Women were created to appease men. Would you agree? Or women were born to provoke men? Totally.

There are varieties of women. What women want is just so simple, but men are trying hard to find the exact formula about understanding women than solving a mathematical equation or balancing the atom and nucleon in the periodic table. For men, it’s so easy to follow Einstein’s formula than to follow women. It’s easy to chase cars and play poker than to understand women. And, it’s easy for them to walk away than to understand them.

So, the ultimate question, what women really want?

1. In general, women always want to be love. It’s their basic nature to be emotional and demonstrative. When a woman shows how much she loves you, it’s her ways. She meant it and don’t brush it off. Showing a descent PDA is normal but if it affect the moral code conduct, UNCUT version or with adult content, you can brush it off.

2. Women want to be heard, that’s why when they talk about their personal life, story problems or life’s struggles- it doesn’t mean to be a baggage that they’re going to pass on to you. And, for men- don’t interpret it as a problem that needs to be fixed. Women don’t want to feel that they are pathetic or defective. When they tell problems and life situations, it’s called- “relationship building”.

3. Women want confidence, personal confidence. If you have confidence to show off yourself for a woman, you might sweep her off and made her fall for you. Not boasting or bragging (totally not-not) Personal confidence is different.

4. Women want an assertive type not overly confidence-aggressive type of men. Being assertive means you have to respect, understand, love and care yourself while being able to share that loving, understanding and caring with respect for a woman in such a healthy manner.

5. Women want respect; it doesn’t mean that if a woman is totally over head and heels in love with you, you can do whatever you want. Respect is vital. Don’t treat her like a trash. She deserves to be special. The reason- she’s a woman.

6. Most women suffered from PMS, so if you sense about a woman’s mood swings- you must have been known.

7. Women want status. A woman wants to know if the guy they’re been dating with can truly support her and the children when she starts building her own family.

8. Women want her own time. When a woman needs time to dress up for the party, let her- the result will be at your own content. Women have basic instincts. You don’t have to lie. Telling the truth is all what women want.

9. As compass is for men, trademark is for women. A woman wants to help you when you don’t know the direction. Don’t shut her up, she knows the way through. And, one more thing, she’s not afraid to ask directions.

10. Women want equality, that’s why when a woman roars, she oversee inequality and unfairness treatment or gender bias in her surroundings.

Women and men are totally different. There are various studies about men and women’s brain anatomy, which function in different ways.

Women are like a fragile glass. When you touch her heart, she will cry. It’s not just water from her inside. It’s her real emotion. A woman’s heart is soft as velvet. She wants to care too and show her real affection towards you. If you break her heart, she may forgive you but if you cheat on her, forget it- she will beat you up really bad.

Since most of the Hollywood women speaks about sexiness and hotness; how to be damn beautiful under the needle and knife; how to catch a guy and lose it in ten days; or how to dress sexy or whatsoever- it sums up that women are meant to be “a mess”. Not really, people shouldn’t base their analysis or studies in such a one place alone. Hollywood is Hollywood. What they’ve influence in our society doesn’t mean that all women are following the same thing. Hollywood women’s job is to stay beautiful, even if to the point of faking it.

But, for some women; mess is something that women conceived but men failed to understand. Women are women. Shoes are for women. Bags and jewelleries are meant to please them. But, these things are not their life. Surely, if men give them jewelleries as a token of appreciation about their beauties- women’s smile and thank you are enough to pay for that.