What are the qualities that I should look for when I choose my life partner?
66Desirable Qualities in a life partner
I think the qualities I would look for in a life partner is Loyalty,intelligence,independence,respectfulness.Also being healthy,successful,charming,family oriented and attractiveness is nice too.
I want my future husband to be loyal to me .Meaning be faithful to me not to cheat on me.I want him to be there for me through thick and thin,ups and downs.Since I want to spend my life with him.Just like I want my friends and family to be loyal .
I want him to be intelligent.I mean to have a diploma from high school .He doesn’t have to have a degree from college if he’s already successful.I want him to know some history and about politics.Maybe we can have some deep conversations.He can teach me new things also I don’t want a dumb father,since I plan to have kids.
I weanty him to be independent.So he doesn’t depend on me or his mom for example.He should make his own money.He should afford to take me out on the town.I want him to be strong.
I want him to be respectful.Respectful of himself ,like not drinking too much or doing drugs.He can also respect him self by being around positive people,like his friends.Also to respect women especially me.That means not calling me out of name and degrading me not being abusive and appreciating me.
I want him to be healthy.I want him to be in shape.I prefer him not to be overweight or manorexic.I want him not to smoke .I don’t want him to pass on bad genes to my family if there's a lot of health problems. A course he doesn’t have to be perfectly healthy ,since I’m not ,but as healthy as he can be.
I want him to be family oriented.I want him to be close to his mother and father and other family members.I want him to want a family with me a couple kids.I want him to put family first.Family before career.
I also prefer him to be tall dark and handsome .Since we will have kids.I want him to be thin,have pretty eyes,and nice skin.I like short or kinda long hair on a guy.I put looks last because I know it’s not the most important thing to look for since looks can fade.The other qualities I look for are very important.
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I forgot those two things.It is also nice for a life partner to be a christian since I am.I haven't been to church in a while though.
That is amazing & I can relate exactly to how u feel.











hubgl says:
11 months ago
I think you are on the right track but my experience as taught me that the two things that matter most are:
Love: True love overcomes all short comings
Spiritual health: This is the true foundation of everything. All of the character traits you have mentioned are fundamental is your relationship to God and your spouse. When you state your vows in a traditional marriage they need to have a foundation. What foundation is there if there is nothing greater than just your words?
My wife and I have been married 50 years and our love is as strong as the day we exchanged our vows.
Jerry