Then, there are the lists that state who traditionally pays for what at the wedding. You can then approach the parents of the bride and groom, and ask them, based on that list, what they might be willing to pay for. If you gave them a copy of the list, it will break the ice, and give them a basis from which to start from. They might just give you a set amount of money, or offer to pay for something from the list. Whatever you get---be thankful. Weddings cost a lot of money and everything helps. It is rare these days that the old traditional list of who pays for what is strictly followed, but it is a nice place to start.

In our online wedding planning membership site, we have extensive lists, which we call SmartBride Action Plans. Interviewing a caterer? We have a list of questions to ask. Need to tell your bridal party what to do? We have a list for that. In fact, every module on our membership site consists of an informative, fun video, and a SmartBride Action Plan to get it done. Information and a to-do list. No reading and researching. It’s right there for you. If you have a question, no problem! Talk to one of our coaches and get your answers that day.

Wedding planning does not need to be difficult or stressful. You just need the right tools---information to make smart decisions, and checklists to make sure it is done.

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