What can I do To heal My lonely Heart?
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hi
what to do to heal your lonely heart?
here are some tips.
- make your heart a vacuum first which means your heart is not lonely but suffocated and overladen with terrifying nightmarish thoughts of what made you lonely
- get over the loss - so easily said but difficult to carry out provided you indulge in something else , hobbies you love , deeds which make you happy etc.,
- never be closetedat a room or workplace or house or in front of tv- because it will compel you to recall old provoking thoughts
- change of place to forget or bring in new memories chase memories of the past , try replacing with new ones instead of rewinding
- divide time and be busy doing things you love if you love art, painting , decorating, charity, writing, reading, travelling ,cooking,sport etc.,
- avoid friends who would recall the past you dont need sympathy but empathy understand the difference
- go to your childhood days and places where you have grown up and where you had moments of success that will boost your self confidence
- avoid romance- period, watching romantic movies reading romantic novels your heart is not yet ready
- plot how many times you smile in a day-make your self happy delve in deeds which make you feel forgetful
- never drink alcohol when you are low - always use alcohol to lift up spirits
- just a matter of time - only time heals the lonely heart so be patient
- romance should happen at its own pace-dont force yourself into ramnce or relationship
- cultivate a new hobby your loneliness may become counter productive
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Yes these are good options and a lonley heart takes time to heal.
Sometims when buried instead of addressed and got out in the open tends to make you feel less in control of your life.
The broken heart comes usually from not being able to contol the train wreck your life became.
Usually after a heart is broken the only way to repair is like when cancer is removed from a perfectly once healthy body.
Cut away the bad piece by piece and pray to God that they got it all.
Then try to live your life to the fullest.
Talking out your hurts and insecurities can and does help.
Never judge ones soul as maybe they just needed to spit out the cancer that once invaded their once perfect body of life.
good options, good hub
Love the photo's//love hurts/it takes time to heal...I know...It is slow you go through so many different feelings...every western song i heard was written just for me...tears...lonliness..no appetite....no work done... a great loss of weight a counslor...pills....
then into a full get up and go mode..worked too hard...made cookies for him when he would come by to help..33 years down the drain in a moment of youthfull passion..a younger woman...
Then God came back into my life full force..No more pain (well almost) but great feelings again..hope..happiness...family..and letting him go...finally..it took me over 1 1/2 years to pull myself together. i am ME again...now venting here on the HUBS G-Ma :O) Hugs
These are all great.. but i think.. the best is to get a dog... trust me.. you will heal your lonely heart instantly.
A lonely heart? Let's see...how did I heal mine? Joined a community service club, where I get to exercise my need for detailed organization and be obsessive compulsive without offending anyone. I went out almost every weekend just to have something to do, which in turn exhausted me, so that when my head hit the pillow, I was out. Didn't have enough awake time to mull over all that was wrong. Allowed myself to shed a few tears when I did remember the cause of my lonely heart...crying is great form of venting, when done in moderation. Dressed up at every chance I got, practiced being sarcastic and witty (this really gives a new perspective on anything difficult). And when nothing else worked, gritted my teeth and faced the hearthache...so the result of all of it?
Well, i'm still single, but much happier and more grounded. I have more friends, more dates and a sunnier disposition...eventually, it'll be more friends, one partner, and still a sunny disposition. :-)
thanks
moral ethics, ma johnson and shailhy
especially shailhy wishes for good company
Great Reply..Thanxs for the time you put into this.
thx candie
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ang3lz says:
9 months ago
Neat hub! A lot of us wonder what can we do toheal our lonely hearts..this is cool.