WHAT MEN WANT: THE REAL TRUTH

Men who are married and men who are not married have one thing in common. They are always looking for excitement and adventure. It is as the psychologists claim a carryover from the days of the caveman. Men seek challenges because in order to survive they were daily challenged. If you are going to eat you have to hunt. So, keep in mind that men need excitement, adventure and challenge.

Given the right circumstances those needs will kick in. The football player, the hunter, even the guy who seems nothing more than a couch potato will rise to a challenge. Some would say it has to do with hormones. There are times that the hormones are jumping and times they are not. When a man faces a challenged or is presented with an adventure the hormones kick up a few notches. Deadlines at work up the hormone level as do playing an intense video game. When a bikini clad woman walks by the hormones go up to boil.

Now for the REAL truth.
A man doesn’t care to know a woman in order to have sex with her. He is being manipulated by those needs of excitement, challenge and adventure. The hormones have been activated and he sees only a sex object. He is not looking for a soulmate, he isn’t out to play prince charming and he isn’t thinking spending the rest of his life with her. Physical attraction and what comes next is all that matters.

There are some women who are “turn ons” to certain men. When the physical and chemical come into close quarters sanity, chastity and morality go out the window. The adventure and the challenge kick into high gear as motivation. Her intelligence and her personality are only minor players in the scheme of things. What he is after is the physical contact. In other words it is her body that he wants to play with. That’s the real truth.

Why do married men cheat?
Married men are bored and seek sexual adventure. They are not after a replacement or a caring person to share their inner feelings. All they want to do is to bury their nub in warm flesh they’ve never explored. They risk everything - sanity out the window - just for the opportunity to satisfy the lust of adventure. The sad truth is that when a man is “in heat” any willing partner will do. It has nothing to do with looks except for bragging rights. So, when you hear he was “with her” it becomes clear why.

The real truth is a man wants something he has never had. Once satisfied he will endeavor to seek the next “never had”.  Remember that “never had” is a naked woman lying under his thrusting penis.

There are many, many men who have “love” constraints they keep them from places where their adventure/challenge will kick in. They avoid certain women because they are aware of the rise in hormone levels. Some men never cheat but very, very few don’t have moments when adventure/challenge and hormones don’t consider it.

Men are like women in that they are creatures of the physical. Under the right circumstances, with proximity to the right person, the odds of challenge/adventure rise.