create your own

What Does a Woman Really Want

83
rate or flag this page

By lindagoffigan


 There is a popular song that goes like this:  All you need is love.  That is what a woman really want.  The love can be from a boyfriend, a husband, or a partner.  Love covers a broad range of emotions and the woman would like to be able to release these emotions to someone who will return her love with the same commitment. 

Love encompasses commitment because no woman wants to be a part of a group of women vying for the attention of a man.  Once the man has made the commitment to be in a relationship most of what a woman wants would have been fulfilled.  Now it is just a matter of getting the man she loves to the altar and to seal those wedding vows for a secure future of love and happiness.

Sounds like a fairy tale or a love story and that is what most women want.  Because of a woman's tenacity to be flexible with what her man wants for the sake of love, many women have agreed to live together without the benefit of holy matrimony.  This is a disservice to the relationship because marriage is still a socially acceptable way of showing that a woman is loved.  It is socially acceptable  of the times for a couple to share living quarters but that is basically not what women want. 

A woman wants a man to think that she is just as worthy to walk down the aisle that she is sure that her mate's mother did.  No matter what the acceptable forms of living together is in society, the expression of love should mean that a commitment is made. The two can live together legally to protect and provide assurance if any kids are born as a result of the union.  If men were to replace women when it comes to "shacking up" they would not live with out being married.  But because of the woman's gentle nature and always wanting to please her man, she may opt to be with him under any circumstance.  Those kinds of living together instead of being married circumstances, however, is not what most women want.  If a woman says that it is okay for the two of you to live together because she loves you so much then she is lying.

Most women want love and they want that love to be clearly visible to the world with the show of that wedding ring on her left hand.  Marrige is not an old fashion thing to do and the concept of marrying because two people are in love is not a thing of the past.  Women  know that the ring finger has a love route  that goes directly to the heart of her love. 

Why should she want less because the guy  she fell in love with does not believe in marriage.  If he does not believe in marriage did he does not believe in love.  If he does not believe in love then how can he claim to be in love with you?  Doesn't he trust his judgement and can be assured because of his own sentiments that he have found the one?  If he is still looking then he is still looking for the one and you should not waste your time with him.  In a live in relationship you  produce  a child without any security except an "I Love You."  Most women want the security of marriage although it feels good to hear those three words.

Women want a relationship of love sealed with marriage and fellows even though it may be agreed upon that marriage in not a part of what you do, the girl never gives up on getting married.  Friendship is fine but if you want to make her the one then what women really want is a relationship of love.  A woman really wants  with all of the trimmings of a wedding  including the wedding cake with those two little statures on it symbolizing the two of you.

You can not quote the divorce rate as a reason not to make that big step into marriage.  Each woman thinks that she has the ability to make the relationship work because she is so much in love.  She walks into marriage thinking that the love of her life will share a lifetime relationship together Of the divorces rates that overpopulate the statistics in broken relationship, each one of those women went into marriage knowing that she was in love with the only person that was meant for her. omen like to have their freedom too and would have made an equal concession to seal the love with wedding vows. Call it a romance or call it wanting to belong to someone, all of those women did not go into marriage thinking of getting divorced.  If that was the case, pre-nuptials would be commonplace instead of just in Hollywood and would have been incorporated into the marriage certificate.

Women want the commitment of love sealed  with marriage so that there will be a continuance and maybe one day her kids would say that they would like to have a relationship like Mom and Dad.  Women really do believe that love is forever and forever though scary to most guys mean that she is making sacrifices for her partner as well.  It is not a one way situation when it comes to a commitment of love.  Most women are up for the challenges of love when it comes to getting what they really want and that is an enduring and  loving relationship of commitment.

Print   —   Rate it:  up  down  flag this hub

Comments

RSS for comments on this Hub

rvsource profile image

rvsource  says:
3 weeks ago

My thoughts are that a women wants "love, respect and security"

Of course I could be wrong!

Jeff

lindagoffigan profile image

lindagoffigan  says:
3 weeks ago

rvsource, thank you for your comment.

You know, I think that love encompasses all of those attributes inclusive of respect and security. Love is a very big word and have very wide perimeters when it comes to human emotions. Your contribution, rvsource, is greatly appreciated.

Submit a Comment

Members and Guests

Sign in or sign up and post using a hubpages account.


optional


  • No HTML is allowed in comments, but URLs will be hyperlinked
  • Comments are not for promoting your hubs or other sites

working