What attracts women?

It is an age-old question that every man would like to know.

Why do some men never seem to have a problem, keeping women around them...

While others cannot get a girl to even GIVE HIM THE TIME OF DAY?

The reason is attraction. An attracted woman is DRAWN to certain qualities in a man. If you possess those qualities and can DEMONSTRATE them IN YOUR BEHAVIOUR AND CHARACTER, while you are in the presence of a woman, then chances are she will become naturally attracted to YOU and ignore other men in the vicinity.

You will have become THAT MAN WOMEN LOVE TO BE AROUND

While wishing to be THAT MAN, is a nice fantasy for most men, but in truth it is not something many will achieve in their life times.

In fact, the average man has trouble finding even one girlfriend, let alone being in a position to pick and choose who they want to date.

Therein lies the problem of the unattractive man. He drifts through life hoping he will find THAT ONE WOMAN who will accept him for "who he is". Sadly this situation is rarely has a happy outcome.

When all comes down to it, finding the perfect girlfriend is like buying the perfect house or finding the perfect career for yourself.

IT'S A NUMBERS GAME

Your chances of success INCREASE SIGNIFICANTLY the more women that you meet before making your final selection.

It's the guy who gets so few chances with women, that when one finally shows a meager interest, he latches onto her like an bulldog chewing on a pant leg!

Think about it for a minute..

What do you think the odds are of the FIRST WOMAN TO COME ALONG in five or ten years that shows any romantic interest in you being an absolute perfect match for you?

About zero?

There is no way you can find the perfect woman for yourself with such a SMALL NUMBER OF WOMEN to choose from.

Unless you're lucky... winning the lotto sort of lucky!

What most men do instead is SETTLE down into a fast track of bitterness and unhappyness.

Is this how YOU want to live your life?

Men who are not attractive to women essentially three choices:

1. Settle down with the first woman who shows any interest in them.
2. Wait for "the one" - the perfect woman who will accept them for "who they are" (she never comes)
   
3. Work hard on their character, their dating skills and their core identity and BECOME THE CLASSY GUY WOMEN CHASE

Now don't get me wrong, you might have a long road ahead of you. Especially if you're a long way from your destination.

Realisically it will take practice and hard work..

A LOT OF PRACTICE AND A LOT OF HARD WORK

But if you put the effort in and do the work, you get a shot at having something MOST GUYS WILL NEVER HAVE.

There is knowledge available that can help you. And that is great..

Yet knowledge alone is not enough to succeed. Many guys turn to the latest pickup techniques and methods. But here's the thing.. These men TYPICALLY FAIL WITH WOMEN TOO!

Why you might ask?They have the knowledge and tricks to make girls swoon. They should be getting girls left, right and center. What gives?

It's a good question and comes down to one thing.

THEY'RE FAKING THE MAN, NOT BEING HIM

Don't get me wrong, good skills and technique can certainly improve your dating life. But if you are putting forth a fake front, if you're pretending to be an attractive man when you're REALLY NOT. She will find out eventually, if not immediately.

Some attraction skills can be good to get you started to build your confidence, but it is ONLY A SMALL PART OF WHAT ATTRACTS WOMEN. While she might be drawn to you for a while, eventually she will want a REAL MAN who is INTEGREOUS in his behaviour.

The only way to achieve this is through long term personal growth. Growth of your attraction skills is not the end game, you need to grow your character and life experience. You need to BECOME a genuinely attractive man.

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