Men just don't get it when it comes to sex and love. Relationship Experts are saying that the way a woman dresses has a lot to do with the results of the relationship. Simply speaking, these relationship experts are saying that the more provocative a woman dresses, the more focused men will be on sex. In a matter of seconds, a man figures out if he want to have sex with you and that is the first thing that goes across his mind when men see most women. To slow down the process, women are told not to dress in such a way that will provoke a man to think about sex. If he thinks about sex, then the possibility of love is distanced and taken out of the picture. In essence, you have to learn how to dress to impress your date.

Some women are just sexy and can wear a sack and bring sexiness to the garment. The saying goes that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Many men have the imagination to look beyond the sack, so dress should not be an indicator of whether or not a woman is sexy or not. It is not suggested that women wear a sack to test their sexiness. Women know what they need to do to attract men and are more concerned about where or not the attraction elevates to love or stays at the attraction level of sex.

Thoughts of this nature in reference to sex is construed differently between men and women. Men and women think differently about the emotional feeling of love and the physical feeling of sex between men and women. There is no doubt that the emotional feeling of love has staying power that most women want to be a part of their relationship. As far as men are concerned, the thought process differs and men do not place as much emphasis on love as women do. Men are just not made that way and it is up to the woman to get to an place in the relationship that she is not doing all of the work to keep the relationship going and not for the most part placed on sex.

The burden of representation is placed upon the woman. Her actions such as the way she dresses has a bearing on what a man thinks about her sexually, it is when they began to talk and communicate when the possiblity of love blooms are blosoms.. A woman can be sexy in a pantsuit and most teenage girls do not have a market for clothes that do not show their youthful figure. Hormones are raging at that age for most sexes and invaribly it is the girl who equalizes that playing filed to bring substance to the relationship instead of just having sex.

Unless women are supposed to walk around like Indian women shroud from head to toe, the fashion is not going to change. So the inferences on topical wear such as the way a woman dresses is not a catalyst for men to distinguish sex from love. Once the relationship has began and common interests and common goals are shared is when the viability of the relationship can be considered. Now it was just a matter of seeing if the attraction was love or just sex.

Only the two people involved will have the answer to that question and men may have a problem because as written in the comment there is a communication problem.

The way women attracts men has little to do with the lasting relationship of love that most women want. Women should not be put on the spot and change the way they dress because of who they may attract. Clothes are very much a part of a woman's personality and that part of her should not change because she may be sending out the "wrong" signal.

Women should dress appropriately for occassions as always. When it comes to relationship matters the two people involved are the only ones who can prove if they are truly in love of if the main atraction between the two of them is just sex.

Because men do not get it, the latter sex will register higher to them than love on the importance quota than with women. That is just the way that it is. The decision is still basically up to the woman if she has a man who really loves her or only want her for the pleasure he can receive from her. Sex or love, men just don't get it. Some women do and they are the ones who are not seeking professional counseling to fix something that was broken a long time ago. Women who get it would have been the one who was fortunate or lucky enough however you want to phrase to find a man who wanted her more than her body but for her heart and soul that makes for an enduring relationship of longevity.