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What Girls Want from a Relationship

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By lindagoffigan


Committment, honesty, trustworthiness and Love is what a girl wants

A girl wants from a relationship  is described in the popular song by Beyonce, "If I Was a Boy." The video listed a host of desirable attributes but the word that stands out is commitment.   What Girls Want from a Relationship is not getting information and providing advice from a video, however. Commitment is a huge word and the sound of it to some guys sound like confinement because it means that their playboy days are over. Unless he is totally in love with you, commitment will probably turn him away. Commitment is what most girls want in a relationship and that is mostly what girls want out of a relationship. There is no ways around it guys, girls want guys  to be commited to the relationship.

There are a whole host of nice words to add, but the truth is other than love that should be a given in a relationship, the other huge word girls want to have  in a relationship is honesty. Honesty is a word that most people equate to Honest Abe but in actuality, a girl just wants a guy to be true to his word. If he tells her that he loves her, then you would not expect to see him trying to meet someone else. If he tells his girl that he is trustworthy, then he should not back out of any promises that he made in the relationship.

Commttment, honesty and trustworthiness sounds like statute of limitations in a relationship but truly these behaviors should come naturally and without effort if the guy is really in love with the girl. Guys do however have propensity to cover their tracks and is aware that a few half truths thrown in with a few lies makes for a believable lie. If you are suspicious of the trustworthiness of your guy, then it is best to move on. You do not want to be played. You are with this guy for the realness of a relationship even just starting out. You should not have to be playing cops and robbers when you would rather be playing Romeo and Juliet.

Girls are sensitive beings and are inclined to believe that truly a guy was put on this earth for her. Girls sometimes have a type of  guy in which they would like to be involved. Girls tend to lessen their expectations when they think that they may have found the right one. Girls do  not lessen your expectations of what kind of guy you want. You should  get to know more about what makes the guy a good person. Girls, after you think that you have found your guy, you can not  change  him to the kind of guy you would like to be with.

You can not change a guy to be your type. You may get the idea that he will do anything for you and most guys do try to please their girlfriends, but you are walking on unexplored  territory if you try to change his psychic of who he has been years before he knew you existed. Work with what you have girls and change what you can change which is yourself for the better. Self  improvement is always a welcome change. By the way, you should not change anything, either, about yourself to please a guy. You are a unique individual and your uniqueness is what attracted him to you so do not change who you are as a person. Sure we all can stand to lose a few pounds but you do not need to change your personality from what it was when the two of you were first met.

What girls want from  a relationship is love and that one word should take care of the committment, trust, honesty, changes and any other pinacle of the relationship.

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Jenny30 profile image

Jenny30  says:
5 months ago

wow. I found the information very valuable! Its true girls want honesty in a relationship. Its really the only way to make a relationship work in my opinion.

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lindagoffigan  says:
5 months ago

Jenny30 thank you for your comment and concurring that honesty is very important in a relationship.

lion9999  says:
4 months ago

hello , nice 2meet u here. hope2be real friends

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lindagoffigan  says:
4 months ago

lion9999 nice to meet you too and thanks for the comment.

Elusen profile image

Elusen  says:
4 months ago

I like your topic and approach. You write on subjects that people want to know more about and care about. I write on some of the same topics from a man's perspective. Women are often "more in touch" with these aspects of life and it is very helpful to read a woman's honest opinions on relationships, etc. Thank you!

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lindagoffigan  says:
4 months ago

Elusen, thank you for your comment. What a joy to learn about a man's perspective on relationship. I would have liked for you to have included a link. I will visit you after responding to my comments to read your relationship hubs.

\Brenda Scully  says:
4 months ago

niely writtenand very true

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lindagoffigan  says:
4 months ago

\Brenda Scully, thank you for your comment. I appreciate your compliment and sentiment.

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lindagoffigan  says:
4 months ago

\Brenda Scully, thank you for your comment. I appreciate your compliment and sentiment.

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lindagoffigan  says:
4 months ago

\Brenda Scully, thank you for your comment. I appreciate your compliment and sentiment.

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