What Do You Consider Sexy?

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By sun goddess


Qualities guaranteed to make my toes curl

1. Eyes- the windows to one's soul (and desire)

Nothing else could undress me quicker than you can say "bring it on!" than my man's narrowing, smoldering eyes accompanied by that sexy lower lip bite. A man's eyes have always been my weakness. I have always believed that the eyes are the windows to one's soul. And that through someone's eyes, you can tell his emotion, his health and how much he'd like to get you off those clothes in a nick of time.

2. Shaved head

I dunno... I've always had a thing for guys with clean shaven head (not balding heads alright?). I have always been drawn to latinos with shaved head and a goatee... I guess it exudes a rather bad boy appeal which I also find rather alluring.

3. The Bad boy appeal...

Okay... I'll admit it... I thought after going through a relationship with 3 bad boys and graduating in college altogether has cured me of my catholic highschool girl fantasy of james dean reincarnates. But then, some things never change. I've always had a soft spot for the boy from the other side of the tracks. Blame it on James Dean or Robin padilla circa mid-90's and them stupid leather jackets but there is something about these guys that seem to entice me even when they're head screams "DANGER ZONE". I guess because I've always seen the typical "Mr. Straight Arrow" as too boring and predictable (like most women do) that we crave for a little flavor from the wild child. And the thing that you feel safe and untouchable because someone's bound to get hurt if they lay a finger on you. In addition, they're ability to unleash the animal in you has been tested and proven. Take it from me. And lastly, there is also the ultimate challenge of seeing them change for the good because of you.

4. IT's in his kiss.

From the softest, most genteel grazing of his lips against mine down to the most passionate lip locking session, there's no better way to express one's love and desire than through a kiss. I have always been a romantic and I grew up being all goo goo eyed when I see kissing scenes in the movie, believing in the magic that dissolves everything around you in that one, passionate moment, sending the two of you to a state of (temporary)euphoria. Sadly though, not alot of men don't have this ability to send you to the heavens with one kiss... considering most, if not all would slober your entire face like a dog or choke you with his tongue in his weird version of a french kiss. And bad breathe is also a killer... So guys, please.... save yourself from the embarassment of having garlic breathe after dinner... invest on mints...

* I love thick, luscious lips. It's a treat seeing a guy with soft, powty lips bite their lower lip. :)

5. Brains

Nothing turns me off than a pretty face with no substance to boot. And this goes with women as well. Intellectual stimulation is as important as physical stimulation. So you got a face that will put Tom Cruise or Denzel Washington to shame and a hot bod to boot. But, If you can't atleast carry a sensible conversation with a girl, I don't think you'd be going anywhere with them.

*IN CASE YOU DON'T KNOW:

Contrary to popular belief, Queen Cleopatra was never really pretty, though she has captivated some of the most influential men in her time. The secret to her strong sex appeal was her sharp wisdom and intelligence.

6. Sense of Humor

Believe or not, A person's sense of humor is an indicator of a his IQ.

7. great dancers are great lovers

and it's no rocket science guys.... A guy who knows how to groove on the dancefloor most likely knows how to groove in bed...

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cgull8m profile image

cgull8m  says:
2 years ago

Since I am a guy I will keep a note of it :)

Paraglider profile image

Paraglider  says:
2 years ago

Bet Cleopatra's maidservants were great make-up artists though ;)

tinyteddy profile image

tinyteddy  says:
2 years ago

awe some  sungoddess,

  i cannot  become  your  fan  again  can  i? lol

  you  are a thinking  woman  and    an intellectually  and  romantically  provoking one  too

  great job

 would  like  to  know  more  about your  mind which is shooting magic

sun goddess profile image

sun goddess  says:
2 years ago

yep... but nothing could cover up a rather muscular frame... queen cleopatra didn't have the delicate, feminine body most people think she did... :) but, thanks for bringing that up... :)

thanks for the comments guys... appreciate it...

kindia  says:
2 years ago

hi how r u

can u make a friend me

nadeem

esocial profile image

esocial  says:
2 years ago

I'll go along with the dancing part, assuming we're talking about SKILLED dancers. Not the creeps at the nightclubs who grind up all over you!

clvngodess profile image

clvngodess  says:
2 years ago

Confidence, humor, ethical behavior, courage, compassion. Notice none of this has to do with a dress, a certain apendage, bank account, status, a type of car driven, the type of job, materialism, or any of that.

Imagine....

tassietiger64 profile image

tassietiger64  says:
2 years ago

Hi Well Said seeing I am a horny guiy, can you groove in bed ha ha ha mmmmmmmmm love to try it with you.

sun goddess profile image

sun goddess  says:
2 years ago

totally agree with you clvngoddess... :) sex perse is overrated...

About-The-Home profile image

About-The-Home  says:
2 years ago

Not sure I agree with your "bad boy with a good heart" section.

Can you have it both ways?

