance. Take an example, such as When Harry Met Sally, the story of men and women who eventually also serve romantic story.

Another example, demand TV serial Friends also serve sweet braided a prominent love story between Monica and Chandler-Ross-Rachel. Joey also gets a quota love with Rachel. Poebe only be told that never involved in the romance between them.

The two examples above, as if we want to convey the love that will always be present in the relationship men and women. Idea of pure friendship between gender seems to be something that may never happen. But the fact is, all things that may happen, right? ;-)

Some people are hard to believe a pure friendship between men and women, usually because they have confidence in the attraction of the opposite gender relations is. The friendship started with a match? Perhaps like that, so for them, it is very reasonable if the rope tied into the love relationship.

However, according to the relationship Expert, views are wrong! Belief that men and women can not simply be derived from a different era. Era when women stay at home, while men looking for work living. The only way two different women can meet is in the context of romance. But now, everything has changed. Men and women work together, to have a broader opportunity to interact in a position equivalent. Ensure this relationship experts, men and women that can run without having to involve love relationship!: D

Every relationship can form because there is chemistry between them. Chemistry is a liquid can change aliases. In other words, cross-gender relationships friendship can stop at the boundaries of friendship, but also can be braided in love.

Arrived safely in the friendship zone

There are factors that can maintain this status a friend, whom;

- Personal maturity of both parties. They can equally keep a safe distance for their friendship.

- Type of personality. For example, one of the personnel in suffering commitment phobia. For people who have this personality, stop on the status of friends for himself the best option.

- Changes in social values. If the views of the community of friendship, men and women can be more open, then a relationship can remain on the path of friendship.

So, if you want to enjoy and benefit from the relationship of friendship, so do not develop further, then;

- Think the limit since the beginning, if a person "more" starts increasing, the limit does not reveal a sense of the Companions.

- If interest is shown from both sides while one or both do not want to pursue romantic relations, again, regardless disclosed.

- Avoid situations that could create a situation with intimate friends.

So, does Harry want Sally? You Bet. But if he can not have her "that way", friendship will do quite nicely! ;-)