Straight Arrow

chantelg4 profile image

chantelg4  says:
2 years ago

oh so true, great article!

derekcaulfield  says:
2 years ago

im a guy but it's a good article

AaronIsOnaRoll profile image

AaronIsOnaRoll  says:
2 years ago

I can see your point about the fun and excitement of a bad boy (I use to have a bad girl fetish). ;) It's the same reason people love vampires. The thrill of danger and the allure of power can all be extremely exciting. But don't forget that you wake up the next morning with a big purple spot on your neck and a splitting headache from all that sunlight coming in your window. Prince charming is nowhere to be found. And that's just with a bad boy. I hate to even think of what happens the next morning after being with a vampire. ;) All you girls out there better be careful. Girls who have a bad boy fetish end up lonely older women with only their fond memories to keep them warm at night, not to mention a few divorces on the resume`. A zebra don't often change his stripes. That bad boy will trade you in for a younger, blonder model and go right on being his bad boy self. If you think you can completely tame a wild animal just ask Roy of Siegfried and Roy. ;)

Good luck,

Interesting Nice Guy

beachbum_gabby profile image

beachbum_gabby  says:
2 years ago

I like a guy with a bad bot appeal. ^__^ How do you consider a sexy girl?

beachbum_gabby profile image

beachbum_gabby  says:
2 years ago

I like a guy with a bad boy appeal. ^__^ How do you consider a sexy girl?

compu-smart profile image

compu-smart  says:
2 years ago

Nice article!! Im a guy that can groove in bed better than on the dance floor!!

socialkittn profile image

socialkittn  says:
2 years ago

Arms? I love nice toned arms...nice mouth, has to be funny and intelligent.

rolandfrasier profile image

rolandfrasier  says:
2 years ago

Hey Sungoddess! Great hub and good insights for the guys too! :-)

As far as kissing goes, I would love to get your feedback on my Guy's Guide to Kissing to see if it would be "in his kiss" following my suggestions there.

Thanks again for a great hub!

Cheers,

Roland

victorizuogu  says:
2 years ago

Well, its different strokes for different people. Whatever turns you on is in you!!!

Briana Faye profile image

Briana Faye  says:
2 years ago

Intriguing Hub. I really enjoyed it. And I totally agree about the eyes.... if you have great eyes, you capture my attention....

sun goddess profile image

sun goddess  says:
2 years ago

i dunno what it is about these bad boys that i find so enticing after all these years... heart breaks and all...

On the other hand, for girls? I think it's the ability to be effortlessly chic, no matter what they wear... wether it be a pair of jeans, flip flops and shirts. And less make up... AND CONFIDENCE... nothing turns heads and exudes that appealing aura than a woman who knows how to flaunt it.

read my newest blog about how to be sexy...

anuj1984 profile image

anuj1984  says:
2 years ago

um... i am not a bad boy..

i dont have a sense of humor..

very low IQ...

dont know how to dance..

dont look like tom cruise

... got any suggestions for me ...

and oh yes something i almost forgot to tell you .. i am NOT gay...

:-)

stephhicks68 profile image

stephhicks68  says:
2 years ago

This is great! I will admit that I LOVE a man who can dance, and like esocial says, really dance not just grind around on the dance floor.

baban78 profile image

baban78  says:
2 years ago

Hey Sun Goddess ! Great writing skills , great hub ! As for the ladies that complain that guys grind all over their behind , shame on you , because we wouldn't be able to do that if you wouldn't let us and even more , encourage us . If some of you like a little bit of grinding , who am I to refuse you , besides  to me this feels like a free lap dance ; but if I'm dancing with a woman that don't like grinding , she'll know how to protect her righteous and beautiful booty and she'll have no problem on passing that information to me in a heart beat .

juve profile image

juve  says:
2 years ago

really?

khallil214 profile image

khallil214  says:
2 years ago

no Comment at this time... am new here guy.. c u Nxt time!

Jykeith Comal profile image

Jykeith Comal  says:
2 years ago

I can dance ;) but to answer your question....u reminded me of one of my x's in college.

RioTheYorkiePoo profile image

RioTheYorkiePoo  says:
2 years ago

Very simple: CONFIDENCE!

It's a natural...Even if there is a need of some

"Human enhancement"! :-)

sun goddess profile image

sun goddess  says:
2 years ago

totally agree with you RioTheYorkiePoo. Guess I forgot to mention that... :) But human enhancement? I wouldn't really buy that... THE SIZE OF THE BOAT NEVER MATTERS... IT'S THE MOTION OF THE OCEAN... :) I think you get the gist...

Jykeith Comal profile image

Jykeith Comal  says:
2 years ago

I think lolipops are sexy :) lol

Dr. LG profile image

Dr. LG  says:
2 years ago

a cute butt can't hurt!

Jykeith Comal profile image

Jykeith Comal  says:
18 months ago

i wish u well in all you do

blondepoet profile image

blondepoet  says:
10 months ago

great hub.I must admit the eyes do it for me too

Travis Pyle profile image

Travis Pyle  says:
7 months ago

blah blah blah i love what my girl has to offer

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